... he doesn't know anything about MySpace but doesn't like it at all. I'm 100% faithful and not a flirty girl WHAT-SO-EVER. Anyway, I created a MySpace for him MONTHS AGO and that was a huge mistake - he read through all my comments and twisted everything around and got VERY ANGRY with me. When a girlfriend wrote, "XOXO" he accused me of being a lesbian. Anyway, he deleted me from his myspace (now he only has 1 friend on there) and he hasn't had a chance to log on to his because our computer had been down. Well - our computer works and now he wants me to show him my MySpace but I know it'll just create a HUGGGGGGGGGGGE fight. He doesn't like me telling friends what I've done on the weekends, etc., etc.
Should I HAVE to show him, or do I have a right to my own privacy? If I show him, it'll cause a fight. If I don't show him, it'll cause a fight.
I have nothing to hide. But then again, he might see a friend tell me that they miss me and get angry!
2007-09-20 07:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by hello g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, this guy isn't almost abusive...he IS abusive. Please get out of the relationship before his anger issues go from being yelling matches to fist fights.
Privacy is not actually a right. However, it is such a big thing in America that it might as well be. If you want to show him, than do, but he can not force you to do so.
His anger issues and the whole MySpace thing isn't about you. It's about his feeling of inadequacy and low self-esteem. He feels so bad about himself he can't imagine why you would want to be with him and therefore, you must be looking for someone else.
In a perfect world, these people should be helped, however, your safety is an issue. NEVER let another person (male or female) tell you what you can or can not do. That isn't a happy, healthy relationship, it's a dictatorship. If you think of how bad it feels now, imagine dealing with it in a few years...
2007-09-20 07:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by lkydragn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun How Long Has This Been Going On Because Obviously Its Been Going For Too Long... Where Did He Ever Get The Idea That He Can Make You Do Anything. Having A Jealous And Any Kind Of Abusive Boyfriend, Husband, Fiance Anything Is Never A Good Thing. You Have A Right To Have Your Own Privacy Especially If He Expects To Have His. If This Continues You Really Should Just Move On Sweetie For Your Own Safety
2007-09-20 14:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by sxydevil1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost?! You DO have an emotionally abusive boyfriend. You aren't going to be able to "fix" that either. You need to get out of this relationship - and get out NOW!
Your bf isn't merely emotionally abusive; he is a control-freak, and a manipulator as well. Get out NOW!
2007-09-20 15:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sim - plicimus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reread your first line. Then ask yourself 2 questions:
"Is this the person I want to spend my time with?"
and
"Can I do better?"
Then ask yourself, "Is this myspace issue the real question I have to answer in this relationship?"
2007-09-20 14:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋