My grandma died today and we all knew it was going to happen soon, but it hurts like hell still. Not really a question, just wanted a little venting spot.
2006-11-09 11:41:17 · 10 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my condolences. pray, it works.
2006-11-09 11:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is good to vent..helps get all your emotions out in the open better than bottling them up inside. I have also lost a grandmother that I was very close to...and it really hurt and still does at times but what keeps me going is knowing that now she no longer hurts and is in a much better place than any of us...HEAVEN. It may be hard now but do try to remember the happy times you shared with her and be grateful for those times that God allowed you to have with her..and just know it was in his plans. :-)
Remember God only puts on you what he knows you can handle..even if sometimes it feels horrible or bad just remember you can get thru it with God. Sorry if this sounds so preachy but I really mean it and know because I have been through the same thing and know what all God has done in my life and blessed me with..so I am so sorry for your loss..and hope that you will pray about it and let God help you through it. You are in my prayers. :-)
2006-11-09 19:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by deanne1978_2004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.
I know it hurts but be happy that your Grandma is in a happier place. Do something that makes you happy or look through some pictures you took with her and remember all of the good things you got to do with her. At least you knew her you know? I've got friends and people I go to school w/ who've never met their grandma before.
2006-11-09 19:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, I'm soo sorry. I know you're hurting a lot but just go through the grieving process as it is; go through all the notions including: The stages are:
Denial and isolation - The "This can't be real" stage.: "This is not happening to me." "There must be a mistake"
Anger - The "Why me?" stage.: "How dare you do this to me?!" (either referring to God, the late person, or themselves)
Bargaining - The "If I do this, you’ll do that" stage.: "Just let me live to see my son graduate."
Depression - The "Defeated" stage.: "I can't bear to face going through this, putting my family through this."
Acceptance - The "This is going to happen" stage.: "I'm ready, I don't want to struggle anymore."
Again, I'm soo sorry for your loss.
2006-11-09 19:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine died 6 years ago and I still get choked up. It's a part of life, but it sucks. Take time to grieve. Live your life to the fullest in her memory. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-11-09 19:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by lolabellaquin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grandparents love you in a whole different way then your parents love you.
They are so special and important in a child's life.
My grandmother died a very long time ago and I still miss her very much. After awhile it won't hurt as much but you will miss her forever.
2006-11-09 19:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss. God bless
2006-11-10 05:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my sympathy and prayers! God Bless and good luck!
2006-11-09 19:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. It's hard, I know.
2006-11-09 19:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by cecilia d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My deepest sympathy to you......you are in my prayers
2006-11-09 19:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋