Family & Relationships - 20 September 2007

2007-09-20 07:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when I start talking or seeing someone, how do I avoid being played like a fool, how do I tell if a girl really wants me and me alone?

2007-09-20 07:57:38 · 22 answers · asked by redvelvethuman 1 in Singles & Dating

or going to bars because that hasnt worked either...

2007-09-20 07:56:34 · 13 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-20 07:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have this problem with my Fiancee's parents..My daughter is going to be a yr old tomorrow and i can count on 2 hands how many times they have seen her since she was born..They live 10 minutes away and make no effort what so ever, unless it involves going to dinner. The real big part that really bothers me is that they have 2 other grandchildren from my fiancee's brother and they make time to see them atleast once a week!! And they also only live 10 mins away..So why can't they make time for my daughter?? I don't want to be angry with them, but i can't help but to be :-[ What do you think is the reason they make time for some of their grandchildren but not ALL of them? Anyone have any ideas?

2007-09-20 07:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by absolute_angel_82 2 in Family

She 33 years old and I'm 20 years old.

2007-09-20 07:52:52 · 2 answers · asked by gatesofgold 3 in Singles & Dating

What attracts them to you???Is it the physical??? Is it their life experience, their skills their talent their super independence what????

2007-09-20 07:51:18 · 20 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyrfriend is extremely funny. Every guy I ever dated had to be funny - but he can make me laugh until I cry easily. He's also the most genuine person I know and he has beautiful eyes.

All in all, I would say that it is when we are together though that is different than anyone else I ever dated. It's like we are best friends having the time of our life and I get the rest on top of all that. I am a lucky girl. I know.

2007-09-20 07:51:11 · 5 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-20 07:48:03 · 19 answers · asked by FreakNasty 1 in Singles & Dating

Funniest response get's a whopping ten points, plus any additional points generated by people who give it thumbs up!

2007-09-20 07:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby recently found out that I think one of his friends is a decent looking person. Not that I lust after him, have a crush on him, or anything like that. Just that I think he is a good looking man. He's blowing this whole thing out of proportion and going so far as that he doesn't want me around any of his friends now! He thinks that I should have thought "he's a friend of my hubby's so I can't look at him that way". Like I can turn off my eyes. So, how many of you would be offended if your spouse thought one of your friends was good looking?

2007-09-20 07:43:45 · 46 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents told me that they would pay for my reception, and booked the place with my money for the deposit, no other money has been put into it. Then when we discussed about the fact that my fiance and I would like to offer alcoholic beverages at the reception, they freaked out and now they are not paying for the reception at all. I am not sure what to do, my fiance and I can't afford to pay for it, and we offered to have the reception without any alcohol, and they said that the fight that we had with them over it hurt their feelings and now they aren't paying for it all. What should I do?

2007-09-20 07:38:57 · 35 answers · asked by Jamie S 2 in Weddings

Looking for a marriage seminar for newlyweds, in Illinois, Missouri or Michigan

2007-09-20 07:38:57 · 4 answers · asked by kenyanamerican 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy i met i really like him we met on bad terms though.. cause i was bailing my mother out of jail and he happened to be the bondsman so he helped me get her out....So, while we were waiting we talked and he seemed like a really nice guy .... After my mom came out he told her how sweet i was and he gave me a hug and her too.And when we were parting he told me that he hoped to see me around... considering we live in the same town.. My question is should i call him and ask him if we could be friends and maybe see if there is any interest there are should i just leave it alone... What do you think ?

should i still call and see even if the only reason i have his # is because he is the bondsman

2007-09-20 07:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are looking at not getting married in a church. We aren't set on a certain religion, and don't really have a church that we go to.

We are having a December wedding, so making everyone freeze outside would not be a good idea in the middle of winter. Any suggestions on how we can still have a nice wedding, and not have to be in a church?

If it helps.. we live in Michigan

2007-09-20 07:37:57 · 22 answers · asked by mke 2 in Weddings

told me that since I have grandchildren I am old? Helppppppppppp!

2007-09-20 07:34:40 · 13 answers · asked by Luv2no is in the house 7 in Family

I'm a repair man here in New York the other day I was in the projects doing a job I was on the 5th floor. A five year old kid is sitting on the sofa watching tv he had and accident wet himself his mother who looks like she's 19 starts beating him with a wiffle ball bat right in front of me cause he wet the sofa.She undresses him right in front of me puts a pamper on him puts him the hallway then shuts the door. This kid is POUNDING ON THE DOOR crying begging her to let him back inside. I could hear other kids in the background outside laughing at him. Ten minutes later she lets him back in tells him I hope you learned your lesson. Now I'm not married or have any kids I try not to judge other people I never hit a girl before except for my sister when I was twelve then my farther hit me. I wanted to crack her in the face. I told my forman what happened just to cover my own ***. My job is to go in and do the job and get out I dont get involved unless my own personal safety is at risk.

My question is do I have the right to report this and my other question is what possible reason this lady had to stick this kid out in the hallway. What was she trying to prove by doing that? The question I been banging around in my head is if she can do this right in front of me imagine what would happen if I wasn’t there.

I called social services today and report what I saw that day. I didn’t give my name or job occupation. It’s out of my hands now if they decide to follow up on it that’s their job not mine. I thought you guys would want to know since I got great feedback from you all. Thanks.

2007-09-20 07:33:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just want some feedback from some guys in their early 20s about "dating". I'm 22 and I have the hardest time finding guys that actually want to "date" and really get to know me and hang out without just wanting sex. I was starting to think it was me but the more I think about it it might just be how young guys (22, 23, 24) are. What usually happens is I'll meet a guy we'll go on an actual date the first time each time after that they just want to hang out at home. I'm pretty sure they want to hang out at home just to get some. This will
I feel like either way its a lose lose situation because if I give in they get what they want and disappear, If I don't give in they stop calling. I have been told that I am extremely attractive and I have no trouble attracting a guy its just that none of them seem to stick around.I have lots of friends and what I think is a good personality. I'm getting to the point where I can predict everything that will happen when I meet a guy. I am soo frus

2007-09-20 07:32:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

he only calls his father when he wants money and when every he is home we end up giveing him up to 1000. for his trip home his father see's nothing wrong with this the rest of my step kids are the same they only see there father as a bank. we are having a hard time paying our own bills at home along with having 2 teens at home.
I wish they would just stay the hell out of our lives as they have they own ...they are 24,21,19........I just stay way from home when they are around.
At one time i would play the good little house wife and cook big meals for them and make sure everything was wonderful for them..I would do this for my husband not his kids. now i resent him . help.....

2007-09-20 07:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We where dating and living together and things didnt work out for us. I dont want to be rude and throw her out but dont know how to get her out.

2007-09-20 07:27:18 · 55 answers · asked by Jim M 1 in Singles & Dating

I lived north of Dallas, Texas for about 15 years and then moved to a small town of 300 in New Mexico about two years ago. Liked it at first but now I miss Texas. Is this just probably a period of "Texas" home sickness?? Hopefully. I want to like it here but.... doesn't seem like that's working right now.

Anyone ever feel this way from moving to a bigger town to a smaller town?

2007-09-20 07:22:55 · 3 answers · asked by thunderbomb90 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 4 girlfriends but each of the girls thinks I am only with her. I am worried that one of them will find out and then from 4 girls I'll have none. But it just feels so good even though it's wrong. What should I do?

I'm actually worried because if 1 of them finds out, then the others will too and then maybe they'll give me a 5-some...but on the other end they might just become lesbians.

2007-09-20 07:20:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.wetv.com/shows/PlatinumWeddings/episodes/

please tell me how they did this!!
*go to the link and check out episodes...click on jennifer and mark slideshow and picture 10 looks like there is blue lights, purple lights and pink lights...does anyone know how to do this? are they colored lights or something place infront of or over the lights? also anyone have a guestimate for what this type of thing would cost? thanks u sooo much

2007-09-20 07:19:41 · 2 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5 in Weddings

My husband went to a birthday party with a friend which was male,, When he came home he changed clothes and I went to wash his pants and a picture of him fell out of his pocket, he had his arm around this woman and he was kissing her, I asked him about it and he said She was a friend, I say if she was a friend why did he hide the picture and I don't think he should be hugging and kissing another woman when he is married.

2007-09-20 07:18:58 · 17 answers · asked by SftLisa 1 in Weddings

I'm 19 years old and in college, I'm a really nice guy, but i have never had a girlfriend. I know "nice guys finish last" but I don't think I need to change/I don't know how to change. I'm really good friends with this girl but in an argument that we had a couple of months ago she said she didn't have any feeling for me. I don't know if she is changing her mind about liking me or not but she has been calling me almost everyday to say Hi and to see what I'm doing. I give her rides to school everyday because I like hanging out with her. I have done a lot for this girl however it feels like it will never be enough. I gave her flowers on valentines day last year, I take her out to dinner, I pay and drive when we hang out (she sometimes offers to pay), I have been there for her almost every time she needed something. It may sound like she is using me, but I don't think so. I know I could ask her out again but I don't knw if I want to end our friendship if she says no. What am I doing wrong?

2007-09-20 07:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

After that she told me to act like she doesn't exist. Two years have passed and now I want to send her a heart-felt apology through email. I really feel like I have to say sorry.
Should I send it?

2007-09-20 07:14:55 · 28 answers · asked by Goddess of the Moon 3 in Friends

Whenever my biyfriend laughs (even if I think it is something really stupid) - I have to laugh. Just to hear him laugh - makes me laugh too.

2007-09-20 07:14:46 · 22 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

Rod Stewarts new wife was born in 1971 while his daughter Kimberly was born in 1979. That's only an 8 year difference. I would hate that it's the thought of when I get older that if I am married my husband would leave me for a newer model.

2007-09-20 07:10:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what is the difference between being "manipulative", and setting boundaries in the relationship?
i cant stand him when he has been smoking pot

2007-09-20 07:09:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It feels like I have a billion things to do. I have a list and have been crossing things off as I go, but for some reason, I feel like I have left everything to the last minute. Me and my honey, aren't spending that quality time together because we're running here and there all the time.

2007-09-20 07:08:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Weddings