My father filed for bankruptsy last year. He doesnt want his parents to find out because he doesnt want to loose out on his inheritence. Should someone tell my grandparents so they can plan accordingly. My father would blow any money that he gets from them.
2006-11-10 05:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by kc dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
let me add that my father and i dont get along at all so i dont care if he knows i have told them i just think its the right thing for them to know. ALso he blames others for why he had to file when the fact is he was a dead beat
2006-11-10 06:06:13 · update #1
Tell them. They should know. Especially if your father is going to blow it anyways.
2006-11-10 06:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone should tell them. My brother filed for bankruptcy because he is the same way with money. He blows it all on cigarettes and alcohol. My parents figured out a way to keep supporting him emotionally, while not monetarily, which helped him get on his feet. Blowing money is more of an emotional problem than a character flaw. He can let them know he needs help and they will still probably be willing to keep him in the will if he promises to get help and gives them progress reports.
2006-11-10 14:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by sjbchapman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one because he is your father but I would hate for your grandparents to waste their money on him either because of his negligence with it. Is your grandparents dying or something? Is the inheritance based on how good he is with the money that he currently has? Thats strange, but in any event, I hope you do what your mind tells you to do, not your heart (it cant think).. good luck..
2006-11-10 14:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because maybe they can go about it in a more precautious way, like disperse a certain amount to him each year so that if he blows it there will still be money coming for years to come. Or maybe they can give him some money and then put the rest in a trust for you guys (his children).
2006-11-10 14:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's right to tell them as long as you're not telling them just to hurt your father. Sounds like you have some major unresolved issues with your father!
2006-11-10 15:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell them. They need to know the situation. I f your dad will just spend all the money maybe the should give it to the grandchildren.
2006-11-10 14:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by justmmez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think u guys shud sit down n talk wid ur dad. Some issues are really delicate n shud be resolved at the earliest. Get what i mean
2006-11-10 14:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them! you are in no way doing the wrong thing..for all you know that money should go to your college fund...or something worth while and not foryour dad to blow it all away...
so yes..go tell them..
2006-11-10 14:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably sooooo wrong, but I would tell them anonymously.
2006-11-10 14:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you, but if you think it is in there best interest, tell them
2006-11-10 14:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by brent0331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋