Family - November 2006

shes constantly shouting at me...I HAVENT DONE **** TO ER! her mum left us when she was 12....IS SHE TAKIN OUT HER ANGER ON ME?! shes really out of control...
how do i get her to listen to me? she doesnt wanna hear it....

2006-11-28 05:14:29 · 23 answers · asked by aaron 1

My stepdaughter is 15. I have been part of her life since she was 10 months old. Her dad and I got joint custody when she was 4 and when she was 6 we got full custody. Her mother doesn't have anything to do with her. Me and her dad have another child 11. Any way, Alisha (daughter) started having seizures back in October, I took her to the hospital they found that she had Phycogenic seizure and needed a Shrink so we went. The doc said she had lots and lots of problems to work out. But now she has turned it around that it is all my fault I don't understand where I went so wrong even my mother-in-law was against me and made my husband wonder. Now his excuse was that he was confused till he taked with the doc.But my whole life is falling apart cause of all this. Alisha doesn't want to go by rules she wants to gogogo and be in love and treats everyone like crap in the home, if told no she throws fits and plays dad against me. We always had a great relationship. Now she says awful things

2006-11-28 05:13:59 · 9 answers · asked by pleasehelp 1

im a single parent of 2.... social services cannot find my sons father to get child support. I am living with my mom and i just want to be on my own. Im a server and its so hard finacially to do it on my own, take care of a house, electric and all of that. Is there any help out there for me that will help me pay a house payment???

2006-11-28 05:02:12 · 5 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2

Thank you for taking time out to pray for me. I just can't tell you how much I appreciate your help...

I just need some insight, Gods wisdom and guidance so I can make the right choices... I'd also REALLY appreciate it if God would find a harmless and productive way to get my Mother and Sister's to LAY OFF - to STOP PROJECTING their issues off onto me.. and to just let ME make the choices that are right for me - not them! (I apologize for my tone...)
and, Thank You again.
God bless you all.

2006-11-28 04:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by sing & pray 2

what r ur experience and views?share wid me.

2006-11-28 04:43:14 · 6 answers · asked by cool 2

2006-11-28 04:36:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 32 and when i was 18 i charged my cousins husband with sexual assault. At the time my mom took my cousins side and my dad did nothing. i still charged him and hid my anger. since then i have been told "he wasnt a real pedophile cuz he only did it to me" and that he didnt do much and that he paid his dues by being suspended from his job and not being able to go to the states. all this from my mom. should i talk to them now that im finally dealing or should i cut them off?

2006-11-28 04:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by care_bear1108 2

2006-11-28 04:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by cheri p 1

2006-11-28 04:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by cheri p 1

My little cousin is now 8 years old and i am taking care of him till his mom can do so.I have baby sat for him for a long time probably since he was born.Anyway he has a habit of rubbing or massaging my butt when he was little it was funny but know at 8 its not especially when he does this in public.He is a shy kid and i think its a strange security thing.

2006-11-28 04:22:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 04:22:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is now 31 years old and the last place i could remember she was in westchester county

2006-11-28 04:21:13 · 3 answers · asked by Lajuana c 1

She lives with her dad right now and wants to live with me! she is 13 and has thoughts of suicide but is happy when shes with me... what can we do to help her?! Do I need to call the courts? How much will this cost cuz I am broke, can she do something? Please help!!!

2006-11-28 04:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by norini2000 1

2006-11-28 04:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

What do I do?

2006-11-28 04:03:42 · 35 answers · asked by mom5 1

My son is 13 , and I have caught him being dishonest with me a lot .
I know that at his age there is bound to be some testing of boundaries , but I need to let him know that I know puberty sucks , but that honesty is the most important thing . Any ideas on what you would have liked your parents to do?

2006-11-28 04:03:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to convince my parents to increase my pocket money but they wouldn't allow me. so i whant to know if there is anything that i will say will let them allow me to have my pocket money in a higher rate?

2006-11-28 03:55:04 · 7 answers · asked by teenangel 1

My step-sister is an emotional vampire. She calls me at work 2 or 3 times a day, then she turns around and calls me at home in the evening 3 and 4 times a day. I just recently gotten married, and last night she called me at home at 11:30 p.m then turned around and called at 12:00 midnight. Alot of times, she doesn't want anything or to talk about this guy she was seeing. (a loser). I'm at my wits end on how to deal with her. Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 03:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by stella 2

My father-in-law passed away last week and when my husband went back to work his co-workers had collected over $1,000 for him. What are we supposed to do with this money?

2006-11-28 03:51:11 · 4 answers · asked by Mommy to One 2

My firstborn was in the hospital for a month, so I was not able to bond with him. Now that he's home, I have yet to really bond with him. I had to go back to work.Well my mother in law is visiting us for about a month, pretty much to see our baby. This is her 3rd grandson. We get along fine but the problem I'm having with her is she is invading my time with my baby. She does everything with my baby. She bathes him,she feeds him, she sleeps with him, she gets up in the middle of the night with him, changes his diapers, sings to him, puts him to sleep.she does everything that I should be doing. I'm his mother and I should be bonding with him. It seems like I turn around, she's there with my son. Everytime I try to hold my son, he starts to cry and she will take him from me. She also points out the things I'm doing wrong. I tell my husband and he says "she is only here for a month" I'm afraid in that month he will think she is his mother and not me. Am I overreacting or is this an issue?

2006-11-28 03:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by cvezsays 1

Here's the deal, my sister has a child and the baby's dad pays her child support (not by court order), but whenever he takes the baby with him he doesn't gives her a cent, is that the way it should be, or is he suppose to pay her even when he keeps the baby?

2006-11-28 03:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by La Morena 2

Is there a small town out there with these features importnant to me?
1) Very low crime rate.
2) Small, quiet town.
3) Fairly warm year round.
4) IT jobs available with decent pay.

2006-11-28 03:29:39 · 6 answers · asked by jgbarber65 3

its not many places for them to go because their both don't want to be involve with social service fully

2006-11-28 02:56:41 · 8 answers · asked by enjlovers 1

my boyfriend and i have been fighting for a week because he is a inconsiderate asshole. he never has respect for me or my 3 kids, he treats me like his servant. we have been living together for 4 months and he hasn't even taken interest in my kids. now since thursday he told me to move into the living room until i can move out and get my own place. it has been almost a week and we still havent talked, on sat & sun i went with my friends to atlantic city to get away from my problems. we still haven't spoke since. i don't know what to do. i have no money saved up and no where to live. my kids have always hated him and they always will. my kids even agree with me that he should move and not us. what can i do.. should i continue sleeping on the couch or what..

2006-11-28 02:56:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

was married for 18 yrs, with one son who is 20, he's been divorced for 6 years, he started dating this woman who he said was nice at the beginning, then turned out to be crazy and psychotic, he can't hold a job, has 4 children from diff fathers, her car was just repossed and she will be kicked out of her apt for not paying rent, my boyfriend is the only realiable father who is paying child support, the other fathers just don't care, she is constantly threating him, he is a kind man, I get so upset when I see how she tries to manipulate him, esp when she threatens him with the baby that will be turning 1 in a few weeks...I have been understanding, but I feel like telling her to bug off, and respect, she curses like a sailor and she doesn't care about nothing, she wants my b/f lend her one of his cars he says no my b/f says he loves me he has no feelings for her, but I see how much he misses the baby, weI even went to buy presents for his b-day she know about me should I feel insecure

2006-11-28 02:53:29 · 5 answers · asked by reina l 1

My boyfriend and i have been fighting since thanksgiving, he is an inconsiderate person. i have been sleeping on the couch every evening since. he won't talk to me and i didn't do any thing wrong. every since thanksgiving he has been being disrespectful and ignoring my 3 kids.. i don't know what to do. i have been taking care of myself and the kids and ignoring him. don't know how much longer i can take of this, what do i do, do i still sleep on the couch or say something to him.. we have been together 5 yrs and living together 4 months.

2006-11-28 02:45:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What age is "too old" to still be living at home? I would like to move out but my mum is reluctant to see me leave. I'm 20.

2006-11-28 02:41:57 · 27 answers · asked by jennymac 2

I pay child support and she wants me to still buy him things.

2006-11-28 02:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by Cinnamon 2

I am from texas and i have recently found out that i have a 3 month old boy. the mother didnt think it was mine and now my boy has the last name of her ex boyfriend. well we have found out that the kid is mine but she will not cooperate with me in changing the name, i am going to be my sons father one way or another and i want my son to have my last name or at least have hers, not the name of some other guy that has never even seen my son. if someone can help me please give me some answers thanks!
some one please IM me on yahoo messenger and talk to me, im desperate, my name is bad_boy_6499@yahoo.com

2006-11-28 02:30:06 · 4 answers · asked by chad m 1

a girl my sis is friends w/ told my sister i was smoking in the b/r, but i wasnt the girl i was with was, my mom over heard and went through my room, she claims to have found a ciggerette but threw it away, i know shes bluffing, but she did find an aderol pill on my dresser, which belonged to the same friend i was in the b/r with.now im grounded untill i confess, but i already told her the truth she just doesnt believe me, i really should pick better friends but no one else will talk to me...i wish i could switch schools, but all the nearby schools are the same as mine....i feel like telling her that i did do it...but i cant say that cuz its not true...what should i do?

2006-11-28 02:26:16 · 30 answers · asked by So over-used 2