sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All
2006-11-10 02:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When my grandma died 10 years ago i was mad at her for being grouchy with my kids she loved them but she could be so grouchy I love her and still miss her so much especially at holidays she died on her B-day in the hospital the night before I was supoosed to go see her but decided even though I had a strong urge to go see her I didn't and never got to say good-bye
I think at times grandparents get neglected the most as they give so much and ask for so little in return
2006-11-10 02:20:42 · update #1
You should be proud of yourself for your wisdom in your dealings with your child. You have done all that you could. It is also important to remember that she'd want you to carry on with your life and enjoy it for both your sakes. Sometimes we judge the people in our lives, but we are only human. Expressing your feelings and letting others know that you care is a self healing process and you should keep up the good work.
2006-11-10 02:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by HGS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you, When I lost my mom 4 years ago me and my mom had a wonderful time, I remember just like it was yesterday when my sisters and I went to lunch and my sons was with us, she was so happy and she truly love her grandson, I wouldn't have never known that was going to be my last time seeing her...She collasped in my bathroom, taking to the hospital where my sister stayed all night and she died...I never got a chance to tell her that I love her, Even remember her saying my name the last time still is fresh in my mind...The day that she died and they took of the resperator because there was not brain function part of me died with her...So to say this in agreeance with you.. Please tell you loved ones that you love them life is not promised to you you can be here today and gone tomorrow without telling the ones you love that you love them...There is not a moment that goes by that I don't wish I could take that time and tell her that I love her very much...But you know I think she knew because she smiled for the last time...Before she died that is what my sister told me...so I am at peace but please don't let a day go by without telling your children, mother, father, husband, boyfriend, best friend, brother or sister that you love them and especially your grandparents because they need to know that you still love them a whole lot....I do all the time and my grandmother is 96...If you don't do anything else today do it...You will feel a lot better.
2006-11-10 10:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have hit on a subject very near & dear to me.My best friend of 38 tears died on his 63 birthday.We're not gay.WE would talk often on the phone but he had pissed me off somehow and we hadn't talked for 2 weeks,my Father died in 1971 Mother 1941.I worry to this day if they knew how much I loved them.Now I have my children ,sisters brother stepmother &wife that I
make sure they know I love them.If I don't talk to them that day they know.Oh by the way I love youI'am so sorry about your daughter God bless you.Your daughter knew that you love her
2006-11-10 10:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every time I talk to a family member or friend I make it a point to tell them I love them. Even when I have had a disagreement with someone I will tell them "I don't like what you did (or said) but I love you just the same".
2006-11-10 11:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by tinar92 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell my family i love them all the time. And i do but sometimes i dont like them.
2006-11-10 12:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you know what you r talking about awesome advice
2006-11-10 10:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by jrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyday
2006-11-10 10:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋