Family - September 2006

I was told in court that i could have my daughter back when i turn 18, but have recently found out that my mum won`t give me her back when i turn 18. Though i curently live with my mum she won`t let me even interact with my daughter because apparently it will ruin her routine when i go back to college is this allowed. All of this is causing conflict between me and my mum which creates an atmosphere around my daughter which really isn`t good for her. Can anyone please help me because i would really love to have my daughter back with me.

2006-09-08 11:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought a new/used mobile home in NM,after working most of my life i was finally able to buy a home for my daughter.She deserves is.She is already 19 yrs old but lives with me.I love that she is with me and says that when when she gets married she will never leave me alone,Bless her heart.Four years ago i was violated by two poilce officers in a small town near by,and it has been a horrible nightmare for both of us.I have isolated myself from the world because of fears i have now that were never there before.I was given counseling from the state for about 6months but the funds ran out,they said.I still fell horrified to go out their day or night.This year i said i would try to get out their and ignore my past, but that has turned out to be a total failure.I became atruck driver on and off for 7months but as always i start to freak out and loose it again and so i go home and crawl back into my room to be in the confort of my own tears.My daughter and i dream of a home &garden& peace

2006-09-08 11:45:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 11:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by maria d 1

Grandparents? Mine just came to visit I am bored ouit of my mind!

2006-09-08 11:41:38 · 29 answers · asked by ? 4

i have 2 brothers and 2 sisters and im the oldest.

2006-09-08 11:38:18 · 26 answers · asked by Perfectly Flawed 5

2006-09-08 11:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Christina D 1

I have some friends over sometimes and lately my girlfriend is saying my friends are being really messy and that she shouldn't have to clean up after them so much. I told her not to worry about it...I mean guys are messy like that...besides cleaning up after people is being a good hostess...unfortunately everytime i have the guys over she says they are too messy. I feel that it isn't their job to clean up if they are the guests and that she needs to do it. How do I get her to be a good hostess and quit complaining after they leave?

2006-09-08 11:19:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

as we are both adopted

2006-09-08 11:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anna B 3

2006-09-08 11:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by turtle girl 7

I'd like to get un-grounded. What should I say to my parents? And if that doesn't work, does anyone have any ideas on what I can do this weekend without hanging out with my friends? And keep in mind, I'm not allowed to walk around my neighborhood for more than 30 minutes alone because my parents suspect that I'm meeting my friends. So, any ideas?

2006-09-08 11:18:49 · 20 answers · asked by Kiddo 2

2006-09-08 11:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by no1shylass 4

OK right now i am in high school. After high school i will be 18. I want to go into the airforce for 2 years beacuse i love airplanes, it would be a good experience for me, i want to become stonger (emotionaly and mentally), and to do somthing for my country. After the airforce i want to go into a 4 year college and get a degree in the topic i want to be. I will be out of college at 24. Is that to old? Do i have time to go into the airforce? Have any edvice?

2006-09-08 11:04:48 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

2006-09-08 10:57:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi,
my mum and dad split up when i 9. I am the eldest and have found it tough because i have younger siblings and did things people my age don`t do. I passed my driving test when i was 18 because no one else could drive, only reason i did it was because i didn`t want people laughing at us when we went shopping. I only work part time but pay for car insurance and weekly food shopping and phone bill etc but my brother and sister whom are 20 and 18 work but pay nothing towards the house. I can`t go much because my money is gone when i buy food for family. Sister and bro wear expensive clothes and all i think about is my stupid family. I have made my family look like a million dollars because i wanted what was best but noone seems to care about me. I am only a 21 year old girl but so much resposiblility and mum doesn`t care i pay for everything. I am muslim and was born and bred here, i want to write so much things that have happened to me in my life but not much space here. Mother tried

2006-09-08 10:45:43 · 30 answers · asked by mary 1

2006-09-08 10:43:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and her mother have never been married and she has known two homes since birth. My daughter has been with me 5 days a week (going to school, under my medical insurance, providing for her well being, etc.) for the past 7 years. Now her mother is calling all the shots and goes from boyfriend to boyfriend without considering my daughter's emotions. I have been living in the same place since 2000 and I need to have my parenting rights back. Please help me.

2006-09-08 10:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Manuel M 1

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/here4you
Are You Abused? Does the person you love....
Track" all of your time? Constantly accuse you of being unfaithful?
Discourage your relationships with family and friends?
Prevent you from working or attending school?
Criticize you for little things? Anger easily when drinking or using other drugs?Control all finances and force you to account in detail for what youspend? Humiliate you in front of others?
Destroy personal property or sentimental items?
Hit, punch, slap, kick or bite you or the children?
Use or threaten to use a weapon against you?
Threaten to hurt you or the children?
Force you to have sex against your will?
If you find yourself saying yes to any of these, it's time to get
help! Don't Ignore the Problem... Talk to someone. Part of the abuser's power comes from secrecy. Victims are often ashamed to let anyone know about intimate family problems. Go to a friend or neighbor, or call a domestic violence Get help here

2006-09-08 10:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Kill himself and he wishes he was dead?

2006-09-08 10:38:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Then at the end of the night, you have to dive in and search for yours and the rest of the family's coat? LOL

2006-09-08 10:35:58 · 12 answers · asked by The Exotic Seamstress 2

2006-09-08 10:13:12 · 13 answers · asked by Bebe 4

My mom always tend to dout how smart i am ok im not the best student shes ever had and i have little blonde moments here and there and when ever i have something seriouse she always tells me that ill never make it because im dumb she says she doesnt know how im going to make it i life and it really hurts my feelings so times what do i say?

2006-09-08 10:12:54 · 25 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3

my mom kicked me out of the house and she told me to move sommewere else should i go with my boyfriend?

2006-09-08 10:02:36 · 14 answers · asked by ~* J@N3T ~* 1

How long does it usually take to go through the whole process?

2006-09-08 10:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny B 1

i have 3 sisters. one i know, she lives with my mum, we have the same mum and differing dads.

the other 2? well we have the same dad and differing mums. ive only ever seen them the once and that was about 14 years ago in london. they wouldve been maybe 18 months and 3 respectively. i have no contact with them or my dad now as me and me old man dont get on.

my quesstion is this. how do i find them? ive tried everything i can think of. ive even paid a private detective, but he ripped me off. i cant ask my dads family as theres bad blood there. im really at me wits end. so any suggestions are appreciated!

anyhow i really must head off to work!

2006-09-08 09:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by knuckles 1

2006-09-08 09:57:42 · 5 answers · asked by jackeyodom 1

2006-09-08 09:53:56 · 13 answers · asked by lauren l 1

I just moved to new mexico and I don't know anyone here. And, my wife went to seminar for a week. I'm home alone. What shall I do?

2006-09-08 09:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by ilovepepsi007 1

last night I asked u guys if its wrong to not have a relationship with my mother b/c she makes my life hell with her words and actions ect...she just called me and I told her that I wanted some space from her and she started to talk all of her **** all over again saying that it was me who destroyed everything for her financialy ect..the same old and that I dont wanna hear reality (about my marriage not being right ect..) and that is why I dont wanna have a relationship with her then she cried and said she did a lot for me and suffered a lot to have me in this world it came up to my throat to tell her all the things she has caused me but I thought whats the use anyways she's heard it a million times and still hasnt changed so I just hung up on her, now I am down and depressed AGAIN feeling guilty that I shouldnt treat her this way but what am I supposed to do let her hurt me all the time with her attitudes and pains and words ect...I really dont know what to feel please help me...

2006-09-08 09:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok like my brother will not let me do anything with boys. I cant go on a date with them unless he knows them really good and think that it is the right one for me. Do u think i should sneak and date people or just listen to him

2006-09-08 09:33:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Stepdad wants be to go huntin and i dont want to go how can i say no......And im not going to just say NO

2006-09-08 09:22:46 · 14 answers · asked by jack s 1