Why do your moms & dads do not let use make our life!?

Answer 1

If I understand your question you are asking 'Why Mom and Dads won't allow you to make your own way in life!?!'
Little One, I am a mother and let me tell you that being a mother is one of the most wonderfully joyful and painfully horrible jobs on this earth! We only want whats best for you and using our own experiences and our knowledge of the world is our way of teaching you so that you CAN go out and make your own way! However, because we are your parent we are afraid that you will make the same mistakes and be injured in your quest to find your way! As a mother, we love you more than our own lives and can't possibly bare the thought of you having to be harmed in any way shape or form if there is something we can say to you and do to prevent it! We don't want to stop you from becoming your own person and we know that we will not always be able to protect you but, as the Goddess is my witness it is impossible for us to stop being a mother just because you have become an adult! We have been there and done that! We don't want to tell you all of the horrible ugly things that have happened to us in our lives so we do the only thing we know how and that is to tell you, teach you, and for some, over protect you!
You are a part of us and for mothers, more so than fathers, it is a near impossiblity for us to let you go! We use your father to help fight our battles with you because they are normally physically stronger and men know physical, better than they know emotional. Because we can't bare the thought of you leaving and growing up and finding your own way, we struggle just as much as you do with the knowledge that you no longer need us! Not that you don't need us sometimes or maybe even more than sometimes. But, that you don't need us every moment of every day like you did when you were a child!
Just because you have grown into a wonderful adult does not stop the fact that you are still our child and we can't bare the fact that you need someone or something more than us!
As for me, I have two daughters, two sons, and six and a half grandchildren and I still can't stop needing them to need me more than they need everyone one else in their lives. I love my daughter in laws and son in laws but I still see the mistakes they make and how it could have been avoided, had they just listened to a bit of what I taught them.
Little one, we don't want you to find your own way! We just want you to be aware of what really happens out there and be watchful and ever so careful! In a time where children don't want their parents and parents don't want their children be grateful that you have parents who love you so much that they can't seem to let go. Just be patient! Your doing fine! Just be more aware of what you say and always ask your parents advice! This gives them the sense that you care and that you respect their opinion! It will make the transition a bit easier! They will never fully understand their child's need to be on their own but eventually 'We' let go a bit more and become excited about your transition into adulthood!

Good Luck Little One and I hope this helps

Blessed Be

Answer 2

You will eventually make your own life after you are out of the house and wandering around wondering why mom and dad didnt tell you how hard it really is.
While your parents are in charge and paying the bills you should see how hard it is for them too. Keeping jobs, paying bills and hoping that the police dont come to the front door about their child.
Being a kid is hard but being a parent is a true killer...take it from someone has done it. Us parents all regret that we could have done something different.
You will be the parent one day...not letting your kids make their own life. Dont worry for now, you will all grow out of it, and then you will wish for it all back when you get older.

Answer 3

Depends. If you adult enough, independent and can responsible for your life, no parents will strict on you.

But if you are still teenager or many of your purposes still provided by your parents, you still confuse, need your parents to secure and decided the BEST things for your life, and you don't know to think about the risk of your decision and how to manage and responsible of your decision. How can parents allow you to live alone in this dangerous world.

So, try to live with them and learn wisdom from your parents, Those are useful for your future.

Answer 4

Because we have been there growing up and made the mistakes ourselves and we do not want you making the same mistakes we do. Trust us. When you are grown you will look back and say, " Thank you mom and dad".

Answer 5

well, considering what your id name is, it sounds like you are too into boys... maybe they are right for prohibiting some things in your life.. they are your parents, they know whats best most times... you'll thank them later in life for how they raised you... I know i didn't appreciate mine enough in high school.. I'm now in my early 20s, and now have to make my own decisions, and I am so glad that my parents tought me all they could, and gave me rules... i am very successful for my age, and I owe much of it to my parents, I thank them every time i see them! life is too short to hold a grudge against them! i know that now!

Answer 6

Until you can write complete, grammatically correct sentences with no spelling errors, you have to follow your Mom & Dad's rules!

Answer 7

because they want to make sure you have a better life than what they have had and they want you to be happy ... but being happy at what they want for you ... listen to your parents and hear what they are telling you ... most of the time parents know what they are talking about and there is always compromise ... but you need to understand that they just really want you to be happy.

Answer 8

LMAO, WHAT? How about you read your question and then think why they wont let you...its pretty obvious that you are in no way ready to as you say 'make our life'.

Answer 9

Because you only THINK you know everything...you really don't. Wait until you're older, you'll understand and you'll appreciate the guidance they offered up...trust me. Sometimes I actually wish my parents had offered up more guidance than they did.

Answer 10

Because they have more experienced of life.and parents never think wrong for their kids.because their kids means world to them.so u have to be patience to live ur life in ur style.your time will come soon.