I have 4 girlfriends but each of the girls thinks I am only with her. I am worried that one of them will find out and then from 4 girls I'll have none. But it just feels so good even though it's wrong. What should I do?
I'm actually worried because if 1 of them finds out, then the others will too and then maybe they'll give me a 5-some...but on the other end they might just become lesbians.
2007-09-20 07:20:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha!!! Thanks for keeping me entertained! Wish I had your problems!
2007-09-20 07:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. You need serious help.
The problem is not that you have 4 girlfriends. The problem is that you think that they perceive the situation as exclusive. What have you done to give them that impression?
If nothing, then don't worry about it. If they find out, say that it was not exclusive. If they get mad, it is just life. There will be a lot of people mad at you in your life. Get used to it.
On the other hand, if you are sleeping with all four of them, I think they may have a point. You should not be having sex with 4 different women at the same time. It is not healthy for many reasons, including STDs, manslaughter, frying pan to the head, ect....
2007-09-20 14:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell each of them the truth. Unfortunately, the truth of the matter is even after you tell the truth at least one of them will probably still stick around (that's the love of a woman). So all is not lost. People often lessen the value of honesty especially in relationships. We as women can handle even more than we should when we are being told the truth.
But as a side note, you are a little weird and may need help.
2007-09-20 14:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by tvthomas14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why The Heck Are You Dating 4 Girls In The First Place You Jerk Haven't You Ever Heard Of Being Faithful To One Person Whats Wrong With You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-20 14:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by sxydevil1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all your a dumbass... Second you need to be honest in these types of situations it will actually help you in the end.
Ok first you need to come clean with ALL OF THEM and tell them listen I really enjoy the time we spend together but I am also leaving my options open.
DO NOT LIE you will get caught and then they will start paying your dumb a.s.s. back. What you don't realize is that competition is a good thing!! Especially when it comes to dating and when a girl realizes she has competition she works that much harder to keep you happy understand?
Let them know after you have the talk that yes you are infact seeing other people and you suggest they do the same and this will drive them crazy.
Tatt has spoken so let it be written so let it be done....
2007-09-20 14:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cover your tracks, don't ever call one of them by the wrong name and if you're calling them from a cell phone. Don't let one of the girls see the other girl's phone number, never go to the same place twice with a different girl waitresses noticed guys to bring in a different girl every other day. And most importantly, never say the same thing to any of the girls. For example, don't tell one girl she is your favorite and you'll be with her forever. And then go tell the other three or four times same thing. Even if they were to me somehow and discuss their boyfriend, but we'll figure it out if you say the same thing to each of them.
2007-09-20 14:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by J W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if four is your limit. If the hunger for more persists, start dating stupider ones. Might a suggest joining three to four travel sports leagues that take away time you can spend with her. "Oh, sorry honey, I was out of town last night playing in the new basketball league....didn't I tell you that?" Make sure you shower in between shifts. That's got to be the worst way to get caught. "Why does this taste like an old hamburger?"
2007-09-20 14:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way i have found to do this is to get a house in 4 different towns at least a 100miles a part only see the girl at the House that is designated to her it works great spend a lot time on the road enjoy
and also when you get a chance grow up
2007-09-20 14:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by jim1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you keep this up, your days are seriously numbered. You will find yourself in hot water, or at the very least, alone. Otherwise, they might not even care too much because they are dating other guys behind your back. You'd be surprised at how many guys would love a chance at your sweeties.
2007-09-20 14:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an a'ss'hole you are!! I hope you really get kicked out so hard by each and every single one of them, and that they'll spread the rumour loud and about, so that no one will ever be stupid enough to get involved with you!!! GROW UP and smell the coffee!
2007-09-20 14:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by TrickyTiger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a complete joke.No one can get away with having 4 girl friends at the same time and live long enough to talk about it.Women are not stupid.
2007-09-20 14:29:15 · answer #11 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋