Family - June 2006

Can it be genetics? When I see children shrieking and misbehaving in public, is it always the parents? I know people like to blame it on the parents? But can things like ADD and ADHD be genetic? Thigns that cause children to misbehave so badly? I hate kids, I don't want any and I do not tolerate any of their crap. That's why I don't babysit. But I was wondering if it's always the parents fault? I have ADD, but I keep it under control most of the time. I know people who have kids tha tare ADHD and just UNCONTROLLABLE. Horrible children...and the parents are as sweet as they can be. I've got a friend who is just fine, her mom raised her and her brother the same way, she is fine and married and happy, but her brother...my GOD. What a TERROR.

2006-06-29 02:35:09 · 16 answers · asked by shawny4me 3

2006-06-29 02:21:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-29 02:12:22 · 22 answers · asked by kojee 1

My son has Tourette's Syndrome and ADHD and uses Marijuana to cope. He is living in a tent in the backyard and is out of money. I refuse to help him further until he is off drugs and he has no desire at this point in time. I am tired.

2006-06-29 01:59:24 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Masternada 2

Every time there is a family event, I am the outcast and it's sickening. I sit there and no one really acknowledges me unless I speak up first. How should I deal with that?

2006-06-29 01:46:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bit of a long one. I have been with my husband for ten years and married for seven. My children are from a previous relationship. My daughter was 22 and my son was 14 when I met my husband. I already had a grand-daughter who was a few months old at the time (my daughters) so she has known him as her step-grandad ever since (she will be 10 soon). My son, who still lives at home, announced last week that his girlfriend of 6 years is pregnant. I was over the moon and so was my husband. When we were alone and talking about the baby, he said that this one will really feel like his own. At the time, I did make a comment, but the more I think of what he said, the more it hurts. He had never been married before and has no children of his own (I couldn't have any). I just can't understand why he would say this as he has always got on with my children. I'm hurt because I get the impression that this grand child will be treated differently. Am I wrong thinking this way?

2006-06-29 01:38:42 · 35 answers · asked by Somer 4

How would you describe an ideal father? What is the most important thing for new fathers to keep in mind?

2006-06-29 01:30:49 · 13 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4

what thoughts go into naming your new born baby? how do you finalize especially if there are many family members who want to be honored?

2006-06-29 01:29:00 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-06-29 01:10:41 · 12 answers · asked by RAJIMATHI 1

How do I stop my sister from peeing the bed shes 10 so please help

2006-06-29 00:54:55 · 31 answers · asked by Tyler 2

2006-06-29 00:33:03 · 17 answers · asked by priya k 1

we have been married for the past 15 yrs and now my wife wants mutual consent and i am not for it.She now wants to go to the court in case i dont agree for mutual.I am scared that my sons will be affected and also their future.I still love my wife and my 2 sons 13 and 6.I cant think of a life without them.But my wife is insisting on mutual consent and infact wants it to be done by july 1st week.I asked her whether she is in love with anyone to which she said no,so i asked her then why after 15 yrs,she is not giving a reasonable answer.I dont want to drag her to the court and tarnish her name,but she is not leaving me any option.she says she will definitely apply for divorce.I cant live without her.Please help me.im more depressed than beforeand as such living away from my family for the past 4 months and visit my sons only during week ends.Life has no meaning for me.What should i do?she has hysterical problems and she refused to be treated for the same.I want us together with children.

2006-06-29 00:09:33 · 9 answers · asked by rajan kumar 3

2006-06-29 00:08:57 · 36 answers · asked by s m 1

i want names that begins with A,S,J,F, & I

2006-06-28 23:52:59 · 60 answers · asked by ufuoma frances o 1

for someone thats just passed away?
in the uk

2006-06-28 23:38:59 · 14 answers · asked by Pat 4

im filipino/chinese spanish mix. a mutt.

2006-06-28 23:18:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 23:01:31 · 27 answers · asked by christyxy777777 5

My mum is depressed, argues with everyone around her including myself, and refuses to take any advice from anyone. She constantly argues with my dad, & not just banter- the situation is often extremly hostile and even frightening. I really want to help her,but she is so sour and bitter at the moment, she takes it all out on the whole family, manipulating us all and threatening suicide and divorce. Desipte this all, my dad still refuses one. Mum blames me for her sadness and blames me for corrupting her relationship with my dad,and has told me several times that she wants me out of the house at 16.As i am only 15,this scares me so much,i feel so alone sometimes as i have no-one to talk to about it, and not many close friends.I have no respect for her as she has made my life hell, she avoids any social situations as much as she can, and she tells me she wants to bash me up, although she never actually does.I know she hates me, but i dont know what iv done so wrong- what can i do?

2006-06-28 22:51:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live in an extented family. we are I think a reasonably peaceful family but there are those those when everyone in the house is moody and sour, just one day u can find my autie very sour ,pissed with mom, or ves versa, my cousine shouts at everyone. argument of who doesn't buy food or who does , everyone makes his own breakfast , no good mornings ,no good nights ,auncle slap his wife things like that. very hurtful things are said u can think we are not a family. its becomes very cloomy i feel like leaving. on the other hand some day its completley different ,everyone is happy we eat breakfast together, i make jokes everyone laughs, i wonder why sometime this happiness vanishes like its never been there. i always try to remain neutral and pretend every thing is cool but iam getting tired. when i try to moveout my mom doesnot want and iam afraid it may seem selfish coz fanancial situation does not allow some to live on their own for now. please help

2006-06-28 22:39:06 · 12 answers · asked by kau la poo 2

Hi folks, i want to move to the USA. How do i actually go about finding a home, and a job????

2006-06-28 22:28:41 · 13 answers · asked by Mitch_Gough_UK 1

My friends mom,whom I live with,is always bitching at me?She makes ME do everything when her kids could do it juss as well.I'm about sick and tired of it.And I'm not going back to MY mom for a few more months.I have tried to talk about it to her,but she juss wants to fight and holler.I'm going insane,And i have been cutting because of it.

Did I do something wrong?
How do I fix this problem that is tearing me in two?

2006-06-28 22:19:22 · 30 answers · asked by inurface012391 2

2006-06-28 21:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by a_scorah 1

I am almost 6 months pregnant and I am looking for a boys name that sounds good with Nathan. All that I can come up with that my husband likes is Nicholas. Which would be cute but what do you think?? Any other names you can think of?? Thanks in advance!

2006-06-28 21:28:51 · 29 answers · asked by SP 2

Been ages since I asked about him, I know very little beside a name, and Im afraid to upset my mother asking, shes 68, he may be deceased, But I am curious to know other sibs and anything about him, can I bring this up once more with her?

2006-06-28 21:20:19 · 14 answers · asked by smilingbluelady 2

2006-06-28 21:12:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

cos i think that it is totally unacceptable and now by reading my personal diary, my mum wants me out but if she hadn't read it she wouldn't know anything

2006-06-28 21:10:19 · 31 answers · asked by Kayz 1

This is a sensitive question, so I hope you guys will not get irritated with what I ask. Sorry if I cause any ill feelings.

If you are born a step sibling in your family, or if you are forced to lived with a step parent since young or if you are raised in a single family but your other parent has cheated on the parent that raised you, do you fell any pressure living your life? In short, if you come from a family that is broken, do you have this feeling in you that is
frustrating, or mistrust, or hateful? Do you feel life is very unfair or do you feel there is a deep anger in you.etc? Do you have hatred?

Sorry if I can't describe more clearly. Because I just don't know.

2006-06-28 21:06:08 · 6 answers · asked by GeorgeRock 2

We've had him evaluated for everything. He's in speech two days/wk and social play groups twice a week. (Dr. said to try it...) I think its a lot for 2 yrs. old. Shouldn't he just be a kid and he'll talk when he's ready??? Why all the pressure from doctors and teachers about the "normal" development timeline? He's my first child so I'm new to all of this stuff. Help!

2006-06-28 20:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by Jo 2

I don't do drugs are drink. I just am weak. I had to of my kid back to back and I thought that was the reason, but that was three years ago. My family needs me more now and they are reason I do what I do do?

2006-06-28 20:59:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 20:55:03 · 1 answers · asked by W5 2