I am a newlywed and I really want to stay out of the "doghouse".
2007-12-11 11:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends if she says it's OK then go for it if not and you have to have it then just wake her up
2007-12-11 11:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her / try it / find out
I think she would like it now, but in a few years when the novelty of being married wears off, you fall out of love and take each other for granted, you are likely to get a sharp rebuke - make hay while the sun shines for it doesn't shine forever - believe me I know. The girl who used to make me tingle whenever within half a mile now makes me on my guard several times daily.
I think back to our newlywed days and wonder why it can't last forever, but it can't - I think she would love to be fondled when asleep now, but in years to come...............oh s*** what was the number of that lawyer?
2007-12-11 11:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Chaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it depends on what you mean. There are a lot of nights my boyfriend wakes up at 2 or 3 and he'll run his hand along my thigh, rub my stomach, or whatever else he can reach. As long as that's as far as it goes and he doesn't wake me up I don't mind him doing it. Now if I happen to have the next day off work, then by all means...wake me up. But he actually asked me about this stuff to make sure I was okay with it.
Maybe you should ask your wife how she feels.
2007-12-11 11:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by QT_Pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. I guess logically I would have to say no. Your newly weds, if she won't let you fondle her when shes awake I'm betting she isn't in the mood to have a dream where shes in the 8th grade getting groped at a party.
In the end though Its up to her, ask and ye shall receive (an answer at least)
2007-12-11 11:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by chicago.ford 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. start it off as a back rub and put her to sleep that way. I would tell her that it's okay for her to doze a little.. while you help her relax. I wouldn't go so far as penetration if she's asleep, but I think it sounds fab.
2007-12-11 12:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Shes your wife. You should be allowed to touch her whenever. Plus thats good way to wake up.
2007-12-11 11:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine! Just don't wake her up if you're fondling yourself!
2007-12-11 13:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm yea it is
It is sexual harrasment
Because she did not give you the right to do it
just go jack off instead
peace <3
2007-12-11 12:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. i for instance love to be fondled in my sleep
2007-12-11 11:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should have asked this question before you got married. Better yet you never should have gotten married. Good luck!!!
2007-12-11 12:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋