Family & Relationships - 20 September 2007

They leave loved ones in turmoil, as they feel that they did not help the person, they are confused and upset.
Obviously anyone who answers is not a suicide unless they are a attempted suicide.
I cant comprehend why people think suicide is an answer.

2007-09-20 07:05:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

... he doesn't know anything about MySpace but doesn't like it at all. I'm 100% faithful and not a flirty girl WHAT-SO-EVER. Anyway, I created a MySpace for him MONTHS AGO and that was a huge mistake - he read through all my comments and twisted everything around and got VERY ANGRY with me. When a girlfriend wrote, "XOXO" he accused me of being a lesbian. Anyway, he deleted me from his myspace (now he only has 1 friend on there) and he hasn't had a chance to log on to his because our computer had been down. Well - our computer works and now he wants me to show him my MySpace but I know it'll just create a HUGGGGGGGGGGGE fight. He doesn't like me telling friends what I've done on the weekends, etc., etc.

Should I HAVE to show him, or do I have a right to my own privacy? If I show him, it'll cause a fight. If I don't show him, it'll cause a fight.

I have nothing to hide. But then again, he might see a friend tell me that they miss me and get angry!

2007-09-20 07:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by hello g 2 in Singles & Dating

he is usually quiet & have lots of work but i can not remember he tell me nice things .... or try to impress me only when I am not around he ask about me ... I like him but really tired

2007-09-20 07:00:58 · 46 answers · asked by manar 1 in Friends

There have always been feelings between me and my cousin (his mum is my mums sister) and for over 17 years we have fought the feelings, however when my marriage broke down, we got together and have recently got enagaged. the family are not happy about it but most have accepted us for who we are and accepted that we are adults (we are both in our mid 30's) i know some feel that marrying cousins is wrong but you can grow up next door to someone all your life and fal in love with them so why cant you fall in love with your cousin. (for info we had not seen each other for several years when we got together this year). I dont want to get acceptance for this i would just like to know peoples views on this. After all who decides who you can and cant fall in love with? And forget the american states we are both british and both live in the UK...Can we get married here and also can we legally get married abroad (Cyprus?)

2007-09-20 06:56:31 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I go to church and see a girl, she has a sister and I have talked to her sister but it seems lik every time that I try to talk to her she is always next to her friends or family and I never get to talk to her alone to try to get to know her.

2007-09-20 06:55:41 · 5 answers · asked by hurt_heart 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-20 06:53:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-20 06:50:45 · 17 answers · asked by ellen 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-20 06:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by aying 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I kind of deeply in love with a man who still had feelings for his ex. I know he is still talking to her, and it is a posibility they are going or still in the process of hooking up. Her name is JACKIE. But the problem is WHY DO I KEEP SEEING OR HEARING HER NAME EVERY WHERE. I am so sick and tired of hearing the name Jackie. for example. I go to the mall I need some help I walk up to a lady her name was Jackie, or I call the operator and her name is Jackie... I have finally got to the point where I left this man alone, because he still had feelings for his ex and I was getting hurt. So can anyone tell me why I keep seeing the current or ex's name so much...

P.S.. I have told him about this coincidence about her name, he told me that they are trying to get back together...Awww man!!!! I think i'm going crazy..

2007-09-20 06:42:31 · 15 answers · asked by Candy87 1 in Singles & Dating

i met someone online and i liked him coze he was soo cool,then after chatting for 2 or 3 monthes we begin to date,But lately he broke his hand so he cant be online anymore
but i really really love him and i want to talk to him
wat can i do?

2007-09-20 06:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by MADELINE 2 1 in Singles & Dating

1.I can't gain weight
2.I want a bigger butt

2007-09-20 06:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-20 06:33:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have the flu
I do every thing for my wife
but my sisterinlaw is complaining that her husband is calling her every 15 minutes and wants something
she said to my wife that he is disturbing her while she is on this site
he goes to work 6 days(nights ) a week
she does nothing
now he is ill and gone to work,and she has just phoned to tell us to look at her 360 site

is that a B*TCH or what

2007-09-20 06:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do they differ from the usual U.S. variety?

Honey, dear, sweetheart, sugar, pumpkin, and so on?

2007-09-20 06:32:32 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so techinally hes not my ex but we are seperated and our daughter stays with me. He sees her sometimes but today he told me his family was planning an outing at an amusement park and he was taking Ava this Saturday but I already made plans for me and her to go with my new guy and his kids to go on his family's horse farm. I don't know what to do but I'm furious that he waited until the last minute and didn't even ask but instead TOLD me he was taking her. I was thinking of not even opening the door when he came to get her. What do you think?

2007-09-20 06:28:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is thinking she may have a life without kids if she stays with me and I have told her that's not true, but she wants a child NOW. That seems to be all that matters to her. Her best friend just got pregnant too. This is a smart girl from a good family, so am I. She was telling me she loved me so much just up to a couple of weeks ago. Is it over? Is she really going to go out and find someone this quick to give her a child now? We are so close to making it happen. why do this now? all she tells me is, "i can't talk about it now," which doesn't help me out much. Has she given up or is it normal for women at this age/stage to do this to a man who just two weeks ago she wanted to have a child with. I am out in the cold on this. Do I just give up? Is that what she wants...me to just walk away? any women who have gone through this please clue me in on what to do. thanks for your help.

2007-09-20 06:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Singles & Dating

I would really like to know...........

2007-09-20 06:27:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... well... i have been friends with this boy for just over a year now, i fancied him from day 1... but he didn't know.
He lives about 3 hours from me! We became really good mates online and i met him in person about 2 months ago.
It went really well and thats when i fell for him.
I saw him again a few days ago... he came down to see me.
We was hugging, holding hands and kissing like a couple so i'm guessing he likes me back as he told me so.
The thing is he lives 3 hours away... and back at his home he has a girlfriend.
I really don't know what to do! He knows how i feel about him and he said he likes me in that way.
He said if the distance wasn't between us he would deffinately go out with me its just... the distance is there and he has a girlfriend.
I really really love him and i don't know what to do.
Is it possible that he can really love his girlfriend if he is doing this behind her back?
HELP ME!

2007-09-20 06:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Alziebee 2 in Singles & Dating

How can sleep boss wife? I need to no quietly.

2007-09-20 06:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was invited to a wedding at the end of last month.The wedding is for this Sunday at an Elks club.This was a very fast planned wedding.Along with myself and husband my daughter (who is under 10) was invited to the wedding with her own invitation. I am what they would consider a distant cousin (4th I think). What should I put in the envelope for me and my husband and what should I put for my daughter. They requested cash only. Please Help.

2007-09-20 06:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-20 06:19:07 · 11 answers · asked by cecee 4 in Weddings

i've been thinkin alot about running away from home..
i'm really tired of all of the bullshit that goes on in my family.. my grades have been going down cuz i haven't been able to think about what i'm doing becuz of all of the **** that is going on in my family..i've tried talking to them about how i feel.. & they either just ignore it or say "I don't care about your feelings!" each and every day my depression is getting worse... i cry for hours when i get home from school.. it feels like they are ripping out my heart.. i try so hard to do whats right yet i still get a whole bunch of **** from them...i talk on the phone to my bestie about everything thats been going on in my family.. she says that i need to get out of my house.. & i totally agree with her.. stayin in my house is slowly killing me on the inside.. so what should i do?
i've already tried talking to my parents about it & nothing seems to be getting solved..
any input will help alot.

thanks,

2007-09-20 06:16:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i don't get noticed much, and when i do it's always the shy and dummy guy.... never had a serious relationship and frankly i don't get men sometimes...

anyway, is it all about looks? i'm not beautiful, but no worse then some.... and yes, i can carry on a conversation

ps, don't get me wrong, sometimes being invisible suits me just fine, but i was just wondering what do other females in the same position have to say about this

2007-09-20 06:16:15 · 24 answers · asked by catharsis 4 in Singles & Dating

My bridal shop will steam my gown for free. Yay! Unfortunately, my bridal shop is in Pennsylvania and I have a 3 hour drive to New York. The shops in the area aren't so helpful, they only steam dresses bought there. I have been told to hang the dress in the bathroom and run a hot shower. Honestly ladies, does this work? Has anyone tried it? Better suggestions? I'm reluctant to take it to a cleaner because we're only going up the day before the wedding and I'm afraid it won't be done in time.

2007-09-20 06:13:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am :-)

2007-09-20 06:13:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok lil about me i am in the army infantry soldiers i am heading to war in cpl of months and i met this girl and i like her alot we only talked for about a week now i like her a lot she seems like the only i want to spend my life with i want to marry her before i head off for war i dont want to die alone but is this a reason to get married so soon? i know it can work but is it so soon?plus i am getting old im 28 with no family and my life goal is to have that american dream a family with that white picket fence
thank u for reply no matter good or bad reply thank u

2007-09-20 06:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by sickpuppy79 1 in Singles & Dating

A Bavarian politician (who has no chance of winning the seat she is running for) is advocating this. With all the prenuptual agreements that are flying around these days (some including weight restrictions for the wife) is this really that outrageous?

The politician advocating that married spouses wouldn't be as like to take their marriage for granted if they knew the other spouse would have to agree to renew every seven years. What do you think of that?

2007-09-20 06:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by Chris D 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dreamt that i was dning in a restaraunt wid my family n my fav singer started performing there. i sang a song wid him n then suddenly a man came n he said i shud *** 2 him. then he said 2 the singer that " even though u were her dad, i loved her more than u n now i'll take revenge frm these ppl who stole her from us" the singer tried to stop him but he killed my family. then the scene changed n the singer told me that he had been forced by his dad to elope with another singer ( i only knew her name until i had this dream) and she concieved. after the delivery, she committed suicide.( i was that baby)
but i searched for that singer on internet n i found out she is very much alive. i can't just stop thinking abt it and i can see the faces of those two singers in my dreams again n again now.

wat do i do?? i'm very scared of this now.

2007-09-20 06:04:29 · 1 answers · asked by Devilish_chic31 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found an unborn fetus in the street. I plan on giving it to my wife for her birthday. Is this awesome?
Y/N

2007-09-20 06:03:46 · 3 answers · asked by obeythegm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel guilty and now he doesn't trust me, and watches every move I make, and I am getting frustrated and angry becasue I am feeling trapped by the questions and him not letting me go anywhere and having to ask permission to go anywhere or do anything...any suggestions on what I should to and how to deal with this??

2007-09-20 06:00:21 · 17 answers · asked by xmasnoelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce