After that she told me to act like she doesn't exist. Two years have passed and now I want to send her a heart-felt apology through email. I really feel like I have to say sorry.
Should I send it?
2007-09-20 07:14:55 · 28 answers · asked by Goddess of the Moon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Who are you trying to make feel better: her or yourself? If you think she needs or wants an apology, or if you really believe it will help her in someway then send it. If this is just to make yourself feel better then don't send it.
2007-09-20 07:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and send her that email! What have you got to lose? While typing her the email message, make sure that your apology comes from the heart. Let her know that you miss her and her friendship and if there is any possibility that you guys can become friends again. You can also mention to her how much her friendship means to you and you are willing to make things right with her. If she decides not to send you an email back, at least you gave it your best shot. That's all that matters. Whatever the situation was, take it as a lesson learned and officially move foward with your life. Good luck, hon.
2007-09-20 14:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did something bad, then YES, I think you should write her an apology letter, but only if it is straight from the heart !
However, just because you wrote her the apology letter, it doesn't necessarily mean that she should or would forgive you. You have to understand that people don't heal or don't forgive easily, therefore you shouldn't get upset at her if she doesn't respond the way you hoped for. Or maybe it will take her some extra time to get over it. Whatever the case may be, just know that you apoligized and that you did whatever you had to do to try to mend the situation.
2007-09-20 14:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Life Is Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah! You definitely should, but just realize that she may not open your email or a letter if you send one, and if she does she may not respond. The best thing is to apologize in person. She will know you mean it. If that's not possible, a phone call would be the next best thing, but if an email is the only way, by all means try it.
2007-09-20 14:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way:
What have you got to lose?
I would advise you to send it, even if she acts like she has never received it, it will ease your consience and make her feel better.
I'm not going to ask what you did and I'm the last person in the world who can judge anybody, but if you do want someone to talk to, you can always email me x
2007-09-20 14:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_steph27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Life is too short for something like this to come between friends. She probably wants to talk to you and felt the same way at some point in the past, but thought you wouldnt respond or talk to her as well.
I would definately make amends, it will make you feel a lot better.
2007-09-20 14:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by MyKidsMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely send it. Nothing is more cathartic than apologizing for a past wrong and wanting to set things straight. Even if she doesn't accept your apology, you will be doing the right thing, and it will give you peace.
2007-09-20 14:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Monica Sardonica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i'll go with the majority and say, go ahead and send the email, worst is she'll not return it, or you'll get a nasty one back, and at least you tried, right??? I think you'll feel better about yourself i the end, for trying to make a wrong-right...
2007-09-20 14:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 years and no contact from her, I would say NO.
Cheating is a very hurtful thing, it is something that you can never erase from the memory.
We were giving the power to make our own decisions, by God, good, bad or indifferent, we have that power.
The thing you have to learn, is sometimes we make the bad decisions and you just have to suck up the consequences, it's called life and learning from your mistakes.
this just might be a lost love that you will have to tuck away in your heart, learn from it so it will NEVER happen again.
2007-09-20 14:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what you "did" to here but what is the worst that could happen? The worst would be that she doesn't read or accept it. If you don't though, you'll never know if that friendship could have been rekindled if you don't at least TRY. It can't hurt anything, right?
2007-09-20 14:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋