my mom accused my bf of stealing money i asked him if he did
but he told me he didnt but i think my stepdad just wanted him to move out because he dont like him.but money did go missing but
anybody could have done it.
2006-11-10 03:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey, that's the same story that happend between my sister, her boy-friend, and our step-father. Are you my sister? Ok, just incase you're not or are...if your boy-friend has stolen before in the past, it's likely that he stole from your house. He could be lieing to you about him not taking the money. Then again money can be easily misplaced/lost. Depending where your family had the money. If it was in a safe/drawer/box and it's not there anymore, or they didn't touch it, then yes someone stole it. But if they had it in their pocket or on a table or something, then it's probably somewhere in the street or house. If your boy-friend did it, you have to leave him, just like that. He's not trustworthy. Trust is one of the keys that keeps a relationship healthy. You deserve better.
2006-11-10 04:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big question is do you believe your boyfriend or your mom. A guy who steals money from your family is not someone you can trust in a long term relationship. If I believed my boyfriend stole money from my mom, I would break up with him and have him move out. Lying, stealing and cheating all go together.
2006-11-10 11:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't know your bf well enough to know whether he did it, then I think you should first rethink about him living with you all. He could have done it and he may not have done it,but if you don't know him enough to know whether he did it, then you should probably take it slower and maybe he should move and you guys kind of get to know each other a little better. When you find love it won't hurt you or your family because it's real love. If your father said it because he wants him to move out then maybe you noth should move out together because if your father doesn't love you enough to be happy for you when your happy, then maybe you need to kinda take a break from your father.
2006-11-10 12:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy are you in one messed up living situation. Your bf lives at your house? How come? Your Mom and stepdad should kick him out.
2006-11-10 11:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Solstice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you think your bf did it. Listen to that gut feeling. Follow your instinct...it's probably right. It's not like he was going to admit to stealing your family's money to you. Did you expect him to come clean? Give him the boot!
2006-11-10 11:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down and talk to both of them. Maybe try to talk to other members of the family who were around when the money was stolen. get their take on the situation. Good Luck:)
God Bless and Be Safe:)
2006-11-10 11:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whos anybody? How did he act when you asked him about the money? Angry, defensive? If he started saying things like "Why are you asking me that?! You are only listening to them!" Then Im guessing he did take it because he was only trying to divert the blame.
2006-11-10 11:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure it's your bf who did it. Dump him. He is useless.
2006-11-10 11:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋