I have a step father who likes to complain about everything. Especially when it comes to things that I have done or not done. He was always on me about my wieght all thru high school. He drove me to hurting myself and now that I moved back in he's driving me to do it again. I haven't done anything and I can't move out cause I am B-R-O-K-E....no money...none...yesterday he yelled at my mom for buying my son diapers and food...What should I do? I'm ready to go insane....
2006-11-10 02:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy2Jose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stay patient and realize that this man likes to picl on other's flaws to not look at his own. Also try to get a job and move out. Where is the father of this baby? I hope he is helping with child support.
2006-11-10 02:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by princesscutesmile 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's a great environment for your son. Is it at all possible for you to move out on your own, with a room mate or other. What about the father of your baby? Is he providing financial support? If nothing else, you can at least get state aid for diapers and food for your baby.
2006-11-10 02:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a job instead of going insane and then live on your own. Yiou're done with the high school, so why are you still thinking about what happened then, it's not like you have no more pressing problems now.
2006-11-10 02:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been big enough to get a son, why don't you grow up a little and take your responsibility. You should try to get some social aide as you already know his feelings. Life is such a beautiful gift that you must not waste it more so that you now have a son. A mother is someone who is irreplaceable, so grasp all your courage and love for your son and give him a life worthy to be lived.
2006-11-10 02:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by getting a job and then support from the childs father. Then go for goverment assistance for housing, food and ADC. Then Move out! You are an adult. I'm sure he is hard on you because he wants you to be more sucessful.
2006-11-10 02:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys need professional help with communicating and family issues. Seriously. There is nothing wrong with that. Whatever happens, NEVER make it personal, stick to the issue but never attack the person.
Sounds that maybe he is not happy? Don't be afraid to look for help. Talk to someone you can trust or go to a church or a counselor at school but you MUST do something.
2006-11-10 02:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to focus on now is the welfare of you and your child... don't let him get to you- which I know is a lot easier said than done- but if your mother is willing to help you out, you do legitimately need the help, and you're doing all you can for yourself in the process, he really has not right to complain. Good luck!
2006-11-10 02:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kiillll him........jk yell at him then push him in the head it's like prison first day in just attack the **** out of the biggest guy there if you win no one will mess with you and if you lose well it could go either way
2006-11-13 17:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Joey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for one need a break time. 2 gotta get some help so ya can get on your feet and a job and get somewhere this doesnt sound good for you or your son , and try to see social services for this help they find job trainin and income and bill assistance and can help gettin all for ya. good luck dont sit there any longer. it will be hard for awhile but we all can do if we put our minds to it!
2006-11-10 02:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. talk to your mom about it. u are her daughter she should be there for u. do u have anyfrinds that could rent u a room or something till u get some money saved?
2006-11-10 02:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋