Family - July 2006

my father drinks,works,but also is very controlling.even to my mom!he has us get up and get him what he wants,even if we don't wanna.we are more like his slaves than family.i don't know how to deal with this.that is why i was hoping someone knew.and that is why i'm asking anyone.

2006-07-11 05:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by yoyo14 1

My boy friend and I just had a baby 6 mo. ago, however he found someone else 4 mo. ago. Then 2 mo. ago he kicked me and the kids out, and moved her in. We'd been together for about 3 years, we were best friends also lovers. I'm devistated, I feel like I/we were replaced, he doesn't even spend much time with our son. Having a family with me was something he'd always wanted, his dream come true, then he threw it away, like it meant nothing to him, for this girl who doesn't even give a damn about her own kids! She's nothing but bad news, he knows it, but he still chose to be with her. There's nothing I can do, and I can't let him keep stringing me along. He crushed my heart, my dreams, and my world. I will not let him hurt me again, he had his chances and he blew them. Now I have to think about my babies, I've spent the last 2 mo. crying over him, but now I need to focus on my kids and give my love and my life to them, 'cause they need me and love me more than anything.

2006-07-11 05:45:55 · 22 answers · asked by sadgirl 1

2006-07-11 05:43:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jaycee 1

During his marriage with my mom, my dad had an affair with a woman and had a child with her. He caused my mom and I horrible pain when he left us 5 years ago for the same woman. Two years later, he married that woman. My dad and I had a bitter fight about what he did and I havent seen or heard from him since then. 3 years later, his my aunt calls me saying my dad wants to make amends and is inviting me to his 50th bday. Should I forgive him for what he did just like that?

2006-07-11 05:37:03 · 18 answers · asked by daydream♥believer 4

Or ernest charlesworth from hull (thatll teach me for picking a random name lol).

2006-07-11 05:33:57 · 6 answers · asked by ripsnate 1

BESIDES a House or a Car, whats the most expensive posession you have?

2006-07-11 05:19:51 · 9 answers · asked by kristin22 4

Long story short. My brother "Mark" lives with his girlfriend "Becky" and HER 4 yr old daughter "Sally". They live in an unacceptle housing condition. (Food everywhere, dirty dishes piled up, dog crap/pee on the floor, leaking roof, ect. ect.... nasty nasty house). Becky doesn't take proper care of her daughter, she'll sleep in til when ever leaving Sally to find food for herself. Becky has laundry piled up that would take at least 20-25 loads to do. Sally wears dirty, raggy cloths that Becky gets from yard sales. WITHOUT washing them first. Pants, shirts, panties....whatever. She just does't wash them first. I contacted SRS and they gave them notice of when they would be there. That gave Mark and Becky plenty of time to 'clean up' and act like nothing was wrong. What can I do to protect this innocent 4 yr old? I can't confront my brother about it. He has a short temper and can't handle anyone telling him Becky is a lousy mother. Please help me help a 4 yr old. HELP!

2006-07-11 05:15:27 · 2 answers · asked by TJ 2

My son is 11 yrs old and I feel is very lazy. My husband and I have to literally push him to go play outside and play basketball or tell him to call his friends which he doesnt have many. I make a chore list for him to do on a daily basis and that can not even get done until the last minute and if I give him a chore to do that is not on the list its "can I do it in a little while?". We have enrolled him in golf leagues which he likes to golf and even past sports and he always wants to quit within 3 weeks of doing this sport. All he wants to do is sit in his room and watch TV or play playstation. He does ride or walk to his grandmas but all he does there is sit around. Its like pulling teeth to get his butt outside and play like normal kids. What should I do to get him outside more? I have taken TV and playstation away and he just sits in the house in his room. I am totally lost

2006-07-11 05:05:55 · 21 answers · asked by twillett33 1

i have a brand new corvette, and its a 174 mile trip, one way

2006-07-11 05:04:47 · 19 answers · asked by tawasperson 1

My father's crying and moaning my mother's name who's died long time ago... it made me cry also?!? Help me, please...?

My mother has passed away during my childhood and I miss her a lot... Now, I just live with my father and my twin sister together... just three of us. I don't have any fond memory with my mom... but I sometimes think about her and -I don't know why- I start crying...

When I ask my father about mom, he doesn't talk a lot about her. He only says that I resemble her a lot in many ways, I look like my mom when she's about my age, and I've been inherited by her talent on dancing and fighting... those all just make me cry in the end...

Last night, after I made love with my boyfriend... I came home late and found my father crying on the couch... moaning about mom and how he missed her so much.... It's too much for me and I started crying again...

What's wrong with us? Why can't we just let her go...?

2006-07-11 05:03:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I think my sis is being too sensitive. She expects people to do everything that she wants. I am not going to fall for her tears. She has been a disgrace to this family. She nearly got sent to prison cos she got obsessed over this white fella who was twice her age and had sex with him too-dirty cow. Then she kept attention-seeking by overdosing …was in a ward of nutters for a few weeks. My mum trusts me; I feel I earn her respect and trust. I can go off traveling as my trusts me…no one can trust my sis. Her problem is that she expects too much of people. The other night she presumed I purposely banged the door and that was whining to me. She really pisses me off so slammed the door again. My sis is a liar, manipulator. I will never forgive her when she punched my tooth out when I was little. She said the other night 'I can't remember doing that we were kids we are adults now’..Yeah Right! I don't trust her. I refuse to lend her my stuff now. I hate her.

2006-07-11 04:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by Rain M 1

Well, I have one particular friend, who has been living pretty good in the appartament (( he is 22 with 18 y/o brother )). I have a job at casino, making over $1800 (( it vaires from $1600 to $2000 )). He said I could pay $300 a month and stay with him. Soo...I am pretty sure I wouldn't have to worry much about the money/income. And I am good student w/o any parent or anyones help. Yes, I have talked to them...my stepdad says its a dumb choice to make (( And I do know that )) but..its my life. My mom --- thats different story, she dont wanna listen to it.. I dont care...

What could they do if I move out? Just wondering ... I have drawn few ideas what COULD they do...but ... I think they would be pretty crazy to do that.

Thanks again,
Arciux

2006-07-11 04:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by Arciux 1

He's a lovely little boy without a nasty bone in his body - yet other children seem to constantly reject him. His teacher is always very sympathetic, but nothing seems to change - the children in question usually only get a mild telling off - after which they return to the playground to carry on. Has anyone else had this problem, and resolved it?

2006-07-11 04:36:44 · 36 answers · asked by Hello Dave 6

See.....My father was in the Air Force and he got divorced with my mom when i was two.................now i have to find him so that for one.........I can go live with him and get out of the Foster child thing! and for two so that i can get to know him! I really just want to meet him......................I won't ask for ANYTHING else.......................I just want to get to know him....................So how do i go about locating him.......................I already called the Grand Forks AFB and they said that they'll call back with any info.........................but what else can i do to try and find him?

2006-07-11 04:28:33 · 10 answers · asked by death479 1

Kids were at their Dad's home when he fought with his 15 year old son. My kids do not want to go back, CPS screened it but declined to investigate. Now What?

2006-07-11 04:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by sinneragain 4

Share that memory!

2006-07-11 04:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by exotic69n 3

Yup, I turn 18 tomorow. I and my mother came to US 4-5 years ago, she got married to an retired marine (( 20 years in the service )). They are TOTALLY different from each other. What she allows me to do, he greatly disagrees. And visa versa. My mother has been VERY stressed out due to her ex husband, her parents, her very bad english, and her upcoming future. So...she is very jumpy: yelling at everyone, grumpy, everything is wrong for her. My stepdad --- he is just...nuts...
Anyhow -- to the point. I turn 18 tomorow, and I still got 1 year of school (( senior ... )) to do (( I will graduate before I turn 19 )). Well...I am just tired -- very much -- of my mom and stepdad. And I was told by others that I once turn 18 -- I can move out.

Is that possible? Can I move out without my parents stoping me? And such... I live in biloxi, Mississippi.

Please answer...I am very annoyed and ready to go.

Thanks,
Arciux

2006-07-11 04:17:37 · 16 answers · asked by Arciux 1

not even towards a savings account or anything benefiting them

2006-07-11 04:15:06 · 31 answers · asked by jerzshortii 1

Well I think my sis is being too sensitive. She expects people to do everything that she wants. I am not going to fall for her tears. She has been a disgrace to this family. She nearly got sent to prison cos she got obsessed over this white fella who was twice her age and had sex with him too-dirty cow. Then she kept attention-seeking by overdosing …was in a ward of nutters for a few weeks. My mum trusts me; I feel I earn her respect and trust. I can go off traveling as my trusts me…no one can trust my sis. Her problem is that she expects too much of people. The other night she presumed I purposely banged the door and that was whining to me. She really pisses me off so slammed the door again. My sis is a liar, manipulator. I will never forgive her when she punched my tooth out when I was little. She said the other night 'I can't remember doing that we were kids we are adults now’..Yeah Right! I don't trust her. I refuse to lend her my stuff now. I hate her.

2006-07-11 04:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by Rain M 1

My husband and I just celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary 2 days ago. We live next door to his mother. everytime she has a problem of any kind she calls him to come help her & stays there for hours. She has it in his head that he is to be the father figure 2 his 2 younger brothers. She always asks to borrow money and he doesnt tell me till after he let her. He makes plans for us with her and her family without telling me. She even tried to take over in the planning of our wedding last year. He feels that he has to take care of her and his brothers. We dont have much money for us to live on in the first place. She invites herself almost every place we go together. And he is ok with it. We dont have much free time for just the 2 of us. They never ask me if its ok with me. His mom plays the drama card on him all the time and he falls for it. Everytime I say something he just gets mad and wont talk to me for days. I dont know how to get it through his head. What should I do?

2006-07-11 04:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 04:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by natalie s 1

2006-07-11 04:08:33 · 13 answers · asked by Ha Ha Charade You Are................... 4

2006-07-11 04:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 04:03:48 · 24 answers · asked by jransmac 1

I am the youngest brother and I have 3 sisters from a traditional indian family. A few months back I graduated and my mum brought me a card and an expensive briefcase. The year before it was my sisters graduation and we got her nothing. She insisted we go out for a celebration and after the meal I suggested that she pay as kept saying she would. She said she didn't have her card so my parents paid. A few years back it was her birthday and we got her a card but no present. My mum handed her a bag of loose nuts. a few weeks later it was my birthday and my mum gave me some presents. My mum has always said I will get the property that she owns. that is 3 houses worth in total over half a million. However I am the youngest and it was my sisters who helped my mum pay for the mortagages...they turned over quite a bit of their salaries. My folks gave my two older sisters 'ok' weddings and for my other unmarried sister my mum is encouraging her to make it small.

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My mum said that most people split up so its best to have a small wedding. but for me as her son...she wants a big glam Indian wedding. Is this right?
Is my sister right to feel hurt by all of this ..or is she oversensitive.. My other sisters don't even notice

2006-07-11 03:59:14 · 24 answers · asked by Rain M 1

The coin is in good condition; all details are visible.

2006-07-11 03:55:53 · 8 answers · asked by sneaky comet 3

like if you prayed to God for a child and someone comes up to you and wants you raise her child, would that be God's will? i know he works in mysterious ways.

2006-07-11 03:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by jackeyodom 1

i have been praying for kids for most of my life but haven't found the correct partner.
i go by african-american but i have indian, white, mexican, puerto rican in the family and the baby is hispanic.
how can i keep him without having him taken away by the government or state?
what are the neccessary steps to keep him. could i just tell him that i am his father and his mom gave him up to me?
i think it's a gift from God.

2006-07-11 03:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by jackeyodom 1

2006-07-11 03:42:51 · 53 answers · asked by m b 1

i have absolutly no clue what to get him.. my mom and dad are already getting him a brand new bike that is much needed. if any of you have any ideas, contact me please.... hes party is on the 22nd of this month. he like pokemon alot.

2006-07-11 03:42:08 · 10 answers · asked by cm2635 2