Family & Relationships - 20 September 2007

We are both scared of what will happen if caught. Weve not had sex but we seriously enjoy each others company. We dont want to break our homes. what can I do.............

2007-09-20 03:38:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have came cleam with my husband and things are rocky right now because he is hurt i have offered to leave him with everything to the point i was feeling so bad and seeked help but all that said i still love the other person ...please do not judge me this is a very difficult sittuation

2007-09-20 03:32:37 · 24 answers · asked by tweetysbabe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-20 03:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by yoli 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm forced to go to wifes sisters party 5 hours away.. no desire to go but "people" expect me to be there.. So i'm going for wifes sake... I hate when this happens... any body out there figure out how to deal with that kind of marital crap?

2007-09-20 03:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by halfman_hafamazn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I get my mom to let me use a webcam and microphone in the house?
I don't get it, I have a really nice social life on the internet. I have like 30 close friends online, I don't have any real friends and I dont like talking on the phone or face to face conversations. Be cause I don't have any friends, noone likes me, and I'm just too weird and different to have any at all. Online friends can't see your face, or hear your voice, after a nice converation with them, you'll show them your face.

My mom thinks I'm associating with perverts, ( does she really think I wasnt aware of it?) They are my friends, whether hes 16 or 46. I really don't care how old they are as long as they are honest with age. Besides, it's no like I'm gunna meet up with this guy.

I love chatting on the internet, I've talked with kids from italy and france, I learned alot about their culture.

I wish she let me buy a webcam, I can understand she is trying 2 protect me. But she needs to learn that I'm not a child any more. I will be 18 in 4 more months.

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15 minutes ago
I really want a webcam, and a microphone. I need those to play online games, tonline games are fun, but I'm only wan to hang out with other kids from around the world. How can i tell my family that showing my photo and using my real name online isnt that bad, as long as you use common sense and not try to mee up with this guy. I know that it's wrong, but I'm just an outcast, a loser. and once an outcast is always an outcast. 'll stay a loser for the rest of my life.

I wish they stop treaking me like a child. Whn I turn 18 in 4 months, I'll do what ever i want and noone can tell me what to do.

2007-09-20 03:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband was in a pogo game room the other night. This lady was in there chatting to the whole room. She proceeds to ask my husband and every other man in the room if they were married, of course he said yes. She then said, "I have been married for 2 months" (she obviously was hoping he and the others would say something like "single" or "looking", etc...). Later, she states to the whole room she likes active sports, like tennis. Then she says she likes spending her spare time online talking to strange men while her husband is hard at work! A man in the room laid into her, telling her what a scum she is, basically. What would you do if you found out your spouse was like this while you were hard at work? I have the pogo ID she used in case anyone wants to check up on their spouse, lol...

2007-09-20 03:29:07 · 26 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 12 years and last night he made a strange request. I'm on my period and last night he asked if he could rub on my butt while he pleased himself. It felt a little strange and flattering at the same time. Has anyone elses husband ever done this? If your husband did ask would you let him and how would you feel about it?

2007-09-20 03:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has any of you felt her rejection because you are ethnic??? Or worse, she doesn't like your children, by the way her own grand children, because not withstanding the fact that they are her son's kids they are your kids?

2007-09-20 03:22:56 · 13 answers · asked by delina_m 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I live in Oregon and we are both on the rental agreement for the house we live in.

2007-09-20 03:22:55 · 7 answers · asked by ariez0078 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have heard from several people that mentioning the word WEDDING causes prices to skyrocket in catering, florists, reception halls etc...is that true? one of my college room mates just got enagaged and im helping her plan everything and im going to be the MOH and her mom said to tell all the vendors that we need everything for an anniversary party so we dont get screwed over for price....could that cause any issues if the vendors find out its not a anniversary party and that we lied just to keep the cost down...can we get in any legal trouble for that....please help...she doesnt want the prices to jump up just cuz its a wedding but i also dont want to lie to everyone and potentially cause more issues...and please no mean comments...i know it probably is a stupid question but i dont know anything about this..thanks

2007-09-20 03:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5 in Weddings

When i was 15 years old my aunt came to our place for search of job at that time she was 21 and she came from village. As i was younger, we used to sleep in the same room. one day while i was sleeping she storked my penis thinking that iam asleep but i was awake and feeling very embarrsed so did not had the guts to open my eyes. After sometime of stroking by her i felt like heaven. From that time onwards we used to had sex at night time both used to act as we are asleep. when she used to do some thing with me i used to act sleeping when i used to something with her she used to act sleeping. but in the day time we used to behave like normal aunt and nephew, It continued for 2 years after that she got married and left this place and settled in another town. its 10 years now.Recently her husband posted near to my place. so frequently she visits my home and have good rappo with my folks. I feel very embarrsed when i speak to her now.

2007-09-20 03:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am from vietnam, my english is not good but i want to be your friend , i hope you know about my question , i wish i was good english.

2007-09-20 03:15:04 · 4 answers · asked by THEFUTURE9999999 3 in Friends

When i was 15 years old my aunt came to our place for search of job at that time she was 21 and she came from village. As i was younger, we used to sleep in the same room. one day while i was sleeping she storked my penis thinking that iam asleep but i was awake and feeling very embarrsed so did not had the guts to open my eyes. After sometime of stroking by her i felt like heaven. From that time onwards we used to had sex at night time both used to act as we are asleep. when she used to do some thing with me i used to act sleeping when i used to something with her she used to act sleeping. but in the day time we used to behave like normal aunt and nephew, It continued for 2 years after that she got married and left this place and settled in another town. its 10 years now.Recently her husband posted near to my place. so frequently she visits my home and have good rappo with my folks. I feel very embarrsed when i speak to her now.

2007-09-20 03:13:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't get it, I have a really nice social life on the internet. I have like 30 close friends online, I don't have any real friends and I dont like talking on the phone or face to face conversations. Be cause I don't have any friends, noone likes me, and I'm just too weird and different to have any at all. Online friends can't see your face, or hear your voice, after a nice converation with them, you'll show them your face.

My mom thinks I'm associating with perverts, ( does she really think I wasnt aware of it?) They are my friends, whether hes 16 or 46. I really don't care how old they are as long as they are honest with age. Besides, it's no like I'm gunna meet up with this guy.

I love chatting on the internet, I've talked with kids from italy and france, I learned alot about their culture.

I wish she let me buy a webcam, I can understand she is trying 2 protect me. But she needs to learn that I'm not a child any more. I will be 18 in 4 more months.

2007-09-20 03:10:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Even though my man hasnt proposed i feel it's gonna happen soon is it wrong for me to plan my wedding in advance? stuff like what type of dress?shoes?what kind of a wedding i want? i've always wanted to get married and i think i know how i want my wedding to be.

2007-09-20 03:08:07 · 27 answers · asked by Lobuchu 2 in Weddings

2007-09-20 03:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by Irving R 1 in Friends

the thing is i live with him and his family coz me and my mum dnt really get on

2007-09-20 02:59:59 · 63 answers · asked by ElSiE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance took me to the Grand Canyon and took a ring out and put it on my finger, but he never asked me to marry him. He then called all his family and said we were getting married and started introducing me as his fiance. We are not planning a wedding because his mother lives in Guam and she can't come out for a year. It really bothers me that he never even said "will you marry me?" I have brought this up many times, and he always says that it's completely stupid that I care about that because we are already engaged. I really don't feel like we are engaged, because he didn't ask me. Is this stupid?

2007-09-20 02:58:31 · 32 answers · asked by love 6 in Weddings

At what age do you think it is right for a girl to have sex?

2007-09-20 02:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by stars 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

how should i deal with it when i see them?

2007-09-20 02:48:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Only 46 days to go.

2007-09-20 02:45:24 · 42 answers · asked by Superdude 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Both are driving me mad. My son wont go to the toilet in time so pees everywhere. The husband gets angry and shouts at the boy.

Both are driving me nuts.

2007-09-20 02:45:20 · 34 answers · asked by Clare S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For men only, I want to know when you tell a woman she's cute if you mean she's beautiful & sexy or something else. What do you mean when you tell a woman she's cute. Be honest please.

2007-09-20 02:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for my half sister Richie. Her mothers name was Leanne. Father Richard Long. I think Richie was born in Ohio or lived there as a child. At one time she may have worked at Disney World in Florida. I think her mother may have been either murdered or died young. If anyone has any info on my sister, I would really appreciate it if you would contact me.

2007-09-20 02:44:42 · 2 answers · asked by storm_x_whisperer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband lost his job and has done everything he can to get another one but it seems that no one is hiring , he has also applyed for un-employment and that is pending, so my question is he is getting really bored at home and i need idea's for what what he should do with his free time we live in an apartment so there really is no "yard work" for him to do. any ideas?

2007-09-20 02:41:19 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-20 02:37:45 · 9 answers · asked by Ey18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girls what do you prefer?

2007-09-20 02:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got myself into a horrible mess with my ex-husband. We divorced over 4 years ago when our son was a few months old. We currently have joint custody with me having physical custody, my son lives with me in NY and he lives in florida. Visitation for him is upon our agreeing to see our son when he comes here to NY. He maybe sees our son 6 times at the most per year. Here's the thing.. Two summers ago, we tried once again to make things work for the sake of our son and he flew us to florida a few times and came to NY more since our relationship was getting better and to also see our son. Well, I ended up getting pregnant, and during this we started fighting horribly again and now the baby is 4 wks old.. He gives me $53 a wk for child support for our son and now says I have to take him to court for more money for our newborn baby. I have barely any money for a lawyer and not sure if I can do this without a lawyer. Should I just go petition in family court? Do I have a good chance still?

2007-09-20 02:33:39 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is getting on my nerves all he does is yell and push me, im almost 6 months pregnant! he gets mad at everything, he calls me names most of the time, he always talks about my family being stupid, and yesterday i said his was he went off on me im only 20 yrs old and i can't take it anymore what should i do we have been together for 5 yrs and he has changed i don't understand

2007-09-20 02:30:26 · 50 answers · asked by tiffany t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I had known each other for about 3-4 years before we officially went out as adults before college. We broke up so we could attend college in other states. It wasnt a bad break up, he cried alot over leaving me, I still am upset. We broke up two years ago. I got into a rebound relat and am now married with a child. He still speaks to me and will see me from time to time. When he sees me he acknowledges that he has/had feelings for me and wants to cuddle with me and treat me like old times. I dont know why. I gave him a love letter card before he left and he left it in my car. My husband says that right there means he never liked me anyway but the guy says thats not true. Is it possible to hide feelings from someone like that? Is it possible that he and I can get back together after my hubby and I divorce? My husband doesnt treat me right, etc. How can I get over this guy? My husband says I have a mental problem of this.

1-2 have had recurring dream of ex and hubby handshaking

2007-09-20 02:29:49 · 9 answers · asked by kkecs07 1 in Marriage & Divorce