My stepdaughter is 15. I have been part of her life since she was 10 months old. Her dad and I got joint custody when she was 4 and when she was 6 we got full custody. Her mother doesn't have anything to do with her. Me and her dad have another child 11. Any way, Alisha (daughter) started having seizures back in October, I took her to the hospital they found that she had Phycogenic seizure and needed a Shrink so we went. The doc said she had lots and lots of problems to work out. But now she has turned it around that it is all my fault I don't understand where I went so wrong even my mother-in-law was against me and made my husband wonder. Now his excuse was that he was confused till he taked with the doc.But my whole life is falling apart cause of all this. Alisha doesn't want to go by rules she wants to gogogo and be in love and treats everyone like crap in the home, if told no she throws fits and plays dad against me. We always had a great relationship. Now she says awful things
2006-11-28 05:13:59 · 9 answers · asked by pleasehelp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is called rebellion teenage years, and power struggle. She is just pushing you so far of to see what point you will go. Place her in a behavioral facility to get better management of her behavior. It might help and restored the peace in your home, and both parents can partnership and work together to made the boundraies to be respected. Just a thought!
2006-11-28 05:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to do something with you, mutually with both of you taking place a finding out to purchase vacation to the mall, spa, video clips, or going out to devour. at the same time as you 2 are out, positioned aside time for speaking about the placement at homestead; like you 2 not getting alongside, her lack of appreciate, her not following the regulations, and so on. enable her comprehend that you at the instantaneous are not attempting to be her mom nor do you want to take administration over her existence. is clean that you do have an comprehend-how of what your stepdaughter is acquainted with; her having the ability to do in spite of the indisputable fact that she needs and on each and every occasion and the very incontrovertible fact that she's not used to authority figures. Do tell her you're taking care of her a lot as easily one of your individual and that you want to initiate over. you ought to also attempt talking to her father, he must be the universal disciplinarian as he's the organic and organic confirm-she will be able of likely take it a touch extra powerful having it come from her father. nicely proper desires
2016-11-27 19:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by lymus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im 15 and my dad married this girl named deb, at first i had a great relationship with her. then she started giving her daughter everything and me nothing. i was treated like a slave in that house. i threw fits and tried to scare her off but it didnt work. then i realized my dad was happy so i decided that living at his house wasnt an option for me and i ended up living with my birth mother again, it was the best thing that happen to me. what im sayin is treat her like your own daughter. dont favor ur daughter over her and especially dont push her about her birth mother. when my stepmother did that she had a black eye for a week. If she has temper tantrums then disipline her but not to much cuz then she will get really mad....but yeah that was my life until my dad gave up tryin to force me to like him and deb.
2006-11-28 05:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Fire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those preteen days...she is acting like she thinks she SHOULD BE...and remember she must feel like she did something wrong if her birth mother let her go...show her you love her...appreciate at her...do nothing to ag her on but dont let her walk all over you and eventually she wil come around...its not you its the hormones...
2006-11-28 05:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
BOTH PARENTS HAVE TO TAKE AN UNITED STAND AND FRONT. WHEN SHE DISCOVERS THAT DAD AND STEPMOM ARE TOGETHER IN THIS AND THAT DAD BACKS YOU UP ON YOUR DECISIONS AND RULES AND THAT SHE MUST ABIDE BY THEM SHE WILL COME AROUND.
2006-11-28 05:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants attention....i think u should sit her down an try to talk to her an reason with her...but you cant get mad....dont curse an dont yell.....
2006-11-28 05:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may miss her momma, and is testing you to see if you really love her.
2006-11-28 05:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she prombly was to know her mom and know why she left her . you should try to make her happy and dont piss her off . spend more time with her.
2006-11-28 05:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by cici 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should try to talk with her more
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2006-11-28 05:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋