Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

I am not going to spend a year and a half more in high school, im just not. in 9 months, im 18 and then im going to get my GED, and do whatever. i know my parents wont let me drop out, so im planning (with a freind of similar mindset) to go to california or somewhere to wait out the 9 months and then come home.... i just wanted to know what problems i might run into and any helpful tips...im gonna go anyway, i just wanted to know...thanks.

2007-12-11 12:04:55 · 22 answers · asked by checkeredskaterboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ight well there is this girl named lauran and i went out with her like a year ago i fell in love with her, moved on. but when i see her my love starts all over and i cant let it go, i wont let go. so tonight im going to her school to watch her cheerlead and hopefully get to see her! but it seams like whenever i start talking to her again she stops and ignores me then stats over texing me like a month later i cant stand it!, i cry cryed for months and months and still do a year later, she might have a boy friend! SO HOW SHOULD I GET HER BaCK!!!!!????

2007-12-11 12:04:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 12:03:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, here is a question for you. Would you prefer a virgin?
I ask this question because as a virgin I realize that women don’t appreciate men as virgin as how a man would appreciate his girl as one.
Is this true with most women?

2007-12-11 12:02:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hes not waaaayyy outta my league..hes in my grade but just hangs out with a more popular croud then i do...ive also talked to him a couple times and hes a rly good decent guy. how do i get his attention in a way that isnt slutty and doesnt require me to hang out with his group of friends (i dont like them that much)? im not just talkin about talkin to him, ive already done that but how do i get him to think hmm shes cute id like to go out with her..uno wat i mean? ;)

2007-12-11 11:59:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me if you would rather have a guy with a good heart of a fat wallet. I wont discriminate against any answers, i promise. I just wanna do a poll. :D

2007-12-11 11:59:40 · 12 answers · asked by killing_loneliness 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend REFUSES to give me oral sex. All my friends get head from their girls but mine won't. She says it's dirty and won't touch it. I'm furious! We have regular sex alot, but she will not give me oral head.--and I really want that too! She wants me to give her oral, and I do, but she won't return it at all. And I'm sick of it! I work with a gay guy who always offers to give me oral sex on the "down low"as he puts it. --No I'm not gay..He says no strings attatched. He would just do me orally and get me off,since my girlfriend will never do it. He said I don't even have to touch him, or his body, or even look while he is doing me.That I should just sit back and he will give me oral to completion! I gotta admit, it's tempting with no strings! Question: Is there anything wrong with letting a gay guy take you off orally, if his girlfriend refuses to do it. I really want it bad. And now I know I can get it on the side. What should I do? Should I just let the gay guy take care of it?

2007-12-11 11:58:50 · 8 answers · asked by Guy E 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to not be a virgin, and will guys still like you

2007-12-11 11:57:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 11:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on my other question a lot of women said i lied to her and cheated her out of motherhood and predicted us getting a divorce. do you really see that big of a deal

2007-12-11 11:49:50 · 25 answers · asked by rico.v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like a clean cut man or someone with a shadow

2007-12-11 11:49:05 · 14 answers · asked by bobby b 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know why sooo many guys like me, now don't get me wrong i luv the attention but it does get a little annoying after a while. some of my really close guy friends told me that the reason sooo many guys like me is because im really pretty, i have the BEST personality, im fun 2 be around, and i have a great sense of humor. i feel really bad when guys fight over me because heres an example; the other day a couple dudes got in a fight over me and 1 got a black eye and broken nose!!! i feel sooooo bad!!!! OMG!!!
~olivia~

2007-12-11 11:47:02 · 23 answers · asked by ~OLIVIA~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 11:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what type of woman who goes out and cheats on her manand right in her home with .2. other ones there with her at the same time like this trailer park trash. who is in her.40.s thinking a guy younger would want her. streach marks sicking . she is a tramp we just used her like the who. she was and still is isnt that sicking

2007-12-11 11:46:39 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 years old. I got divorced from my first husband when i was 19(together for 2 years,married for 1) we have a 4 year old daughter together. as of now i have been with my present husband for 3 years/just married in march....we have 2 children together.....question being is my ex and I have recently reconciled and realized we would both much like to be together again..... ..my present husband has been a jerk(BIG TIME) until he started working offshore and being gone for 1 month and home for 12 days......so i really just dont know what to do.....i still have big feelings for my ex and my husbands actions arent convincing me to stay........please no hurtful answers....i just want some opinions on what you would do if you were in my shoes?

2007-12-11 11:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by heather w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so me and this boy like eachother but im mad at him cuz now he claims he loves his girl but he says he really likes me....so my friend talked to him and these are his words...

"Yea i wuz kinda cunfused 4 a lil bit...cuz i really liked dis gurl..but den my feelinz started to catch up wit ma girl....n now itz jus like dam...how can i say dis to da gurl i really like...n now shes mad i can understand y but i swear it wasnt my intentions...yea dere still dat love for her....but idk....im type confused..im not da person to sound like im playin round wit ya head cuz daz not mee im actuallly da last guy to do sumfin like dat....but idk. JUS NEEDA THINK THINGS THRU."

What does this mean. Does it mean I still have a chance with him and that he truely likes me? Ugh...im so confused!

2007-12-11 11:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

remember the steven thing? If you don’t know then go to my profile & look through my questions. i gave him a sorry card, and i wrote alot but i don't exactly know what i wrote b/c he has it. i told him to write back & i even gave him my e-mail & my phone number like on Monday but he didn't write back yet. i even told him not to show anyone except for Christ b/c he knows but like over 20 people read it. he said that i was annoying, a stalker, & that i have a staring problem! but i don't even stare at him in the hallways, he's the one who does! but i did give one of my friends some candy to tell me some stuff about him that's wierd so i would get over him but someone told him something different! ugh. i don't know who. he's obsessed with one of my friends & she tries to hook him up with me [which is wrong]. i don't like him THAT much.

Read details....to finish

2007-12-11 11:43:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother stole 400 dollars from me a couple months ago. how can I get him to pay me back?
and yes, I have asked him and yelled and stuff, but he wont.

GRR
help

2007-12-11 11:42:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have short hair and moost guys avoid me. I realy like my hair and i don't want to grow it out but all the guys at my school are like: are you growing your hair out? are you cutting it again?

I realy want to know what your problem with short hair is.

2007-12-11 11:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but he's a lot older than me. I see him everyday exept on weekends and he always notices me. The only problem is the age difference and the fact that he is engaged. He was engaged before he ever met me and I noticed he wasn't the same before he noticed me. I always feel like I want to tell him the way I feel but I'm afraid of what he'll think. There's so much of my life that I want to spend with him as just friends because i don't want to risk our friendship and I'm pretty sure he considers me a friend because one of my friends asked him for me. Now I'm worried that I will never get a chance to tell him the way I feel about him before he gets married. Should I tell him or not? I love him so much and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for him. He means everything to me and I'm not sure about what i should do. What should I do?

2007-12-11 11:41:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He wants a divorce. We have 2 children, and we currently lease a home. He is ending the lease in 30 days, has given me NO money, and just told me to "get a job". When asked how I will pay for child care, he tells me that HE will go for full custody, so I don't have to worry about it. Can he do this? What are my options? I have no money for a lawyer.

2007-12-11 11:41:21 · 40 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am out of ideas :(
He is into fitness & quality things & is 28
:)
Thanks

2007-12-11 11:39:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 11:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by Susanista 1 in Singles & Dating

i tried to keep it from him, but somehow he found out.

this is a guy who was quite abusive, & controlling
and VERY sneaky & underhanded about it--never any marks, never any evidence....

i'm scared... i don't know what he's capable of--but i do know that when i asked for a divorce he basically kept me prisoner for over a week & it was * h e l l *... and it only ended because he then decided to try & kill himself in my car & i plugged in a spare phone while he was busy & called the police. when they got there they took him down & took him to a 'mental health facility' for a bit...

i have no evidence of any abuse. ever.
i'm remarried, just bought a house, and am 29 weeks pregnant. i'm very apprehensive about him knowing where i live... esp being so vulnerably pregnant... and my husband is LIVID...

what can i do??

2007-12-11 11:37:52 · 21 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone here agree that a guy should ask out the girl? Anyone? If not then tell me why. I just think that girls sound a little desperate when asking out a guy.

2007-12-11 11:36:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A. a hung guy not so good looking
B. a handsome guy not so hung
C. a rich guy not so hung or good looking

which would you rather be in love?

ps you cant have an all of the above

2007-12-11 11:36:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dared to kiss this guy but have no clue how to! I really like this guy and wouldn't mind doing it. Also he has braces so help with that too.

2007-12-11 11:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean everybody. Even married people. I'm not saying it's wrong or weird. I'm not tyring to be immature. This might be a weird Q but it just popped in my mind so i figured i'd ask.

2007-12-11 11:32:50 · 24 answers · asked by ipod 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There was a question last week that was extremly long with two "additional informations" in order to explain it all. By the time I clicked to answer question, it had been deleted. I was so pissed.
It's almost like Y/A is an excuse for some people not to think.

I'm I the only one that feels this way?

2007-12-11 11:29:36 · 5 answers · asked by Georgia Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a newlywed and I really want to stay out of the "doghouse".

2007-12-11 11:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce