how can i get my parents to allow me to get my earpierce.?

Question

how can i get my parents to be cool with it. i want a diamond stud on both my ears. how can i get my parents to allow and be cool with me wearing big shirts sagging down my pants with long baggy pants. i am allowed to listen to rap, it is just my dad isn't that cool with it. how can i get him to be cool with it. same with my sister, except 25 percent the music my sister listens to is hip hop but not the kind i listen to, she likes 25 percent music pop( i don't have a problem with) 50 percent heavy metal emo rock music( big extreme problem. how can i get my family, friends, and other people cool with these things. my dad thinks only girls get earrings. i am 12 years old and i look a lot older. everyone thinks that. the reason could be because i am not responsible. i don't clean up my room once in my life. i don't do chores, help out in my dad's jewelry shop. got bad grades like 20 30s 40 60s 70s all my life and each year i promise to get good grades. i misbehave at home and school, tro

Answer 1

I told you to stay off the computer while your grandparents are here, so comedownstairs now. We will talk about earpiercing when you turn 9.

Answer 2

Your parents should let you find your self, my mum and dad where very suspicious and controlling with me for a long time and it drove me to depression, if I had kids I would rather they were happy than made to be something there not.

But then I also think rather than worrying about what you look like you should concentrate on school, that’s how I fixed my life I got at least b+ at school and 60% of the time it was A's I was determined to do well on my GCSE's and I did all my own washing cleaning and if my parents were working I’d clean the house just so I would feel good that it looked nice because of what I had done, an I was your age when I was doing that, I was mature though.

I can guarantee you that you will get nothing in life unless you give 100% in every thing you do. Just clean up your act and they'll come round and you wont be unemployed when your 35 ether. xx

when i say find your self i mean experiment, you will not dress like a rapper when your 16 you'll be a goth or something, if you do still look like a rapper when you leave school then chances are you wont get taken seriously when you got for job interviews, you will realize that when your older. but still as i said you have to experiment. if you get desperate there will be girls at your school who can Peirce your ears for you it will hurt but they'll do it for a fiver.

Answer 3

I am an atheist, politically pro-choice but personally pro-life. I am pregnant right now with my fourth child. I go in for an ultrasound on Thursday, to screen for physical signs of Downs and other genetic anomalies. If the tech sees any physical manifestations, the doctor will order blood tests and/or an amnio to produce a definite result. My husband and I would never terminate the pregnancy even if the baby has Downs. No matter what, this is the child we created together and we love it and want it. I cannot imagine anyone terminating a pregnancy because it is not the child they imagined or hoped for -- the baby you make is your responsibility. We are happy to do the screening because if there should be a challenge presented to us by our baby's health, the sooner we can prepare for it the better. If we need to outfit the nursery for a special needs child, we will. We would also join support groups ahead of time and learn all we could from other parents. The idea of "culling" out undesirables from the gene pool is repulsive. We are not perfect as individuals, we are not perfect as a species. We are humans, and one of the greatest things humans can do is care for those who need it. .

Answer 4

you are one selfish brat! and shameless on top of it! you want every one around you to change to suit you but are not ready to adjust to them! you want your parents to get you diamond studs but are not even ready to repay them by working hard and improvng your own grades or even helping at home! above all you very coolly confess that you isbehave at home and school.
You better wake up now young man!your parents have taken **** from you for 12 years but let me tell you the world outside wont. the day your parents throw you out (and the way you are going, its gonna be pretty soon) that's it. your life is over. coz to survive out there you need give your hundred percent. and clearly you havent learnt aything about giving yet. you have only learnt how to demand.

you still have time. turn a new leaf before everything goes out of hand or else you will end up as one big looser!

Answer 5

first you gotta be sure this is what you really want... because earrings are just a trend, and it will be over soon.. in my school its already uncool for boys to have them and for girls to have more then 2! i donno if where you are its still hot or not, but in my town it was and its over... i am stick witch a 3rd hole and i don't have an earring in it anymore because its just not as cool anymore.. but if u really want one then tell ur dad, this is who u are and he can't change it!make it clear its what u really want and that u wont have peace until u get it, tell him its not that big of a thing and if u don't like them u can always take them of.. show him the rappers who have earpieces and he will see that they are not girls:P good luck

Answer 6

ummmm,well,you can ******* beg your parents hell,i'm beggin my parents if i could get a lip piercing and bellybutton piercing,or you can do somthing,like make a deal,**** i always have to do that,(Hint dont give away your age!)okay maybe part of your problem is your grades aint hight enough,like the b's,c's,and d's those are pretty low grades but hey your not the only one wit low grades i make F's lots and lots of F's and some C's and B's.wait til your 13 or 14and maybe they might give u alittle freedom

Answer 7

Be more responsible. then maybe he will let you. Seems like you answered your own question.

Answer 8

they should let u ne way.....its just the ears....if it was the bellybutton or nose or somethin then they should care..but otherwise just say it doesnt even matter....

Answer 9

eh just go get it they can't do anything its your body

Answer 10

tell them plz this will work