2006-11-09 10:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I believe in the western way of life style where people(girls as well as boys) become independent after compleatng their schools. in indian culture howerever as too much importance is give to graduation degree, i believe ppl should start supporting themselves right after graduation. this doesnto mean they should live away from their parents. but should be financially independent. as for living with parents after marriage even thogh i am a girl i will prefer staying with my in-lwas becoz i believe this provides better up bringing to children. and also provides lots of emotional support.
2006-11-09 21:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far as thinking is concerned, there is none done; because the circumstances are clear usually before marriage, ie, if the guy is staying with parents, this is continued, if the guy is not staying with parents, that is continued...
It does not require special thinking on the man's part. But I dare say most ladies these days do not want the guy's parents to stay with them (she and her hubby) after marriage.
For those ladies taking a piss, I said *most*.
2006-11-09 11:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by lonely_searching_preet(i) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about Indian guys but I do know that a lot of Korean and Japanese men who do get married, 90% of the new wife lives with their husband's family.
Only a few lives on their own. but, I would suspect that there are quite a bit of Indian men who gets married and have their wives live with them. it happens a lot over in the Middle East and in Asia.
2006-11-09 11:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, more than 90% of the single
child likes to stay with their parents
for the sake of mental and moral
support. They feel insecured to stay
seperately, for various reasons like:
job related, in- laws' interference, wifes'
funny requirements, domestic help,
parents' love and care etc.
Whereas, more than 50% of the males,
belonging to large families, want to stay
seperately for the reasons like:
Knowing the drawbacks of Joint family,
progressive out look to rise in their
profession, by not getting involved with
the day to day acts of the J family; to
own a house of his own; to rear up the
next generation as per their own wish;
to feel independant as it may not have
been possible in the J family.
( May be these 50% are escapists and
self centred)
2006-11-09 12:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by pianist 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think 7 out of 10. But as far as i am concerned, i will stay with the parents only. Afterall, it is the only thing which we can do to reward them for wht they have done for us.
2006-11-09 14:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Parth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What type of Indian are you referring to? West Indian, American Indian or first nations or east Indian.
2006-11-09 11:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
6 out of 10 now-a-days. Earlier it was 9 out of 10
2006-11-09 13:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Upal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it hink most of them alot of asian men live with they parents after marriage alot of indian and pakistanis do
2006-11-09 11:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by roxana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say in the tip the undeniable fact which you're nonetheless with him after 2 years ought to coach you techniques lots you like him. Your mothers and dads ought to comprehend this and be chuffed which you stumbled on somebody which you have those thoughts for. they might not be chuffed now yet whilst they see how solid you adult males are mutually, they are going to come around. you only ought to get them in touch on your relationship with your boyfriend. by ability of doing this you're able to desire to be stunned that they actually exchange their minds. the way you talk of this guy he sounds like a astounding guy or woman that loves you lots. once you assert you have few buddies, do you advise your loved ones or you and your boyfriend? i think of you're observing this the incorrect way. You ask ought to I take my family contributors area or the guy i like. i think of you should be asking your self ought to I be with the only i like and who loves me or ought to I provide that as much as be with somebody my family contributors makes a decision. i think of in case you dont stick on your coronary heart and be with this guy which you like, you will remorseful approximately it in the tip. My cousin grew to become into in a similar subject and he or she went along with her family contributors. The Indian guy that her family contributors stumbled on for her married her, cheated on her, and grew to become into very abusive. Now they are traces on the two households and that they are seperated seeking to divorce. is likewise he keen to income your custom and be in touch in issues which you delight in. if so you already know that those form of adult males are problematic to locate. The loving being concerned and keen to hearken to, I desire i'd desire to locate one :) solid success with your destiny marriage and be beneficial on your hearts decision. in the tip you are the only which will ought to stay with the guy.
2016-10-21 13:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's make a survey, if needed.
2006-11-09 22:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋