Family - November 2006

I have a step father who likes to complain about everything. Especially when it comes to things that I have done or not done. He was always on me about my wieght all thru high school. He drove me to hurting myself and now that I moved back in he's driving me to do it again. I haven't done anything and I can't move out cause I am B-R-O-K-E....no money...none...yesterday he yelled at my mom for buying my son diapers and food...What should I do? I'm ready to go insane....

2006-11-10 02:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy2Jose 1

My young sister got a two Cs and all As on her report card. I got a couple of Cs but they didn't talk the way they did to me to her when I was a kid. They acted meaner to her and i don't know how to help her get through her problem because our grandmother keeps on lying and saying that she never does her homework but when Im downstairs with her i always help her with her homwork. so I was wonderin if you could help me help her. She always has All As but now they want to bring her down

2006-11-10 02:32:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

2006-11-10 02:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by katlady927 6

My girl friends lets her 13 year daughter sleep with her every night unless if I was to stay the night and then the daughter will stay up all night and walk around the house . They both know it isn't right but they keep on doing it even my counselor has said it was wrong and hers say it was wrong but she just don't stop it really bothers me and worry me too We are engaged to be married in May what is the answer to this. One other thing she was brought up the sameway with her mother and she isn't like some low life women she is an IT for a big company.

2006-11-10 02:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by isitreal1963 3

In my last question it wasnt enough info so here I go again. My brother was adopted by my dad who abused him off and on for fifteen years. By the time he was 16, my dad had attacked him several times in front of the rest of us.

My grandmother moved to SC and took him with her, but my dad broke out of prison and with a partner, kidnapped him. He was abused, and, you know, over a five-day period before found by police.

My dad's in prison with a life sentance.

My mom and I moved to SC shortly after that to be with my grandma. My mom hates my brother though, they're always getting into fights.

Because of my brother, I have lost both my mother and my father. I know it is not his fault, but why do I feel so angry twoards him, and yet so loving twoards my parents?

(he is 17 now)

Hope this is 'nuff explination. Thanks to whoever said I needed more info =S

2006-11-10 02:00:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm looking for a book or resources for 12yr old girl who lives in a heart breaking situation. She is becoming discouraged after living with her father who got custody of her a couple of years ago. He is not emotionally supportive of her, he is over controlling to the point of being a jerk. He is an angry man and takes it all out on her and anyone else in the family who crosses his path. Social services was called on him this week because he wouldn't take her to the dr after being sick for a week. So far social services hasn't done their part in what's best for her. A stupid judge gave him custody a couple of years ago because she was living with maternal grandma who took great care of her (mom runs around).
I'm looking for something to give her that will encourage her spirit so that she won't become defeated inside, preferably Christian based but will consider other resources.
Those of us who love her feel like our hands our tied. If we speak up we don't get to see her.

2006-11-10 01:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by nursechic 3

I came down with a stomach bug the beginning of this week and missed work Tuesday. I'm pregnant and my husband and two small kids hadn't shown any signs of getting it so I was beginning to think it was just really bad morning sickness. Now, my husband is home sick and this morning my kids (2 1/2 and 11 months) were both acting far more sluggish than normal. My kids are at the babysitter's right now and have not actually started throwing up or anything yet. Should I ask off at lunch and go home to my family or wait it out until I get off because I missed Tuesday?

2006-11-10 01:46:35 · 13 answers · asked by KC 2

I need to get my boyfriend from Iraq to America.How much are veisa's, and how do I get one?

2006-11-10 01:45:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-10 01:25:05 · 16 answers · asked by jenniferlyn 1

he is from fla and I live in Ct. My mother sent me a birth announcement that was in the paper I don't know if it is the same man. We do not have any type of communication and have not in 24 years. I am just curious

2006-11-10 01:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by karin1961 2

MY SON IS NEARLY 6 AND I DIDNT MEET MY RECENT PARTNER UNTIL I WENT INTO THE HOSPITAL TO GIVE BIRTH TO HIM AND NOW HE IS HIS STEP DAD AND EVERYBODY IS SAYING THAT HE LOOKS LIKE HIM EVEN THOUGH HE IS NOT HIS REAL DAD

2006-11-10 01:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by SAMANTHA H 2

my daughter 13 was with her boy friend having anal sex when i walked in.
when i confronted her she said at least i wont get preg.
what do i say or do

2006-11-10 01:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by seeme 1

2006-11-10 01:00:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

But he sent my dad to prison because my dad had problem conflicts with my brother and hurt him. My dad even broke out of prison and kidnapped him, giving him life sentance! I love my dad to death even throug all this. My brother can't live with my mother and I because he can't get along with my mother either - which is mainly my mother's fault.

He lives with my gandmother now... but I still miss my dad....am I wrong to miss my dad when he caused so much pain on my brother's life that wasn't my brother's fault?

2006-11-10 00:54:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister who is older than me has a 5 year old son. They have babied him so much his a little sissy now. It was their anniversary and they wanted to go out but couldn't find a babysitter, so they decided to leave him with me. I don't know why they were so skeptical, Sleazy is a great role model for the boys. When they dropped him off I decided to take it upon myself to unsissify him and teach him to be a pimp like his Uncle. Well apparently they got a phone call from the school from some lady saying that he was harrasing and bothering girls. That he was calling them Babes and Chicks and was walking around with 3 of them getting kisses and stuff. They also said that he told a teacher lady to "shut up wench" and that she belonged in the kitchen. Hey the kid is a true man now, why is everyone so mad.

2006-11-10 00:53:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

um this gurl like this boy but he dnt like her an she always be trying to talk to him like she would flirt an hide is things an when he be talking she be jumping in but the problem is he dnt like her he like me so u think i should say that she like him???

2006-11-10 00:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not too sentimental, i put my mum through a lot in my teens, running away etc, can any poets think of anything nice to put?

2006-11-10 00:39:58 · 25 answers · asked by UkDancing_Queen 1

2006-11-10 00:08:04 · 13 answers · asked by !!!!Born 2 PARTY!!!!! 1

2006-11-09 23:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5

What does that mean??

2006-11-09 22:35:23 · 22 answers · asked by splandastic 3

my father is soooooo bossy and soo controlling and he uses " im ur father" as an excuse !! im 20 and i think he has the right to live my life.. he keeps telling me to not to go gym anymore cause my body is just fine in his eyes i told him million times thats my body i do whatever i wanna do with it he got mad but he got over it
yesterday he said im ur dad i have the right to have a part in every or most decision in my life his excuse is " i cant see my only son doing something wrong infront of my eyes without doing a thing"
wtf .. i told him million times if i dont try i wont learn .. what im really afraid is him controlling my life in the future like :" dont take this job take that job dont marry this girl marry that girl " hes turning my life to hell .. dont get me wrong i love my dad i just hate his actions .. i told him that prophet mohammad didnt force his unlce to join islam he just explained it to him but didnt force him why ur forcing me to do things i dont wanna !

2006-11-09 22:31:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 23 living with her fiancee and they have a 7month old son, my first granchild The trouble is she going back to work soon and she wants me to look after my grandson while she works I said I would but I said she has to pay me I mentioned $50 a fortnight ( Iam only on a pension).I will have him from 7am until 6pm 10 days straight per fortnight. They said if I don't do it for free I will never see him again. Should I accept their terms so I can see my grandson or what do I do?

2006-11-09 22:19:12 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-11-09 22:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by American Splendor 5

my dad has been touching me since i was 13. im 19 now n stil lives at home. i started locking my door n he came in threw the window so ive locked that as well. i came home from work to find my lock gone so ive been staying at my bf's place. he doesnt know. no one does.

2006-11-09 21:32:04 · 30 answers · asked by hate_my_life4eva 1

as above

2006-11-09 21:14:32 · 15 answers · asked by jonny_efc_2006 1

My two children ages 18 and 12 dont know their father, long story. I many times feel guilt and feel really bad that they might be wanting a male rolemodel. So far they appear to be ok, but I worry they might not. Can someone answer?

2006-11-09 19:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Chely 1

I am 21 vietnamese, my girlfriend who is Greek, we have been secretly dating together for 5years. We are deeply in love but there is a problem lies. My parent does not accepted her as a family member and same as her family, sometimes we have to sneak out and meet each other. I couldn't take her out or dining because I could run into her and mine family members. I'm thinking off moving to other cities and live with my girlfriend. But I cannot run a way from my family. I just don't know what to do......

2006-11-09 19:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by nick 1

My daugter and i,stay in othrer country more than ten years,
I feel uncomfertable ,as i grow older stay without Permanen Resident status ,i lef my country ,i loss friend and family toch,
How to stay cool ,'m so sad

2006-11-09 19:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna know what my baby's father rights are. As of now he doesnt know about the baby. When he finds out what are his rights? He lives in Colorado, I live in Utah. The baby was born here in Utah and the father has not been around since I have known I was pregnant.
What are my rights? I dont want my baby taken away from me.

2006-11-09 19:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by Moe 1

We have strong feelings for each other. We played and kissed when we were little but it was still a smack. Now she's 14 and I'm 13 now. Last year when there was a party at their house... we kissed the first time until we made out until the third time. I know that she likes me too and I have the same feeling for her. When I go romantic on her, sometimes she doesn't want me to do it because if somebody catches us, we would be seperated from each other. Is it wrong? please help

2006-11-09 19:30:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous