ok so i just had a rubbish weekend basically...
my boyfriend did the dirty on me at a party!i didnt mind that much untill he went on about her so i told him that it bugged me. He had a massive go at me(cry no1 last weekend)and yeh he appologised and everything said how sorry he was, how much he loved me and all that. He then dumps me saying how its for my own good cause he cant trust himself and how he still loves me and eveything (crying no2) about 2hours later he asks for me back!i say yes after a while of thinking and everything!so now everyones saying im stupid and how i never learn (this has happened twice before to me exactly the same) but sams different, hes nicer than the rest! and much much more honest!
so am i stupid?
should i finish it?
after all as far as i can tell hes thinking about dumping me(he wants to see me to see if he still loves me) hes very honest and it would really hurt to dump him!
thanks
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2007-12-11 09:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know what i deserve he has been my nicest boyfriend and my best friend stands by me and when it happened to her i did the same!
2007-12-11 09:48:33 · update #1
i NEVER slept with him!
so that cant be his reasoning
merry christmas
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2007-12-11 09:59:48 · update #2
He's really stupid! you should dump him because he's unsure about this and he doesn't deserve you. try to move on. that's the same thing as me! I was in an on and off relationship with this guy named Kaijor for 2 years! He kept dumping me because he's always saying that he's not the right guy for me and that always hurt too much when he said that. so I was tired of waiting for him, so I moved on and me and him became friends again. I have a new boyfriend who I can always trust and love so much. so maybe you should dump him and try to move on.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-11 09:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just being honest that he's been unfaithful means squat. If he really loved you, loved you like he should, his libido wouldn't be so ready to hop around. His professing he's sorry and loves you and wants you back is a crock. He thinks I'll have my cake and eat it too. He wants to see you so he can see if he loves you. translation, your good in bed lets do it again.
Drop him, he's never going to be faithful to anyone. He's already set his pattern, it will only be which ones hes messing with this week or maybe this month if they are really good in bed and gullible enough for him to string along. Give your self the best present in the world, Dump him, take his gift back and spend the money on yourself. Mr. right may be at the counter taking back the gift he bought her. Merry Christmas
2007-12-11 09:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by WACVET75 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got with you knowing you couldn't spell correctly, right? If so, then she shouldn't care about your spelling skills. If you're worried about being a good speller, maybe you should learn how to spell better. That way, no one can make fun of you. But being uneducated doesn't mean you're a stupid or bad person. You should tell her she's mean for calling you stupid, and that's worse.
2016-05-23 02:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man told you he cant trust himself..So why would you compromise and trust him. Some relationships are worth trying to work it out..But I say leave this one alone. You sound very young trust me there are more boys out there let this one gooo.
2007-12-11 09:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him like yesterdays rubbish.
2007-12-11 09:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
at the risk of sounding cliched:
"sometimes you have to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve"
do you deserve this treatment? it may be hard, but you need to thikn of it as if it was happening to ur best friend. would you want that stuff to happen to her?
2007-12-11 09:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart. if you think you deserve better, then dump him. if you're ok with the way he treats you, then stay with him. do what's best for you.
2007-12-11 09:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you're stupid. I mean, we're talking George Bush stupid.
Brandon
2007-12-11 09:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No one on here can really help you...Follow your Heart♥
2007-12-11 09:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋