I really like this guy but he's a lot older than me. I see him everyday exept on weekends and he always notices me. The only problem is the age difference and the fact that he is engaged. He was engaged before he ever met me and I noticed he wasn't the same before he noticed me. I always feel like I want to tell him the way I feel but I'm afraid of what he'll think. There's so much of my life that I want to spend with him as just friends because i don't want to risk our friendship and I'm pretty sure he considers me a friend because one of my friends asked him for me. Now I'm worried that I will never get a chance to tell him the way I feel about him before he gets married. Should I tell him or not? I love him so much and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for him. He means everything to me and I'm not sure about what i should do. What should I do?
2007-12-11 11:41:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you kidding? Let the man be on his own. Be his friend but stay out of his life. He obviously knows the difference because he hasn't acted at all. All the men out there and you have to have one that is unavailable. You are kidding right?
2007-12-11 11:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi a few years ago i was in the same situation as you! so i know exactly how you feel. i was inlove with a married man!!who was also a vrey good friend. he ment the world to me. and i truely beleived that if i told him how i felt about him! he would tell me he felt the same way! and he would leave his wife and we would live happily ever after!! the reality however is very different!! i told him i was in love with him!! which broke up his marraige!! and i got brannded a home wrecker at work and ive lost a very good friend! i thought that i would never find happiness. i thought he was the only one for me! i can happily say that is not true! im now very happily married! my husband is "the one". so please don't say anything to him because you could upset 3 lives! beleive me it may not feel like it now but there is "the one" out there for you!!! you just have to keep looking!! take care.
2007-12-11 12:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go down this track if I was you....there will definitely be another Mr Right out there for you....If this man was keen on you he would have pursued it by now....He's not for you, and You will find someone who is better suited to you...sometimes you can blow things out of proportion....so move on and they say matchmaking is the new craze...so get your friends/family to match you up with someone they think will be a great boyfriend/potential husband and move on....Take up a new interest...keep yourself busy...travel anything new and interesting... and you will meet someone better suited to you...Good Luck!
2007-12-11 11:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and find out what LOVE is before you go off half ****** about somebody again.
2007-12-11 12:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by rustyoldma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Him. Alone.
When you start a relationship with a cheater, you create a vacancy. Its not ever worth it.
2007-12-11 11:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Zonky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's engaged not married YET, you better hurry before its to late. tell him or you will regret it the rest of your life
2007-12-11 11:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get your Barbies back out, you're not ready for this ole guy!!
2007-12-11 13:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋