My husband went to a birthday party with a friend which was male,, When he came home he changed clothes and I went to wash his pants and a picture of him fell out of his pocket, he had his arm around this woman and he was kissing her, I asked him about it and he said She was a friend, I say if she was a friend why did he hide the picture and I don't think he should be hugging and kissing another woman when he is married.
2007-09-20 07:18:58 · 17 answers · asked by SftLisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Christian men cheat too darling. For any married man to keep a picture of another woman in his pocket (whom he is kissing?!?) is very inappropriate. I'd definitely check into this one...
2007-09-20 08:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on the type of hug and kiss. Also depends on how he feels about it. If the hug/kiss were completely friendly, he should have no guilty feelings or embarassment about it.
My fiance has a couple of close female friends, and almost always greets them with a big hug and an occasional peck on the cheek. It's absolutely no problem at all, especially since these friends have become my dear friends, too. The part you should watch out for is the fact that he felt the need to hide something from you.
Just one question: What does his religious affiliation have to do with anything? The question is "Is is ok for a married man to hug or kiss another woman? ".
2007-09-20 07:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by SE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask that question to yourself...is it ok what you saw in the picture? You are upset enough about it to ask it here, so I think it is bothering you a great deal.
My opinion, my hubby can hug a friend, and maybe do a quick peck on the cheek...but it is not ok for him to kiss another woman on the lips. We arn't "kiss on the lips to say hello" type people, so if I seen a picture of him doing that, I would be furious.
Also, I don't see what christian has to do with anything, being married is being married. Only you know what is acceptable in your marriage. You have to decide if he is a liar, or a little to friendly.
2007-09-20 07:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would REALLY depend upon what type of hug and kiss. If it was just an arm around the shoulders, peck on the cheek type of thing, that would ok by me. However, if it's a full dip tongue-and-all type of kiss, I'd be having him pack his bags within a minute.
Also I guess it would depend upon your personal relationship dynamic. Are you both in a VERY tight, trusting relationship? Or are you two having problems? There's more to take into account than a photo.
2007-09-20 08:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married husband should not be kissing other women that you don't know.
Why didn't you go to the party also? That in itself is weird if you weren't invited. My husband and I have acquaintances that the other doesn't know - such as people we work with...but any woman that my husband is friendly enough to kiss is someone I know, too, and vice versa.
You know the situation better than anyone else and if you think this is more than just a friendly kiss - then you should do something about it.
Good luck!
2007-09-20 07:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mirage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he kissing her on the lips or just the cheeks? Is your husband the kind of man to hug friends? Has he ever forgotten anything in his pants before?
I think it's possible that you are over-reacting and acting jealous. It's entirely possible that he forgot about the picture and that he was just hugging a friend.
Have you ever hugged another man after your wedding? Do you have anything in your pockets or purse that your husband doesn't know about?
2007-09-20 07:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL no. If you don't know the woman, that is wrong. Even if you do know her, it's still wrong if he didnt tell you about it. Call me old fashioned, but I think men should probably tell their wives if they kiss another womann. I mean if there's a perfectly logical explanation for it, why do you have to be left in the dark about it? And the thing that really bothers me is that when you asked him about it.. he said she was "just a friend". That doesnt tell you anything. He shoulda told you her name and how he met her and everything else he knows about her right down to her social security number as far as I'm concerned. I'd definately be worried.
2007-09-20 11:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by twentysix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a Christian man will not kiss a woman in front of his wife, then he should not be kissing her period. There are different types of kisses such as a peck on the forehead or cheek and then there are passionate kisses. There is a big difference between the two!
2016-10-16 16:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jacki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. And "Christian" has nothing to do with it. NO married man should be kissing and hugging other women. If he hid the picture, odds are he is doing more than just kissing and hugging. You might want to consider taking this one to the marriage counselor. Good luck!
2007-09-20 07:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
There's a kiss and there's a KISS...A friendly hug and kiss on the cheek are quite common among many people, and I see nothing wrong with that...it also troubles me that he hid the picture. Also, the fact that it disturbed you is enough--nothing else matters.
2007-09-20 07:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋