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Has anyone noticed how its always white women who complain that their husbands are too close to their moms, but you never hear a black, hispanic, or asian woman complain.

How come white women hate it when their husband or boyfriends is close to his mom?

2006-12-25 03:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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The majority of them don't care.

2006-12-25 03:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

We can't say all white girls feel that way but a majority of white girls have not seen the closeness between mothers and sons so the get baffled when they see that in their own life. Blacks and more than them the asians are used to see the family bond so they don't react like their other counter parts. It is really a mystery that one woman fails to understand another woman so commonly.

2006-12-25 04:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Because those weirdo idiotic women tend to think that they are mamma's boys and that they love and respect their mothers more than them (which they should... their moms gave them life). Basically, It's most likely jealousy, but I know what you're talking about. My mom is Filipino and she's perfectly fine about the close mother-son relationship my dad and his mom have. My white aunt on the other hand hates the fact that my uncle is so close to his mom. She always complains and get mad at him and tries to start arguments when he spend a lot of time with his mom. It's all just really stupid if you ask me.

2006-12-25 03:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Quentin's Mommy♥ 3 · 1 1

Well, in Asian culture, families are traditionally close and tight knit. If something big happens to you or if some juicy gossip about you comes to light, everyone will hear about it before you go to bed.

I don't know what the tradition is with white families but since many have been Americanized over time, I think some of their traditional values have been phased out.

2006-12-25 03:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

That is a very broad generalization. Have you considered the fact that maybe it has more to do with the couple's relationship than the woman's race? Also, maybe the woman in question doesn't have such a stable relationship with her mom. Everyone is different.

2006-12-25 03:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

there is actual no longer something incorrect with this way of relationship. yet we black women people have a harder time relationship white adult adult males by using fact of many motives, yet i'm going to hold out 2. One is that some black women all people continues to be closed minded and could no longer date exterior their race and the different is the double conventional and the stigma surrounding black women people relationship white adult adult males. I desire white adult adult males and choose on no longer something besides friendship with black adult adult males, and that i understand that i'm no longer a subject-loose form of black woman. This staying with "the brothas" is an impediment for black women people considering their "brothas" are no longer staying with them.This additionally motives white adult adult males to directly anticipate that considering we are black women people, we in basic terms like black adult adult males, and this for some, alongside with me, is actual fake. the different ingredient is the double conventional surrounding black woman and white adult adult males relationship. the comparable black adult adult males that date white women people stands out as the comparable ones to sentence and make exciting of a black woman that's with a white guy. additionally the black community frowns upon one in each of those pairing and because maximum black women all people is relatives oriented, they do no longer desire to bypass against their relatives. those are in basic terms some the rationalization why you do no longer see black woman and white guy paring too usually. yet once you go with for this way of relationship, do no longer enable absolutely everyone stop you. good luck!!! *u*

2016-10-18 23:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by lander 4 · 0 0

You have it wrong...a woman can judge a man by his level of respect to his mother. Doesn't mean the mother runs his or their lives. But if a man bad mouths his mother the odds are high he'll have no respect for his wife either.

2006-12-25 03:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by EchoAnn 2 · 1 0

Who says that they hate it. I was very close to my Mother-in -Law while she was alive. My wife loved the fact that I could have a very good relationship.

2006-12-25 03:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1 0

ı am asian and if man respects his mom he respects all the women so it is important for us. we dont feel jelous of the old lady unless she puts her nose very much in our personal life. beside we call them (mother in laws) mom too.

2006-12-25 03:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by zubeyde 3 · 1 1

Culturally white people have more distant relationships with family.

2006-12-25 03:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara 6 · 2 1

it is not just white women.. that is very stereotypical.. it is any race.. and not all situations.. women just do not like the men that can not cut the cord.

2006-12-25 04:15:28 · answer #11 · answered by Emi 3 · 0 2

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