If my gf told me that she held hands with someone else and she said it was just an attraction. She did say that she was attracted to her and this girl like her. Also she was being honest with me but then again I don't get it..what does this mean and what should I do??Should I break up with her?
2007-12-11 09:44:06 · 16 answers · asked by LAHollister1226 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would freak out cause she is cheatin u should dump her
2007-12-11 09:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she says that they are attracted to each other it could mean that either A) she is taking their relationship seriously or B) she is admitting to you that they like each other but that she would prefer to stay in an honest relationship with you. You need to find out which one it is. The best thing I can recommend doing is talking to her about it and seeing whether this is a serious issue or not. If it is, then it would only be logical to break up with her. Otherwise don't spoil something that can be preserved as she can't help her feelings.
2007-12-11 09:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Moosechild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like she's gonna hit the road with this girl eventually. For her to be honest w/ you could be a good thing and a bad thing. The good thing being, hey, she's honest...the bad thing being, "hint hint...." She's could be dropping a hint that she has an interest in someone else, or maybe doesn't want to have to choose and wants both....
Think it through before you decide to break up...I always say, give them the benefit of the doubt, but if that's the case, do NOT be blind, or else you'll end up getting very hurt.
2007-12-11 09:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Christine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your gf finds it okay to touch anyone else besides you based on an attraction that it's a bad sign. So does that mean if you see someone else you find attractive you can touch on them, perhaps give an extra tight squeeze during a hug? I can't tell you what to do, but I would think twice about someone who finds it okay to intimately touch someone when they are supposed to be committed to you. It may not have been an "inappropriate" touch by our standards, but a touch based on an impulsive feeling of intimacy or lust is not okay.
2007-12-11 09:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes to show women can be just as much of pigs as men yea id say if anything else happens ask her to choose between or if u want to stand tall break it off with her
2007-12-11 09:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Krissy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that if you thought this was a serious thing, it's now not. Or never was on her part. Ask her where you think you are, if she wants to be dating only you or this other chic. Then you need to ask yourself if your alright with whatever her answers are. Then go from there.
2007-12-11 09:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by lady in black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a deeper conversation with her first. ask her if she still likes you and let her know that you still like her. thats kind of like cheating even though its just holding hands.. if she does lik this girl more than you, just forget about her. shes not worth it, you could find a much more genuine girl :)
2007-12-11 09:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. break it off. Hold hands with other people while in a commited relationship is wrong.
2007-12-11 09:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by austinguurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the girl, ask her what's going on instead of dumping her right away. Then, tell her how you feel and see what she says.
2007-12-11 09:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by School Freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you trust her? the answer is simple, if you dont trust her, then there cant be a relationship...
(oh fyi, i'd be super pissed too) :(
2007-12-11 09:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by AMANDA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋