Well I think my sis is being too sensitive. She expects people to do everything that she wants. I am not going to fall for her tears. She has been a disgrace to this family. She nearly got sent to prison cos she got obsessed over this white fella who was twice her age and had sex with him too-dirty cow. Then she kept attention-seeking by overdosing …was in a ward of nutters for a few weeks. My mum trusts me; I feel I earn her respect and trust. I can go off traveling as my trusts me…no one can trust my sis. Her problem is that she expects too much of people. The other night she presumed I purposely banged the door and that was whining to me. She really pisses me off so slammed the door again. My sis is a liar, manipulator. I will never forgive her when she punched my tooth out when I was little. She said the other night 'I can't remember doing that we were kids we are adults now’..Yeah Right! I don't trust her. I refuse to lend her my stuff now. I hate her.
2006-07-11 04:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by Rain M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I deserve the money…mum swiped money of my three sisters and put it in an AXA account so according to my mum they get that split between four of us. I get the houses to keep as my mum says the ‘boys ‘ family strong. My sis shouldn’t even be talking about this. She should be grateful for what she has. No one forced her to pay. Once she gave my mum £3K for some dogy Indian priest to pray for my dad who is dead. She gave my mum money on her own accord. My mum use to get annoyed with her as my sis use to work in Mcdonalds cleaning toilets and handed the money over to my mum. When she got her first wage packet …she kicked up a fuss as she wanted the money but mum showed her.....that as a family the money should be pooled she was 16 then….I was 10. I don’t give my money away although my mum never asks but always asked my sister. My sis can’t do anything right. A few weeks ago she brought a £5K cross trainer on credit. I said it was a waster but she insisted.
2006-07-11 04:42:28 · update #1
i'm asking this question again...as I would like to get a broad perspective and have a few males answer this as most people answering are women
2006-07-11 04:42:54 · update #2
Yes i think she has the right to be upset and you just sound really spoilt rotten!! How can you treat your sister like this? She is your blood relative! What ever happened to families caring for each other. All your worried about is scrounging of your parents and planning for their death before they are even gone yet! I think you are acting so immature and need to grow up!!
2006-07-11 04:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you or your Mother ever sit down and ask your sister what's really bothering her? All this attention is for a reason. I think she may be suppressing something and is acting out.
You shouldn't hang on to the past like that either. It's time to move on. Families will not be around for ever. I just lost my sister a couple months ago, one day she was fine, the next she was diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer. She died one month later.
I have no one left other than friends. Resolve the issues with your sis, find out what's really bothering her and work it out.
Good luck.
2006-07-11 04:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be interested in hearing what the 'males' have to say, sorry you don't like the opinions of us 'females'. But from this update I think you sound awful, you sister may be attention seeking and wilder than you might like, but she doesn't sound that bad, while you just sound horribly judgemental and controlling. I hope she finds the courage to stick two fingers up to the lot of you and make her own live.
Knocked out a tooth when you were kids? Oh get over it and grow up.
2006-07-11 04:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by peggy*moo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your sister is getting treated like s#*t and you are getting everything handed to you. look at it from her perspective, imagine it was you in that position and don't come up with any crap like that's her place or her role, she should be treated the same as you but she's not. It's not your families place to say she disgraced it, she is going through hell and you are worried about what people might say - take care of her and forget what people think.she isn't a dirty cow for having sex, millions of people do it everyday - it is human nature.she was not attention seeking by overdosing she was in serious mental and physical danger.you are a brat and need to wake up and treat people how you expect to be treated.
2006-07-11 04:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by bryanocarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum "Swiped" money from your sisters and is saving that money to split between the FOUR of you (you included--who has given nothing??) Your sister cleaned toilets at MacDonalds and had to give money to your mother where as you have contributed nothing to your family? You and your mother are both messed up. No wonder your sister acts like she does. Your mother is to blame for being selfish, playing favourites among her kids, and treating her daughters like 2nd class citizens and bringing you up to think this is right and normal.
2006-07-11 05:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by K's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t Know about 1st q
Never read all this
All I know is She is your SISTER you should be bending backwards to help her.
I WOULD
!0 to 15 years ago I did all sorts to help my SISTER
Then 10yrs ago I went through a personal TRAUMA, With losing EVERYTHING,
HEALTH WIFE JOB HOUSE MONEY THE LOT
I tried to kill my self.DEPRESSION YOU AINT SEEN NOTHING
I am still not well
But who cares I got my SISTER
Through all this I had one person at my side
MY SISTER,
Her life took a turn for the better at about the same time
Now she is still looking AFTER ME Gave me her 2yr old car when she got a new one, Bought me a flat to live in
When I started to pull my self together
I would not change her for anything
Think I could have been you or You could have been me
ONE DAY YOU MAY NEED HER
Treasure her for she probably treasures you
2006-07-11 05:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, It's a bit tricky knowing what the real question is unless we have ALL the history & facts. So it's hard to give a real opinion. But I'm sure if you started a 360 page and added a BLOG, & connect it to your public profile.
You might feel better to let it all out!
2006-07-11 04:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family sound like a right bunch of w*nkers! your sister hasnt had the same treatment as the rest of you. you all treat her like dirt. ya shes done some stupid things in the past but im sure you did aswell. hates a strong word and shouldnt be used. your her family you should all look out for each other
grow up and help her before its too late
2006-07-11 04:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by zoe_fairy_on_acid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take back my last comments, I would hate for you to be part of my family.Sounds like you all need help.
2006-07-11 04:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by A G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in the middle east?
2006-07-11 06:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by yougottabekiddingme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋