2007-12-11 11:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because now he starts to think:
1) is he bigger than me?
2) is he better than me?
3) is she thinking of him?
Insecurity. That's all. Just insecurity.
2007-12-11 12:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Angus 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because she might be seen as a hoe or something and guys typically like to be the first one that the girl loses her virginty with. I will defintaly get upset if a girl i liked was not a virgin. I would wonder who it was.
2007-12-12 11:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Daman11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they want to be the one to take the virginity. First of all, it feels a little better for them, and they can have bragging rights that they were there first. A lot of guys get mad when they know they weren't first and that you've been with other people before them. Guys are very jealous, although they try to hide it. It probably makes them feel less of a man when you've had other guys before them. It's a sensitive subject for a lot of guys, and you just need to keep it to yourself as much as possible.
2007-12-11 12:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by myluv115 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok hun, the answer to this ? is simple.
if he gets mad about a girl not being a virgin its because virgins dont know what to expect so when they do...... shes automatically going to think hes the greatest or can please her. but if a girl isn't a virgin, they'll know that the guy can or cant plus with a virgin they wont be so self conscience about if hes great at it or not.
2007-12-11 11:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lc 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've never had that issue. If they are it just means that they are insecure of the fact that you were intimate with someone else and that you are experienced. Only one of my ex's was like that. He was the most jealous/insecure man you will ever meet. Let's re-phrase that, he's a boy. Well he couldn't accept the fact that I had done things in my past. He had done worst by the way, been with a stripper, had threesomes and stuff like that. but anyway i think its all insecurity
EDIT:
NO I DONT THINK THAT THEY WILL THINK OF YOU AS A WHORE. IF THEY DID THEY WOULDN'T BE WITH YOU TO BEGIN WITH. IF THEY GET UPSET THEY MUST CARE. THEY ARE JUST BEING CHILDISH..
2007-12-11 12:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To Damarcus Killingworth: just because you're not a virgin doesn't mean you're a whore thank you very much. You're just very narrow minded and judgemental. So to you if a girl who had only been with one guy before (and that was a long term relationship) you'd call her a whore...hmmm.
2007-12-11 11:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You aren't going to like the answer, but you asked the question.
Most guys hate the thought that another guy has deposited where he is going to deposit. Putting his penis in where someone elses has already been.
Hygiene, that's all.
2007-12-11 11:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They shouldn't really care unless they're a virgin.
2007-12-11 11:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Nats 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because they are losers that know they cannot compete with the man(men) that came before them.
Dump such idiots to the curb, he will be a failure in life.
2007-12-11 11:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say they have absolutely no right to get upset, unless they themselves are a virgin.
Ugh, men and their male-female double standards...
2007-12-11 12:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋