Is it ok to not be a virgin, and will guys still like you
2007-12-11 11:57:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys care, some guys don't, but I think it's important to find someone who shares whatever you believe in, or at least understands your personal choices.
I don't care at all, but virginity also doesn't win any special points with me regarding respect, morals, virtues, or values. Virginity is about sexual experience, that's it.
2007-12-11 12:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yeah...unless they're religious extremists :s just because you're not a virgin doesn't mean youre a whore. For example...say you were in a longterm relationship with a guy and you really loved him and you had sex with him but for whatever reason the relationship ended but you're not a virgin anymore do you think that makes you a whore? If you have a tendancy towards one night stands and casual sex then thats a different matter entirely.
2007-12-11 12:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know where you live, but most people around me could not care less about virginity.
Virginity shouldn't be important to anyone. If you want to have sex, you should have sex. If you don't, you shouldn't. Whether or not you are a virgin shouldn't even factor into it.
2007-12-11 12:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its most definitely OK to be a virgin, and any guy who would dislike you for it has no feeling for you, and is just trying get in your pants so be proud to be a virgin
2007-12-11 12:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by king l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its fine not being a virgin and the guy will still like you trust me, unless that guy is a jerk, it shouldn't matter.
The only thing i would advise is not telling him who you've slept with lol, that would create some hostility and outcomes would not be nice.
2007-12-11 12:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sense 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its okay to not be a virgin...but i find that most guys respect the fact that some women are. I mean they like to know that their gf/wife hasnt slept with half the country! lol.
2007-12-11 12:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No for whatever reason most boys/men do not care anymore because times have changed........However, they do not want serious relationships with females who are too experienced with a lot of boys/men.They may date you but chances are you will not be viewed as the marrying type
2007-12-11 12:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the guy, really.
If a guy wants some one pure and innocent then yeah...its a problem
If the guy wants an experienced girl or doesn't mind, then its not problem
It depends on who you are with.
Usually when you start dating a guy, you'll find out his preference. Most guys just care about who you really are and whatever you did in your past is in the past.
know what i mean?
2007-12-11 12:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
im female and guys still wanna talk to me and im not a virgin and im trying hard 2 abstain from sex but yea they will just try to get it more easily. Be Careful......
2007-12-11 12:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbagumbootylicous15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya im a virgin and i have a boyfriend.
Seriously its not that big of a deal.
its better than not being a virgin.
2007-12-11 12:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by kassifer k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋