I have been with my husband for 12 years and last night he made a strange request. I'm on my period and last night he asked if he could rub on my butt while he pleased himself. It felt a little strange and flattering at the same time. Has anyone elses husband ever done this? If your husband did ask would you let him and how would you feel about it?
2007-09-20 03:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is your husband. I personally have never had this occur with mine. But you can look at this several ways. You are on your period and couldn't please him, but he wanted to involve you. He could have done it alone, watched porn, or even thought of some fantasy but he didn't. That is admirable. It sounds like he is definitely into "you." Thats great! I'm sure you two have a happy marriage. I wouldn't think too much of it. Sometimes it can be fun and flattering to do different things in a sexual sense. I know that when I am on my period and can't do a lot to please my significant other, he really enjoys BJ! Best of luck with everything in your life!
2007-09-20 03:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Will you not do it with him when you are on your period? I have never understood why some girls won't have sex during their time of the month. If you have been together 12 years, you should be comfortable enough with each other to do it. But then again, if you think he is a weirdo for rubbing on your butt, you sound very uptight. Relax and have fun!
2007-09-20 03:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by crazydaisy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Woo hoo! I think it's fabulous that he wants to try something new and exciting with you after 12 years of marriage! Tell him some of your fantasies... you'll be closer than ever and he'll see you in a new and sexually exciting way! Enjoy the ride!
2007-09-20 03:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Enchantress38 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez, can I ask why you just didn't have sex with him?
When I use to have periods, it was probably my most "horney" time! So what is there a period going on!!
Things do wash and clean up!!
But sense you didn't, yeah, the butt rubbing was a thrill I'm sure.
When married, my hubby's were allowed to do what ever, when ever.
2007-09-20 03:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
after the birth of our 4 children when we couldnt have sex we would do this , it was a way to make love to her and it helped keep us emotionaly close , and from time to time I will still do this to her , mainly if she is to tired , or not feeling well , and she has never complained about it , and its a way of her accepting the need to give me a little bit of pleasure . and it helps us remain close to each other
2007-09-20 03:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys in tha hood or Laguna Beach???
2017-03-28 18:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to try something new. I think it's great that he included you while pleasing himself, that's a turn on for me.
2007-09-20 04:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say that he is a weirdo. I think that's its cool that he involved you. Just think he could be sitting in front of a computer online. Sounds like to me you have a good sex life.
2007-09-20 03:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
when i was with my partner and she was on her period we did play around a little. she would get on the kitchen table on all fours and spread her butt for me as i backed up about 8 feet and shot peas thru a straw at her butthole. then after we got tired of that i would masterbate while holding her butt with the peas still on them. then i would even shoot on the peas when i was done. it was like a cream of pea soup when it was all done.
2007-09-20 03:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-10 02:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gardie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋