mom and dad- always traveling out of the country, no help from them
sisters- drive me up the wall and weird off every single one of my boyfriends.
DOG- cute but eats my hw all thr time no matter where i put it
other sister-went into labor on 11/9/06 3:00am
me- stuck here with little sisters and feeling guilty because my sisters husband is on a buisness trip in Maine and she has no one there for her
2006-11-09 12:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by DOG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by the way im 16
2006-11-09 13:07:15 · update #1
Hi "Dog" (cute nickname.) Right off the top I would have to say that not only do you have too much on your plate, but perhaps you're assuming too many responsibilities. There's no reason for YOU to feel guilty because your sister's husband isn't there for her. You CANNOT be responsible for everyone. You seem a very sensitive person--& only 16! Gosh. Do you have anyone you can talk with, preferably someone who isn't critical, judgmental, dictatorial--from whom you could get input & hopefully, some reinforcement? I believe you need this more than anything--except--that your well being is the very most important thing with which you must cope right now. A freind would help. There's nothing intrinsically wrong with caring about others, but not at you expense. I hope someone will give you some thoughts that YOU can implement, & my very best to you.
2006-11-09 13:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not mention how old you were, but who watches all of you while your parents are gone? Why are they constantly traveling? Why did your sisters husband go out of town when she was so close to delivery, or was the baby early?
Is there a relative nearby that can come and help out?
There needs to be some other arrangements made if your parents are going to be out of the country all the time. If Social Services gets wind of this situation, you kids might be removed from the house and mom and dad might be in big trouble.
2006-11-09 21:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a really normal family to me.
Your lucky to have such a big family.
What about me the youngest of 3 older sisters?
Thats harsh.
2006-11-09 20:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by scottleigh89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats the question? You dont have to feel bad cause your babysitting.
2006-11-09 20:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋