Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

mine would be like, if you have ever seen the movie meet the parents where, if the proposal turned out right she would of turned aroud and (she was a teacher) all the kids were each holding letters that spelt "will you marry me?" that is the cutest thing in the world. what is yours?

2007-12-11 10:13:19 · 15 answers · asked by hello :) 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I separated a year ago, but our 3 yr anniversary is coming up right after Christmas. I am dating an amazing man, right now but I recently talked to my husband and he wants to work things out which I have wanted to since we split. Im not real sure about what I should do because I know for sure I wont be able to love anyone while im still in love with my husband.

2007-12-11 10:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If mother doesn't know who father is, can she give a surname which ever comes to her mind. Assume she doesn't want a child to have her surname or surname of her parents?

2007-12-11 10:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by katya e 1 in Family

How come guys have to be the ones to ask girls out, why not vice-versa?

2007-12-11 10:10:16 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my best friend finally came to this friday nite hang out. she brought her bro [if you've seen my other questions then u no hes a PERV] and he brought his really cute friend =]. well i started talkin to his friend and he was really nice and funny. but then i found out he lives in a city about an hour away. well that nite about 3 in the morning she called me and put me on speaker and she said. do u like tyler? and i sed take me off speaker nd she sed no him nd my bro are sleeping. nd i sed ok yah. nd she sed y? nd i sed cuz hes nice, funny, and cute. and in the background i heard her brother say. tyler i told u she liked u . then my friend hung up on me. well at skool she told me he wanted to no cuz he likes me to!!!!!!!!!! well where do i go frum here. do i talk to him on myspace? or get his number and call him? IM CONFUSED. HELP. this guy is most def a good one....... for once =]

2007-12-11 10:10:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just asking

2007-12-11 10:08:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well im 14 and most guys dont think of me as girlfriend material. i play ice hockey on my school JV team and im the only girl so most guys think of me as the best friend they can talk sports to. so how do i get them to see me as more then just the best friend? thanks

2007-12-11 10:03:59 · 26 answers · asked by hockeyislife 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 10:01:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This question was posted a few months ago, I came across it just surfing the question board. Has anybody considered that anybody with this issue that has other issues to contend with such as mental illness, mental impairments and/or childhood abuses which have carried on into later in life? People far too often hold onto a "if the world around me doesn't conform to my beliefs then it is wrong" attitude. Instead of calling on a county or city to force someone to clean up, causing more problems, how about taking a look inside yourself and your own 'backyard'? I live next to a 'family' that has demonstrated physical abuse to each other, allowed kids to drink/drug, the older people drink/drug themselves as well, and all abuse neighborly boundaries, but heaven help all others that don't have a pristine home and lawn. Outward perfection doesn't always mean "clean". The person you think is a material mess outwardly could be the most beautiful person inside that you'd like to admire.

2007-12-11 10:01:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 10:00:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure I even want to be friends with the perpetrater anymore...but I've known him far longer and had been much closer w/him than the victim. Nonetheless, I am 100% positive she is telling the truth. Whenever she has come over to our house in the past few months (he's also a roommate), and he's drunk, he's been trying to grope and fondle her. Also, he was good friends (obviously not...) with her current boyfriend of two years. Culminating in an incident where she woke up and he was putting his hand down her pants...and then when she pushed his hand away he just ran off because she was awake. Then kept coming back every 30 minutes or so to see if she'd gone back to sleep. It's creepy, it's disgusting, and it's really f-ed up....I know he was traumatized in youth and probably molested--and that's no excuse, AT ALL. But I need outside input--do I talk to him about this? Confront him so he knows that I know? Tell him to move out? Can things ever be okay again?

2007-12-11 09:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Friends

Last Sunday when everyone was in church wife and I were laying on our bed cuddling each other. We're newly weds. She goes "what are you plans for today?"
I go, "I want us to go shopping for you, pick out a pretty dress and and some sexy lingerie, have lunch some place nice, come back home, you have a quiet afternoon nap and I'll cook us a good dinner, we'll have a nice romantic dinner together, and then I'll give you a sensual massage. Then I want you to put on that dress that we'll buy and make yourself real pretty and then I want to take it all off and eff you senseless."
She looked pretty excited about everything up until the very end. And then she says "you asshole" and then pretty much our whole day was ruined and we've barely talked since. Where did I go wrong? Was it really the end? She won't talk about it so I don't know. I need some pointers.

2007-12-11 09:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well the other day my boyfriend and i were watching tristan and isolde and when he died at the end i was crying my eyes out. he looked at me like i was nuts!!! and started cracking up. when i asked him why he was laughing, he said that it was all so fake and i shouldnt be crying over it! and i got so mad. i do not understand why he didnt feel anything during the movie. the same thing happened when i watched titanic with him, and the painted veil and even becoming jane. he said that theyre all setup and that theres nothing taht sad about it. WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM?? DO I NEED TO TAKE HIM TO THE HOSPITAL?? how can you not cry or feel sad during those movies! i mean, its not like im gonna think any less of him if he admitted that it was a sad movie. (he is very arrogant and cocky though..surfs, football, soccer, basketball, baseball, snowboarding, has a band) but that shouldnt matter at all!!! why does he act like this??

2007-12-11 09:54:07 · 9 answers · asked by jamie 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents divorced when I was 6. I had an older half-sister (whom was 9.5 at the time) from my father's first marriage. My mother re-married shortly after and so did my fahter. Thier new spouses really liked me.

My mom had 8 more children with this man and I never really felt loved by her. She ignored me, and was constantly fighting with me. My step-father already had 2 children from his first marriage and they hated my mom.

So my mother and I weren't very close and soon she let my step-mother adopt me, but she still saw me. I felt loved

I just found out today my step-mother died. Now don't say: If your stepmom died why are you on Y!A? The reason is, is because it is my way of grieving. My step-mom was like the only mom I ever had. When my husband died, SHE was the one to confort me.

I told my birthmother and she said if I go to her funeral that she will never speak to me again! I am stuck here because I love my step-mother and I love my mom too. HELP!

2007-12-11 09:53:15 · 16 answers · asked by Dina 3 in Family

do you think a man can just be freinds with his ex girlfreind? Even though he may still flirt?

2007-12-11 09:52:43 · 3 answers · asked by hunybuny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 09:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Singles & Dating

im in state of dilemma,im living with my 2 girls,1 ill with brain tumor aged 14,1 aged 8 yrs.
The father is my ex hubby we are divorced,but living back together due to our child being so ill the last year,she has had 14 ops inlast yr,its drained both of us,my ex has had a nervous breakdown,me im just hanging in there!.
Any way i have been going out over this period with a male friend ive known yrs,not properly mates till last yr.
We met again through his sis who i know better,we go for drinks local,my ex knows ,im not having a sexual relationship with my ex who living with me,but i know he would love us to get back together in that way.
However i trully feel in love with this male mate,ive not done anything with him sexually,the first night i went out with him he did try but i refused,saying didnt want to ruin friendship.Since then ive regreted this,ive often stayed at his house after going out and he flirts with me,this has led me to try it on with him then he said no ,i dont fan

2007-12-11 09:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by nottmlayla 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfreind just doesn't get what being in a relationship is supposed to be about. I could give so many examples, but the one that's bothering me the most is that I'm currently sick and he just doesn't have a care in the world about how I'm feeling. He left me in bed all evening and night without even so much as coming in and asking how I'm doing or offering to get me anything. He calls me from work to ask some miscellaneous question and then says "Ok..bye." No "how are you feeling?" or "Can I pick something up for you on my way home, hun?" WTF?? I feel like I could just keel over and die and he wouldn't even notice. What is it with guys like this....do they just not get it or do they just not care?

This just doesn't seem like normal behavior to me. When someone claims they love you, wouldn't it just come natually for them to care, especially in situations like this?

And how do I bring this up without looking like I'm feeling sorry for myself?

2007-12-11 09:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so i was at track practice and my sister comes and picks me up in OUR car, and drives home because i didnt have my license, and she listend to the station she wanted to the whole way to the school, and when i wanted to listen to a station she got mad and threw a tantrum saying i had an attitide which i didnt till she deprived me of my music, she was being selfish and every time she changed it i changed it back so she was going like 20 mph down the highway, and she kept yelling calling me a brat, and spoiled, and selfish and bitchy when she was being all those things too, and my mom got mad at me for it sayin i should fight with her when shes driving, she said she'd ask my dad.........hes a rational guy....but what do ya'll think

2007-12-11 09:50:10 · 14 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family

so that he would pay more attention to me. we're dating and i know he likes me cause he tells me all the time and stuff but he is the kind of guy who doesnt pay that mush atttention to his girlfriend. so how can i give him a hint that he would pay more attention to me
p.s. he's a great guy

2007-12-11 09:48:46 · 5 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Singles & Dating

hi all.

well, i guess i am a 'nice guy', you know shy, sweet, smart..e.t.c..and all that...and i've heard the whole 'nice guys finish last thing' blah blah blah....

But im just wondering, that girls like the whole adventurous, exciting stuff...which ''nice guys'' dont have (apparently?!!).

im just thinking to myself, as i skateboard often, and am a ''rocker'' (you no play guitar, listen to decently 'hard' rock e.t.c.), and have been told by girls im not the ''typical'' guy (which is ment to be good).. would this all make up the whole adventurous, exciting crap....thus giving me the ''whole rounded nice guy'' thing...

thanks.

2007-12-11 09:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by bass player 4 in Singles & Dating

THIS PERSON THAT I LIKE KNOWS I LIKE HER I KNOWS I HAVE MONEY SHE ALWAYS ASKED ME FOR MONEY BUT NEVER WANTS TO GO OUT NOT EVEN JUST TO HAVE FUN NOT EVEN AS FREINDS

2007-12-11 09:48:28 · 40 answers · asked by mark a 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls, if you were going to marry a guy going into the military, what branch would you prefer that he be in? Why?

2007-12-11 09:45:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i dont feel the same way he does and he is a staker he shows up at my announced and is really irratating to me and my sister told him where we live at?

2007-12-11 09:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by tasha21 1 in Singles & Dating

If my gf told me that she held hands with someone else and she said it was just an attraction. She did say that she was attracted to her and this girl like her. Also she was being honest with me but then again I don't get it..what does this mean and what should I do??Should I break up with her?

2007-12-11 09:44:06 · 16 answers · asked by LAHollister1226 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my parents arent by the way

2007-12-11 09:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by number23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and then, we are going to his sister's house for christmas and I don't know if I should get her something or not and what do I get her? He said it doesn't matter, but I don't want to get something from her and then I have nothing in return. Oh, this is (obviously) our first Christmas together.

What do I do???

2007-12-11 09:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by sweetie_cakes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i just had a rubbish weekend basically...
my boyfriend did the dirty on me at a party!i didnt mind that much untill he went on about her so i told him that it bugged me. He had a massive go at me(cry no1 last weekend)and yeh he appologised and everything said how sorry he was, how much he loved me and all that. He then dumps me saying how its for my own good cause he cant trust himself and how he still loves me and eveything (crying no2) about 2hours later he asks for me back!i say yes after a while of thinking and everything!so now everyones saying im stupid and how i never learn (this has happened twice before to me exactly the same) but sams different, hes nicer than the rest! and much much more honest!
so am i stupid?
should i finish it?
after all as far as i can tell hes thinking about dumping me(he wants to see me to see if he still loves me) hes very honest and it would really hurt to dump him!
thanks
= )

2007-12-11 09:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Singles & Dating

well lets see he asked me out a few months ago and i havent seen him for a while only 4 times because hes dorming, and i gave him too much space, i never bothered him at all. i was the only one who went to visit him, he never came, when he said he would come he ended up not coming or answering my call or even called me so i gave up and havent talked to him since, then he told me he was coming again and he never did and someone told me he did come with lying to me, and i dont know what to believe, because if he did lie to me im not talking to him any more even though i would like to ask him questions about it, but whatever...when were both online we don't IM eachother, so I guess it's over...finally. am I doing the right thing? or I probably misjudged him? Also when I would chat with him I would always think he lied to me, I just suspected it, and Im letting go because i cannot concentrate in school

2007-12-11 09:40:57 · 1 answers · asked by californianblondie 1 in Singles & Dating

and he has a major anger problem. His excuse for smoking was for recreation but, also that it helped control his anger. He has physically abused me about 4 different times in the 1 year that we have been married (not because of no longer smoking pot). Everytime he has tried to quit smoking in the past, he has had major mood swings to where he stays angry. He has only been able to quit smoking for 2 days straight in the past. I'm a little nervous about him abusing me again and more so than before if he does quit smoking. Does anyone think that the abuse could start again since he has quit? Has anyone ever been through abuse because of their significant other's drug withdrawal?

2007-12-11 09:39:49 · 27 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Marriage & Divorce