A year I joined a bad crowd and did wrong stuff. I got drunk and joined some guys who broke some windows and made some grafitti. I didn't but I was there. I got a harsh punishment from my parents, for 3 months was grounded from everything, had to clean walls an do heavy chores to pay my parentsfor those damages. I also joined some social activites, which was great. I made up for all my mistakes, Im free now, but got into a deep depression. I couldn't tal to my parents any more, because of resentment (they went overboard), shame and cause they reminded me of what I went through. I lost weight, got sick, my excelent grades fell and I had suicide thoughts. Acoording to my grandma who loves me, I stared a nwe life with her, a new school, far from everything that could remind me of that stuff. Now my parents and my lil sister want me back, but thos will be devastating. I can't live w/ them any more, though now they are proud of me, my grades, of what I am. I wanna live w/ who loves me
2006-11-10 02:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Edson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I was punished enough, don't deserve to be punished again. Living with my family and have everything back in my memory will be a kinda unfair and devastating punishment, I cant bear this. My parensta nd my sister want me back, said that thing is over, they love me, but it's alive in my brain. Now I have a new school, new friends and I love my grandma who never condmned me, but did her best to bring back my real "me" and taught me how to live again and get back my self-esteem. My parents should forget about me, I made up for all my mistakes. I had been mean to myb lil sister, but I then was so good to her that she misses me. I love her but getting back home will be my ruin..
2006-11-10 02:52:56 · update #1
This too will pass. You are young. Take it as a lesson learned. Talk to your grandmother about it. See what she says about it. Good Luck! I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
2006-11-10 02:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by pppersephone06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know everybody makes mistakes at some points in their life. You did make a mistake and learn from it. It is a great thing that you are able to start your new life, friends and school, but remember one thing, your parents must also be in your life. You and your folks have been through a tough time, and I believe the reason they have punished you was for your own good. See, how for you have come. If you feel that you still need more time to adjust and get yourself together, tell them so. Explain to them that once everything has passed, you will return. Tell them that you are happy at where you are right now and has your grandma who supports you. However, let them know that you still love them and they are still a big part in your life. One thing that you must be aware is that--they are still your parents. Of course, they will want you back to live with them, and that you should be glad for it.
The past is the past, but what you've learned from it only counts. What you have done is just a history, but you can allow some to be a part of who you have become. There is nothing wrong on it. Good luck.
2006-11-10 03:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mother of 3 boy's....2 of them are older than you. I had problems with my oldest son for awhile. Trust me, every teenager makes mistakes, so don't be to hard on yourself. Your parents love you, and of course they were upset by your actions. If they just let it go, that's saying everything was o.k, and it wasn't. I think you feel more shame for what you did. That's a good thing. It's normal to feel bad for something you know you did was wrong. If living with your grandma is making you happy, maybe the best and most honest thing you should do is sit down and really talk to your parents. Let them know everything that you feel. Good Luck
2006-11-10 05:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone does stuff there not proud of, your not alone. Talk to your grandmother about it and ask her to help talk to your parents. Tell them that you love them but what is best for you at this time is to stay with your grandmother. You are 15 and they can't really force you home, so talk with them. They are your parents and I'm sure that they love you and want only the best for you, even if it doesn't seem that way all the time.
2006-11-10 03:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be an exceedingly difficult question. My superb advice could be to stay with your grandma till severe college is over and then evaluate shifting back. Your 15 like me so as that could desire to point your in grade 10 as properly? so as this is only 3 years with your grandma. To sum this up, in case you particularly think of you're better off with your grandmother, it won't mess issues up with your parents to any extent further, and you'd be waiting to stay along with her, do it. i think of your parents ought to have been greater supportive and that's only what your Grandma can do for you precise now. i'm sorry for what you had to flow by way of and that i congratulate you on succeeding! stable success!xo :)
2016-12-28 17:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by guillotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter where you live, you won't forget what happened. Stop listening to your grandma, instead of trying to make things better for you and your family, sounds like she wants to put a wedge in and start trouble. If your parents didn't love, you, they wouldn't want you back. Did granny remind you of that?
2006-11-10 03:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know that Heavenly Father dose forgive his children and he dose forgive them 2 but i kindda know what you are going though my friend who is 21 years old and his parents are rude and they want him out and i am trying to help
2006-11-10 03:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by betsywilcox_40371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋