Family - November 2006

I need some ideas. Almost every time my wife has a problem, I have to ask her what happened for about 30 minutes before she will tell me. The problem isn't always big or very personal and most of the time it has nothing to do with me (just a random problem). I will ask her why she is being so quiet and at first she will say "nothing" then "its nothing important". I have told her that just because its not important, that doesn't mean I'm not interested. Is this just a chick thing or is there something I can say to her to get her to talk about it? I am really getting sick of this and last night I told her I don't want to do this with her for the rest of my life.

P.S.
When she is mad or upset with me, she has no problem telling me

2006-11-10 06:04:23 · 5 answers · asked by Jimmy 1

thanks so much for all the answers to my question... Im leaving for work now.. but printed out your answers for my husband to read.. maybe he will get the message!!

2006-11-10 06:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by vicki f 2

My father filed for bankruptsy last year. He doesnt want his parents to find out because he doesnt want to loose out on his inheritence. Should someone tell my grandparents so they can plan accordingly. My father would blow any money that he gets from them.

2006-11-10 05:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by kc dude 1

SHE WANTS ME TO LEAVE BUT THEN AGAIN SHE DON'T. IM PREGNANT WITH TWINS AND WHEN I TOLD HER I WAS GONNA MOVE IN WITH MY BABYS FATHER SHE WENT CRAZY. I JUST THINK SHE A BIT JEALOUS OF ME BUT SHE REALLY DON'T WANT ME TO LEAVE.

2006-11-10 05:35:31 · 7 answers · asked by shay16lips 1

My family is having a family reunion on Thanksgiving day. The Family reunion is ONLY for my Dad side, From Generation 1-5, and all of this will be on a family tree but in a map. I need at least 10 different question to ask them I already have 3 already. In these question have to base on what I should ask them about the family tree and their relationship with the people in the family tree! so I would like to ask everyone here at yahoo answers to answer this question. Example If you would have a family reunion what would you ask the guest to learn more about them. Thank you everyone for answering this question. No obvious one thank you.

2006-11-10 05:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by kat 2

I ran his name and found out he lives in the next town which is ten minutes from here,I am 24 and i don't think he knows i exist,I don't want to jump into his life just to find out he really is not my father,I don't think it would be fair to him or his family,I have been keeping his number and address for over a year now. Any advice on how to go about this,
Thanks

2006-11-10 05:15:32 · 16 answers · asked by Tara 5

At 2 months my son got taken from me. I see him once a week for an hour. He is now 7 months and i still can't deal with him not being with me everyday. How can i get over the anxiety of him not thinking of me as his mother and him being away from me.

2006-11-10 05:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by genah18 1

I am very close with my mom and dad...so is my husband. We are young (late 20's) and have no children. I have completed all of the education that I desire up through graduate school and my husband got a late start but is almost done with an engineering degree and really wants to go to law school.

He did so well on the entrance exam that he is able to pick and choose where he will attend law school.

Dilemma: My parents both have major health problems and we are the only ones around who take care of them. We enjoy every second of it. But law school is 3 years, and the best schools for my husband are at least three states away. Does he go to a local school that is mediocre so that we can stay around my mom and dad or does my huband go "all out" and we try to visit as often as we can? I don't want to regret not seeing them and having something tragic happen. My mom has cancer and my dad has a serious heart problem. But it seems dumb to put dreams on hold, too. Any opinions or advice?

2006-11-10 05:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by . 3

She lives in Warrington and has two kids called Rebecca and Megan. Please pass on this address, im her sister paulineypepe@yahoo.co.uk

2006-11-10 05:01:12 · 4 answers · asked by superstar 5

I only know his first name and where he lived (or still lives)...

What can I do?? I really want to find him....I never met him before

2006-11-10 05:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Still not know what to do!! Help please!!! I am a girl and i am 12 in the 6 grade. Few days ago i got in a major huge fite with my momma when we were shopping with my brother and sister and she kept picking on my and nagging me and i wasnt in a good mood so i yelled back at her and told her to shut up and leave me alone and that got her rilly mad and she yell at me in front of everyone When we get home she sayd i had been rilly rude to her and i was in BIG trouble and i got a super hard spanking and i cried so much!! I got other punishment to but i mean i am 12 now arent i too big for spankings?? How can i get her change her mind and just give me talking to??

2006-11-10 04:59:14 · 17 answers · asked by Tia 2

My gf just aborted for the second time without my knowledge, I'm happy that she did, but I'm also bothered that she doesn't feel the need to discuss it with me. My friends think that I'm the luckiest guy alive. Should I just be grateful that she takes care of problems on her own or should I try to get her to tell me before she makes decisions like that? And if you are against abortion please keep your views to yourself, I won't even bother to read your entire response.

2006-11-10 04:57:05 · 19 answers · asked by Craig R 1

My husband and I are raising our grandson.. He is 16 years old ..just got his driver license.. his insurance is over 700.00 for 6 months plus his gas money and fun money every weekend.. i think he should have to get a part time job and share in the responsiblity
instead of having everything. cell phone fun money gas money;..
my husband says he has his whole life to work. let him enjoy it while he can..what do you think

2006-11-10 04:49:13 · 29 answers · asked by vicki f 2

Doesn't it seem weird to you that the parents who come here for advice on child behavioral problems are spending so much time on their computers?

2006-11-10 04:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by blazenphoenix 4

I have been living in and out of my car for about 3 weeks now. I am a fulltime college student and not currently working. I am 21 years old and the reason why I am homeless is well is my fault so there should be no excuse well this is what happened. I was going to college full-time and also going to work full-time working 3 rd shift it was very hard I would get home from work and bacisually have to go straight to school. and then after school I got home and slept for about 4 hours then went to work it was not a life no time to go out or anything and when I was not going to school which was sat. sun. I got caught up on sleep well anyway I left home to live on my own about 6 months ago because my parant where phsically and emotionally abusive to me. They both do drugs I could not countine to live there when my dad threw a coffee cup at me and hit me in the head I was out of course I called the law and he went to jail, now I go over to visit and he will not let me come in to speak to mom

2006-11-10 04:45:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Falling Angel, Broken Wings

i guess they could never call me an angel
And I never had wings that would grow
But these burdens they place on my back
Have taken me down to the bottom

Always wanted to be good and do the things I should
But I never quite came close
I was the black sheep, every familY has to have one
And I was the black sheep of mine

Tried so hard to make it happen
But hopes don't make dreams come true
I got all tangled at the bottom
And never made it to the top

Fallen angels, broken wings
If I could have been an angel, would I have failed there too
More than likely, for my chances were not good
Never made it to the surface and I never left t he ground

All the rest have wonderful traits
Always doing what they should
But I ran into trouble and could not stop my fall
Falling faster, falling to the ground

I guess I hurt a lot of people in this life I've lead
Never meant to do it on purpose
But I did it all the same
And I lost everythin

2006-11-10 04:37:12 · 3 answers · asked by katlady927 6

watching me over my shoulder, thru the window if I'm outside. I cook and clean and basically holw up in the basement. I don't know how to cope with this. I go for long walks all the time but the little time I get 'alone' doesn't seem to be enough. I feel like I'm losing it. My husband travels for work and is gone all week long, I don't want to burden him with this(I have been in horrible moods when he comes home for the weekend and it seems to be going that way again.) I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

2006-11-10 04:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by kardea 4

I have a daughter who is involved with drugs and is planning to sign over custody of unborn child to paternal grandmother who is not of Native heritage. I also have 3 year old grandson that I have not seen since April '06 by same daughter. I believe the drugs and other influences have caused her to neglect his needs. He was a tiny tot grass dancer until all this has gone down, so he has been exposed to his heritage but his mother and her friends are keeping him from it now.

2006-11-10 04:05:11 · 3 answers · asked by wolf_spirit_eyes 2

My sister is a doctor and yesterday she got a big breakdown but really HUGE ONE. I asked her once and again what was going up and she kept telling me: I don't want that hospital! I don't want that hospital.
I tried to find out more but she simply closed and did not want to talk then she fell asleep some hours but after she was crying again saying she was tired. I know she got lot of responsabilities and I know she feels only another doctor understands her but anyway I want to cheer her up or make her feel better. Does anyone know how to do it? Does anyone have a doctor at home?

2006-11-10 04:04:05 · 2 answers · asked by C6 7

background info lol:
My dad and his girlfriend have been together for about 5 years now. His girlfriend has 3 children. 2 of which I have met and gotten to know a little bit, and one I have only met a few times.
I live at home with my dad and his gf. Her daughter, who I have only met/seen a few times is staying with us for a few days. She's in her middle 20's, i'm 20.
It's really awkward(sp), and we have nothing to say to eachother. I just woke up today and she is here staying with us and there is just nothing to say.
I don't know what to do or how to break the ice because I don't know anything about her and I don't want to just start asking a bunch of questions.
Uh, I need to get to know her and have everything be on a normal level so maybe we can all start becoming a family. (btw my dad's gf's kids all live in different parts of the country, not around here)
So what do I do? What do I say?

2006-11-10 03:53:00 · 6 answers · asked by chelseyiscool 3

Ok, here's the situation: My mom & 15 yr old sister is staying with my grandma. My mom works 2nd shift so my grandmother is there with my sister while mom works. My sister has a b/f & when she wants to go out to eat with him & my cousin & his g/f but my grandma gets mad & tells her she can't go. Mom says it's ok since they are out with other people & they are only going to eat & go to movies. Mom says at least they aren't being bad & getting into trouble, drugs, etc. Grandma says its her house & she can tell her what she wants. She even gets mad & fusses with mom. My dad is an alcoholic & he hasn't raised us & doesn't want us to date. He is mean so mom doesn't let him know sister has a b/f but now grandma keeps threatening to call him & tell him everytime she gets mad at my sister or my mom! Mom really needs to be on her own but she can't afford to. It's just a mess. I'm glad I'm married & don't live with them anymore. Does anyone have any advice??

2006-11-10 03:47:35 · 9 answers · asked by beachbum26 2

I'm kinda of a hermit (I have only one close lady friend, and I live by myself in a studio apartment in Boston), but the thing is I have a majority of family members who criticize me for losing touch for long periods of time. (Most of my family is from the south in Alabama and Georgia. Very strong need for family values) I lived most of my youth and young adult years surrounded by family, and I have always wanted more time alone to center and balance my mind and spirit. Now that I finally have it, they want me to continue to keep in touch. I don't mind any of them calling or visiting me, but I told them (nicely) that I refuse to go out of my way to keep in touch with anyone. Too much work and worry. Anyone got any ideas on what else I can say to get my point across? (Keep in mind. Most of my family is very stubborn)

2006-11-10 03:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by Daemon 4

well my mom told me money was missing and she think it was my
bf i asked him if he did he said no but he put his head down when i asked him that what does that mean?

2006-11-10 03:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to find a boot camp for children near collinsville Illinois, it's for my Aunt, her children are horribly unruly!

2006-11-10 03:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by scienceguy_02 2

She has everything she needs, what should i get here for Christmas?

2006-11-10 03:18:49 · 10 answers · asked by Cheryl T 1

my mom accused my bf of stealing money i asked him if he did
but he told me he didnt but i think my stepdad just wanted him to move out because he dont like him.but money did go missing but
anybody could have done it.

2006-11-10 03:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents disowned me because I left their religion (Jehovah's Witnesses). Was wondering if anyone had similar experiences or feelings on the matter.

2006-11-10 03:12:42 · 22 answers · asked by brmwk 3

A year I joined a bad crowd and did wrong stuff. I got drunk and joined some guys who broke some windows and made some grafitti. I didn't but I was there. I got a harsh punishment from my parents, for 3 months was grounded from everything, had to clean walls an do heavy chores to pay my parentsfor those damages. I also joined some social activites, which was great. I made up for all my mistakes, Im free now, but got into a deep depression. I couldn't tal to my parents any more, because of resentment (they went overboard), shame and cause they reminded me of what I went through. I lost weight, got sick, my excelent grades fell and I had suicide thoughts. Acoording to my grandma who loves me, I stared a nwe life with her, a new school, far from everything that could remind me of that stuff. Now my parents and my lil sister want me back, but thos will be devastating. I can't live w/ them any more, though now they are proud of me, my grades, of what I am. I wanna live w/ who loves me

2006-11-10 02:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Edson 1

lives at 1234 Northey St.

2006-11-10 02:47:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-10 02:47:01 · 20 answers · asked by concerned c 1