ok like my brother will not let me do anything with boys. I cant go on a date with them unless he knows them really good and think that it is the right one for me. Do u think i should sneak and date people or just listen to him
2006-09-08 09:33:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Kick your brother in the you know what and do what you want.
2006-09-08 09:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel and let him know that nothing is going to happend on the date and if talk'ing to him doesn't work I would act machure as possible for a whole week dont sneak out because your brother is just trying to look out for you. Hes a good brother you should be thankful
2006-09-08 09:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by abcfamilylover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should sneak around. How old are you? That could be one of the reasons your brother doesn't want you dating. If you are under 16 I think he has a point. Hope everything works out.
2006-09-08 09:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is just looking out for you and your interests. He is a boy and knows how boys think and what they want. You should listen to your brother and realize he just wants the best for you and odds are if he doesn't like a guy then there is a good reason.
2006-09-08 09:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to look out for you because he cares about you. But what does he know? You should listen to him from time to time, but not all the time. You have to learn from your mistakes and be more independent. I really don't think you need to sneak out and date other people. It will just get you in more trouble. Use your best judgement. Good luck!
2006-09-08 09:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young, and you shouldn't sneak to do anything.
Your brother loves you very much, but try talking to him that you have the right to choose friends for yourself, and unless that person does you wrong, it's not really any of his business who you like. If he remains overprotective of you, he's robbing you of experience, and that will only hurt you later in life.
2006-09-08 09:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age and the boys age. sounds like your brother is just protecting you. listen to reason, maybe try going on a double date with your brother and bf.
he's a guy and he knows what guys want - that's why he's worried.
2006-09-08 09:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your big brother, he is just looking and watching you, he didn't want to see you hurt, he loves you, and want your best.
Though you can also speak with him, and discussed with him of what is bothered to you, he should upnderstand if he loves you.
Tell him, you are a family, share what you feel.
2006-09-08 09:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by sivan325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your brother, he sounds like he cares about you and loves you. He should know how guys are...he's one himself.
2006-09-08 09:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if you're under age, I think he's got the right to take care of you.
2006-09-08 09:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Heather J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋