My husband was in a pogo game room the other night. This lady was in there chatting to the whole room. She proceeds to ask my husband and every other man in the room if they were married, of course he said yes. She then said, "I have been married for 2 months" (she obviously was hoping he and the others would say something like "single" or "looking", etc...). Later, she states to the whole room she likes active sports, like tennis. Then she says she likes spending her spare time online talking to strange men while her husband is hard at work! A man in the room laid into her, telling her what a scum she is, basically. What would you do if you found out your spouse was like this while you were hard at work? I have the pogo ID she used in case anyone wants to check up on their spouse, lol...
2007-09-20 03:29:07 · 26 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to jimmer down there, when you are in love w/ someone, you don't flirt w/ others...even if it's online and you think noone knows about it, boy, I am glad I am not married to you! sheesh...
2007-09-20 04:07:13 · update #1
to poorguy down there, I tend to disagree... she knows exactly what she is doing and does not need a psyche to tell her... she needs a confrontation should her hubby find out... I am thinking she is wanting to meet someone eventually behind her husband's back...
2007-09-20 04:13:22 · update #2
Sounds like she's a little bored floozy housewife. I feel sorry for their marriage. I could never put up with it. He'll find out eventually, they always do.
2007-09-20 03:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Woman or men like that aren't worth the time of day. I wouldn't waste anytime on them. And if I found out my spouse was doing that I would be mad and lose the Internet. I think they could be spending more time doing other things....My hubby plays pogo too and I know he don't talk to people...lol
2007-09-20 03:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would feel betrayed. Cheating in your heart is almost as bad as actually doing the deed. It is people like this that break up marriages and ruin other's lives.
It is so important that we love and appreciate our partners. If we don't someone else will. Still, there are those with low self-esteem and/or a greedy heart that no one can help because they don't want to change. Love is hard.
2007-09-20 03:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Gretta 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's sad to say but, there alot alot of women just like theres alot of men who are on these site and who are married and communicating with each other....I personally know someone in my office who is having an online affair....He may tell his wife different or maybe not at all but, who really knows for sure....We all hear the way he speak s to his wife and then he's telling us in the office he's leaving to meet this woman....It happens very often and the truth is, I just hope my husband has enough love and respect for our marriage and for me and our children not to disrepect us in this way or any way degrading and betraying.......
2007-09-20 03:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um. Doesn't it kind of depend on whether her husband cares? No one condones violating a trust, but the trust is between her and her husband. It's no one else's place to judge unless that person has some superhuman insight into the intimate workings of that particular relationship.
2007-09-20 03:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by sb 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats just sorry. my husband works hard all day long and there is no way I would ever disrespect him or myself by doing something like that. If that lady had been talkin to my husband I would have had to tell her to back the hell off or things were gonna get a little ugly in that place.
2007-09-20 03:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by kas2420 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess some of us have morals and some don't. I don't know what I would do. I would be upset. although pogo is usually pretty harmless chat, when you get into private cam chats that is a completely different story.
2007-09-20 03:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by yellowcloudwoman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a husband, i will not confront my wife have to be rational. First of all i have to consult the help of a psychiatrist. If she have a psychological unbalances i am the only one who should understand and help her to overcome her distinguished character.
Do you agree with me?
2007-09-20 03:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by poorguy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
married only 2 months look 4 a annulment
2007-09-20 03:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by rodawg7 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No but you just have to have trust. It is pogo and you will always find people on there like that.
2007-09-20 03:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋