Ok... well... i have been friends with this boy for just over a year now, i fancied him from day 1... but he didn't know.
He lives about 3 hours from me! We became really good mates online and i met him in person about 2 months ago.
It went really well and thats when i fell for him.
I saw him again a few days ago... he came down to see me.
We was hugging, holding hands and kissing like a couple so i'm guessing he likes me back as he told me so.
The thing is he lives 3 hours away... and back at his home he has a girlfriend.
I really don't know what to do! He knows how i feel about him and he said he likes me in that way.
He said if the distance wasn't between us he would deffinately go out with me its just... the distance is there and he has a girlfriend.
I really really love him and i don't know what to do.
Is it possible that he can really love his girlfriend if he is doing this behind her back?
HELP ME!
2007-09-20 06:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Alziebee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he was hopeing for more then a cuddle and a kiss lol
2007-09-20 06:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really love him. I think that with the distance and chatting online you have made an illusion of who he is. If you lived closer and talked in person those illusions would probably be destroyed. Girls love romance and you romatically build him up to this great guy. Cause if he was a great guy why is he talking to you if he has a girlfriend and even more importantly why is he seeing, kissing you if he has a girlfriend. A nice guy doesn't do that. Those are actions he is showing you. I think you really really love the idea of the situation and not him. My advice is to distance yourself from him and if he persist just remind him he has a girlfriend and what he is doing is not right. If he really likes you he will do something about that and if he doesn't really like you he won't do anything about it cause he wants his cake and eat it too. Think about this if he is capable of talking to you and having a girlfriend that live close by wouldn't he do the same to you too or worse? So little lady be careful with who u let in your heart, be very careful cause it could hurt a lot. Just be picky with who you involve yourself with, watch out for red flags (like him having a girlfriend but yet talking to you), and believe actions not words. Good luck....
2007-09-20 13:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest, i think this guy is not a good one for you. If he has a girlfriend, he should'nt be spending time with you. Why would you still want to be with him even though he is a cheater and will most likely do the same thing to you. And the distance thing is a hard one, long distant relationships only work if both people put all effort into them, which he obviously is not willing to do. Why would you want to be known as "the other woman".
2007-09-20 13:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~just.me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He can't be trusted. He is cheating on his present girlfrfiend with you. If he told you he left her for you, how would you really know for sure? If he would cheat on her, he would cheat on you. You can bet he isn't telling her about you. Wonder why he told you about her? Anyway, he can't trusted is bottom line. Move on. Besides, you really need a boyfriend that lives closer so you can see more of him.
2007-09-20 13:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋