how can i be supportive and strong while my man is out of state working, i miss him dearly...?

Question

my husband had to recently leave to go out of state to make money for the new baby on the way, i am now 6 months and while he was here in texas we couldnt find him any job, so he had to go, i really miss him and i need him home, the distance is making me go crazy. i still try to be supportive and all but it gets me down not having him home....

Answer 1

I don't see a problem, I see a choice that needs to be made? If the job is temporary just keep reminding yourself of that. If it's permanent, then move to where he is. I know you're lonely and you miss him and being pregnant doesn't help but also remember you're husband is making a huge sacrifice and is missing you just as much as you are him. Use any means necessary to stay in contact with him while you're apart.

Answer 2

Well try not to get to wrapped up in yourself. Always keep busy, maybe you could take up some type of hobby. Or if you're an animal person, invest your time in a puppy or kitten. Don't worry too much and just know things will not be that way forever.

Answer 3

Something I learned with time. Distractions help and having stuff to do is a great way to pass the time. Tackle a big project around your place or go exercise.

Answer 4

I can completely understand what you mean... trying to do something constructive.. Hopefully you are working... else come up with some mall project at home or something that involves both of you .. Say like pictures... do some art work with pictures...

Answer 5

Talk to him everyday on the phone that will help alot....If its a good job with good money then you might just have to learn to deal with it...or talk to him about getting a job at home