Still not know what to do!! Help please!!! I am a girl and i am 12 in the 6 grade. Few days ago i got in a major huge fite with my momma when we were shopping with my brother and sister and she kept picking on my and nagging me and i wasnt in a good mood so i yelled back at her and told her to shut up and leave me alone and that got her rilly mad and she yell at me in front of everyone When we get home she sayd i had been rilly rude to her and i was in BIG trouble and i got a super hard spanking and i cried so much!! I got other punishment to but i mean i am 12 now arent i too big for spankings?? How can i get her change her mind and just give me talking to??
2006-11-10 04:59:14 · 17 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
one thing you have to do is not to be scared and dont cry because if you do cry your mom will feel as if she won take it with someone with experience.im 12 too! try to ignore her, what you can do is when your mom is in a really good mood ask her why does she spank you?? ask her real deep questions like if when she was a kid did she get spanked to ?? ask her if she can give you more chances like first she will tell you to stop then the second time the same thing then by the third time she will spank you .but when she is nagging on u juss ignore her that is the best thing to do. to ur mom she is probably thinking as long as u are still living with her and is under 18 she can still give you spankings. hope i answered your questions if u have anymore serious questions email me @ tavareskelly@yahoo.com
2006-11-10 05:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If you are 12 then you should know better to yell at your mom. You were out of line to yell at her in a public place and there is never a good reason to yell at your mom. I doesn't matter if you are in a bad mood or not. If I would have been in your moms shoes I would have spanked your butt too. Just keep in mind that she foots the bills for you and you should show her the up most respect. NO MATTER WHAT. Your mom does a lot for you and when you yell at her you are letting her know that you really don't have any respect for her. You should apologize to your mom for being so rude. I would have grounded you too. Just from a moms point of view there is nothing worse than having one of your children disrespect you in front of other people. And besides that it hurts her feelings. And if your mom was yelling at you then apparently you were not do what you were suppose to or running your mouth. Just remember if you act like a child then you should be treated like a child.
2006-11-10 13:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by cowchic9 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not at all. I think girls get the most serious spankings between the ages of 10 to 13.
They are at an age where they test the waters and like all 12 year olds they think they are too old. Don’t expect your friends to admit to being spanked at 12 but most probably are.
You’re getting to an age where you should respect her for what she has done for you and old enough to realize that she didn’t have to do anything for you. My daughters were spanked like a little girl when they behaved like a naughty little girl.
The choice is really yours because you know how to behave like a 12 year old “should” behave.
2006-11-11 02:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Raylene G. 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tia honey, I think you are too big for a spanking, especially if it left marks. A swat on the bottom is fine for a misbehaving child but not an *** whipping. I know that you can sometimes feel that your mom doesn't understand you and I'll bet that your preteen hormones are not always making you feel great. You should try to sit down with your mom and have a mother/daughter talk with her. Why not fix her dinner one night, feed your siblings early and let them watch tv then you and your mom can sit down to a somewhat quiet meal and try to talk. If she doesn't have time, tell her you love her and thank her anyway. Maybe your mom has alot of stress going on that you are not aware of. Sometimes moms keep things to themselves in order to protect there families. If things get worse, which I hope they don't, PLEASE talk to someone that you trust. A girlfriend, a school counselor, someone at church. I hope that your tomorrows are better for you and your mom :)
2006-11-10 13:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by US Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Raylene, I have a 10 year old girl, she gets more spankings then my 7 year old gets. If you pulled that with me it would be a spanking right out of the 50s for you, pants and panties pulled down, over the lap for a good long time.
Respect your parents. You will find the spanking stop.
2006-11-11 06:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wait a minute. You yelled at your mother in a public place, told her to shut up and leave you alone. And now you're whining because she yelled at you in front of everyone? Sweetie, I'd have slapped you right there in the store if you were my daughter and had the audacity to speak to me that way. Take your punishment like the little brat you are. You certainly earned it.
2006-11-10 13:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Emm 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do think that you are too old to for spankings but you are not to old to have your mouth smacked for telling your mother to shut up.
2006-11-10 13:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think so yes but if my daughter talks to me that way I wouldnt think twice about smacking her. or at least grounding her for a really long time.
2006-11-10 13:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you were too big a spanking you would not be yelling at your mom
2006-11-10 14:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie Muggins 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
my daughter is 12 and she still gets a spanking when she deserves it.
2006-11-10 15:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋