Family - November 2006

HI. WHICH IS THE BEST WEB PAGE TO FIND SOME RELATIVE WHO I DON'T KNOW...?

2006-11-09 14:13:47 · 2 answers · asked by M.I.A.O. 1

2006-11-09 14:10:05 · 17 answers · asked by Robinson O 1

I have a question about a situation I'm in with my sister and my niece. My niece is 3 1/2 years old; she is living with my sister, her boyfriend, and his son. My niece is a really good child, but sometimes she can be a handful. Whenever that happens she usually has to stand in the corner or go to bed at an earlier hour. A few times I have seen my sister give her a spanking, and sometimes I've seen my sister's boyfriend spank her. However, HE does it REALLY HARD...so hard that I have to leave the room whenever it happens because I can't bear to hear her cry, and because he does it to a point of excess. I know the difference between spanking and abuse, and this is definitely abuse...everyone who has seen it in my family (except for my sister) agrees with me on that. I think she knows it's wrong, because she's talked to him about it before, but she tells me I'm overreacting. I love both my sister and my niece; I want to stay loyal to both. What can I do in this situation?

2006-11-09 14:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Persephone 6

by brothe coppies every thing i do but my mom and dad always yell at me for it am i right or are they right?

2006-11-09 14:06:10 · 4 answers · asked by michelle 1

For Example... If the child is A positive, is it possible for one parent to be B and the other to be O positive or negative?? Either way, both parents and child have different letters. Is this possible?

2006-11-09 13:48:18 · 5 answers · asked by Sue A 3

How do you deal with losing a brother to something tragic....who is your best friend? We buried him today....all the "i should of, could of, why didn't i" is going on with me right now....how am i suspose to deal with this.....thank you

2006-11-09 13:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my little neice has a my space blog she is under age and has no idea that I know. How do I tell her without getting angry?

2006-11-09 13:39:49 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny P 1

2006-11-09 13:20:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my sister youngest son was in a motorcycle accident on tuesday; he was killed instantly. he was 32 years old with 2 small children 3 and 6 .
i called my sister this morning; but she was not home. what words can i used to comfort her???

2006-11-09 13:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by COCO 4

my mother is 57 years old and is an emotionaly abusive relationship with my father and has been for 37 years, I'm scared that she feels that's all life is for her. She wakes up and starts drinking hard liqour to "numb" her pain, I need to know if anyone else has family who suffers from this and what they did to help them, Please I love my mother she has a good heart and deserves to be happy. BTW a have a brother 37, sister 32, and I'm 20

2006-11-09 13:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i little sister is 10 and is very annoying. i try to be nice but she insists on acting like a *********. should i just bash her head in now or wait until she goes to sleep tonight?

2006-11-09 13:08:33 · 22 answers · asked by jac8586 2

She takes my stuff without asking insults me and is a hipocrit what to do?

2006-11-09 13:05:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok,i am 22 and i am a pretty happy person. i am a deremined person who gets everything done. lately since i went away from home-went to a jr college first and git my associates- i have not been taking care of myself, make one too many promises i cannot keep. i talk on the phone a lot, and my parents think that is what my whole life is about. i told my sister that i got a 54 on a history test even after hours of reading the notes, studying them, having a study group,etc my grade did not improve from my first test grade, i do good on quizzes and worksheets and debates but i bombed 2 tests! on the top of that i have my parents taking my phone away from me, and they expect me to b ein my dorm all the time so that they can check up on me, my sis told my parents about my grade in history before i could and now they think that i lied to them which i have not. they start comparing me to their siblings: mom to her brother and my dad to his brother and how they did not finish a university, etc.

2006-11-09 13:01:08 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5

How many people hate their brother... Or sister...
I was just wondering how many people actually do
Because, I love mine. And I really don't get why people hate their siblings. But then, I do have great ones. My brother is 17, and that is not the age where a lot of kids are that nice. But my brother is awesome.. Does anyone else have siblings like that or do you all hate yours????
Just curious....

2006-11-09 12:58:27 · 14 answers · asked by sonflower 2

mom and dad- always traveling out of the country, no help from them

sisters- drive me up the wall and weird off every single one of my boyfriends.

DOG- cute but eats my hw all thr time no matter where i put it

other sister-went into labor on 11/9/06 3:00am

me- stuck here with little sisters and feeling guilty because my sisters husband is on a buisness trip in Maine and she has no one there for her

2006-11-09 12:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by DOG 2

ok, i have this 16 year old living here with me, she was on the streets and i felt bad for her, so i took her in, i called and spoke to her father and he didnt seem to mind that i took her in, i have taken in other kids in the past, the problem is, is that i want this kid to get an education and this kid wants to too, but the mother wont sign papers so she can go to school, should i sue for custody and do you think i can get custody?

2006-11-09 12:17:34 · 12 answers · asked by blue_eyed_lady_in_love 1

im not sure if this is really on topic but i did know where else to put it...my grandmother is 60 years old...and my mom is 40...every once and a while when i get mad at my grandma she goes to hit me...ive let it slide a few times and my mom knows about it she just says ...dont agravate her...so the other day it happened again...when she sung at me i grabbed her arm and told her never to try it again....she struggled but i had a firm grip...what should i do if it happens again?

2006-11-09 12:12:20 · 11 answers · asked by xxooxxloulouxxooxx 1

I might not have been the best son this month, and especially this week. I was up late playing on the computer and I didn't get all of my homework done. I stayed in bed late in the mornings and came late for school twice. And I was pretty mean too. I know I was bad, but I admitted it, and I appologized. But today I found out that my parents are going to bring me to our Temple, and we are going to sit down with the Rabbi and talk about me, and how to correct this. They said they might put me on medications and also send me to a phsyciatrist. I really, really don't want them to that, but especially the Rabbi because she likes me, and thinks I'm a nice kid, but after this she won't think I'm nice, and I'll be so embarassed. What should I do? Serious answers only please! Thank You So Much!

2006-11-09 12:10:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong if I want to just sit on the seawalls and hold you tight as we look at the sunset? Is it wrong for you to spend the night over at my place with something to eat and a few good movies? Is it wrong if I spread a towel on the beach and we lay and look at the stars, just the two of us. Is it wrong if I want to marry you and have a little boy of our own? Is it wrong if I sway him to sleep in the hammock on the balcony at nights and tell him that the brightest star in the sky is mommy? Is it wrong if I spoil him alittle and take him out for ice-cream and tell him to give mommy a big kiss and he'd run to her and put his little hands on her cheeks? Is it wrong if I call you my princess and my little teddy? Is it wrong to leave little "i love you" notes next to your pillow everyday? Why is this such a crime? Where am I going wrong? Is it just me? Is it wrong?

2006-11-09 11:43:17 · 16 answers · asked by conan12002us 1

My grandma died today and we all knew it was going to happen soon, but it hurts like hell still. Not really a question, just wanted a little venting spot.

2006-11-09 11:41:17 · 10 answers · asked by L♥G 5

i just want to find my parents. my mom Teresa found me once and I met Alex once also in Carson city, NV...but we lost touch....I wonder about them daily and it kills me not even knowing if they are dead or alive. Please help!! Thanks....Tanya, 2/19/1978...born in SanFransisco at Letterman Hospital.... I think...originally.."baby girl Wolfe". ":(

2006-11-09 11:40:58 · 4 answers · asked by want2find Teresa&Alex/bparents 1

My mom lives with me, my husband and our 2 kids..age 2 and 4. When we bought our house she moved in with us a few years ago and shortly after my husband was deployed. Long story short, my husband and I have NEVER lived alone, Ive never lived independtly and I am really starting to resent everyone. I am almost 27, stayed at home while I went to college and now my husband is redeployed on his second tour. I appericate the help my mom lends with my kids and shes always ready to help me. Ive decided to put my youngest, who is almost 3 in a preschool half of the week. My mom suggested that she take me to work (we have one car) so he can go all 5 days. I said no, solely because I dont want my mom dropping me off at my job and picking me up. She seemed to be offended and said I was "embarrased" by her. It seems like when I try to have my one little bit of independence she views it as a personal attack on her character. When I tell her that I am 26, married with 2 kids she says I dont need her

2006-11-09 11:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by *sweet sugar* 2

I think he does loves me too because he works for our family , goes home every night, we seldom go out or attend parties because he doesnt enjoy it. I think there are only 3 things which he enjoys , his old friends,joining a dog show competition and his work in our farm. he is not concerned about how i look, about my health or anytrhing about me or about our other business and evn about my son, yes he hugs,kisses him and send him to school every morning ,everything is left for me to do , i am the one who plays with our son. Me ,as a person i think i am his opposite , am just so warm, i support him with whatever he likes BUT i must admit that i do nag him for things which i deemed is not not right,but nagging of course is not my habit,MOST of the time i am very level headed. I dont know on what to do but i think i also need to feel his care. thanks!

2006-11-09 11:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by mammalia 1

no mean answers! i am a black woman and my son father is white he has not seen his son for a long time, so i called him and ask him why? he said he join the KKK, and me and my son is dog **** to him. i am so hurt ,i just whant to move on... but how???

2006-11-09 11:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by sweetlips24 2

I was extremely happy that my husband had a very distant relationship with his sister when we got married. She was (and still is) a control freak (just like her mother, my MIL). Now he's had some sort of epiphany and wants to include her and her abusive husband and two children (one of whom is like Damien from the Omen) for every family event. I feel like the victim of a bait and switch.

What would you do to maintain your sanity through these events?

2006-11-09 11:14:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The wind woke me up five minutes ago. I asked my mom and dad what was happening, but they sent me back to bed. I don’t blame them, because it was the middle of the night. I’m 13 now, but I still feel as though they treat me like a child, We live in the lower part of the tree, so we don’t get as much sunlight as the leaves on the upper branches. My parents say it’s better to live here than on the upper part of the tree because we learn to take better care of ourselves, and become a better family. The leaves on the upper branches are spoiled and don’t want to have families. Right now, it’s the middle of Autumn, and it gets colder than usual. Much colder.
Right now, some leaves have already fallen, but a girl on another branch that I love hasn’t fallen yet. When my Grandma fell, I cried the entire night after, and cried harder when another leaf fell by my window. The next morning, I saw that the girl I loved had fallen, and that just made me cry more.

2006-11-09 11:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have 3 children 2, 1, and 6days their father left me only 2 dayz ago. which would make it 4days after i had my 3rd child. he doesnt want to see them ever again. but they keep asking about their dad. what do i say. wat do i do???? please help...

2006-11-09 10:52:42 · 19 answers · asked by Tasha 1

2006-11-09 10:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3

if you hade a key that you were trying to hide from your son, where would you hide it?

2006-11-09 10:48:33 · 21 answers · asked by Rodney Lindsey 2

He's home w/ our baby in the am, takes her to my aunt's ~12:30 & I usually pick her up ~5:00. By the time her gets home ~10:30 she's asleep so I spend more time with her than he does. I'm putting in extra time @ work so we can go on vacation in Dec. & I can get paid leave instead of taking leave with out pay (can't afford not being paid for a full week!) so I've been staying until 6 and getting her ~6:30 some days (not everyday).

He actually said to me that I could always be a better mother to our daughter if I'm with her more. I've told him that it's the QUALITY not the QUANTITY of our time together that really matters. He's basically saying if a person is a bad parent that by spending more time with their kids they'll majically become the best mommy/daddy.

I'm so pissed at him for saying this to me. All you working mom's out there know my guilt for not being with my baby all day everyday and the guilt when I miss work to care for my family. How can I make him understand me?

2006-11-09 10:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by smarty pants 3