Family & Relationships - 20 July 2007

okay me and my boyfriend been dating for 5 months and we have'nt seen eachother in about 3 weeks bacause we went out of town. my mom wanted to spend time with me the same day my boyfriend wanted to go to the movies with me on. if i blow off my mom she would be hurt and upset because i basically chose a guy i loved for 5 months over a woman i loved my whole life. i told me boyfriend i MIGHT not be able to go to the movies with him and he was already upset with me. if i blow him off he would get really mad at me and start thinking i dont care about him. he's gonna be busy the whole week and im not sure if i can go to the movies with him next weekend either! i wanna spend time with my mom cuzz family's first but im risking loosing the love of my life! i dont know how to get him to understand

2007-07-20 07:02:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you find that you love your children more deeply than your spouse? I find this tendency to be more prevalent in women, who I often hear claim to love their children more than their husband. Please let me know if you do/don't. And if you don't mind, please state your gender and age. I appreciate it.

2007-07-20 07:01:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do you find that you love your children more deeply than your spouse? I find this tendency to be more prevalent in women, who I often hear claim to love their children more than their husband. Please let me know if you do/don't. And if you don't mind, please state your gender and age. I appreciate it.

2007-07-20 07:01:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how does it feel to have unprotected sex and explain y its so good to let a guy do that and pull out jus wna kno neva tried it

2007-07-20 06:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by breylons1and onLii 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is my dilemma. After the wedding, we went home and crashed. Husband opened all cards and tucked away all checks and cash. We opened all gifts next morning. Some where lost in transit, cards were not placed with gifts, gifts had no cards, so I haven't a clue who gave what, or if they gave at all. I have guest list from wedding I can go by for who attended!!! What do I do?!?!

2007-07-20 06:53:32 · 15 answers · asked by girlie1980_2000 1 in Weddings

2007-07-20 06:51:39 · 20 answers · asked by New York Chic 6 in Singles & Dating

About 10 years ago my husband and I had a friend over. We were all in the bedroom just hanging out. He was on the computer, she was on the bed reading the newspaper and I was sitting nearby.

I left to go to the store for something for about 25 minutes. When I came back the door was closed and the sheets had been pulled off the bed. Each was still doing what they were doing before. When I asked my husband, he said a drink had spilled on the bed so they pulled the sheets and washed them. I don't remember checking the washer.

Anyway, years later they both deny anything happened and I was just over reacting.. I trust my dear friend and we've all been friends. We are going to her wedding this weekend. But was I wrong to even think that it could easily LOOK LIKE SOMETHING was going on?

2007-07-20 06:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've never been, but I'm thinking of going to one with a friend because he won't shut up about it until I do, lol. What should I expect? What should I wear???

2007-07-20 06:50:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's run off and taken my kids. I don't know where she's gone. I filed for divorce today. It''s costing me alot of money. My kids are worth it. They are going to know their Daddy loves them. They are certainly not told that by their mother. I'm tired of her brainwashing.
Am I going to have enough strength to get through this. I long for real love and affection. People have told me it gets better. Anybody been through this before?

2007-07-20 06:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-20 06:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by zirconiag 5 in Weddings

Ok, it started at school when a kid asked me to share something that I had, and I was like "What?" . And I was a little confused because I never had shared anything even though I have two brothers. My mom always got us our own stuff, and everything. So I don't know.. like whats the concept of sharing, can't that person get their own?

2007-07-20 06:46:35 · 4 answers · asked by B-Rad 4 in Friends

Well do you think this is awful? I have a sister that was in a relationship for 4 years with a gentlemen and they broke up a month ago, and I always remembered her playing around saying that she would get with his son if their relationship didnt work out. My sister called me last night and said that she had slept with his son I couldnt believe it but they are 2 grown adults his son is 20 and she is 26 years old but its like come on nobody can ever EVER know that she went there because they would think that it was done on purpose just to get back at her ex. What do you guys think out there, I need feed back to give back to her.

2007-07-20 06:44:59 · 53 answers · asked by Kinani M 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-20 06:44:50 · 1 answers · asked by tornadointhesky 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you prefer dating women who are rail thin (e.g. Keira Knightley) or the more curvy types?

Sometimes I wonder if guys think I'm huge, because they seem to like the skinny models... (I'm 5'5'', 118lbs).

2007-07-20 06:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do parents stress so much over these particular sleepovers? Im 13 and I have a group of friends that go to my church and we want to have a boy/girl sleepover, but im not sure if my parents would agree with that. I dont think any of my friends would do "anything" with the guys or vice versa, but why do parents assume we will?

2007-07-20 06:43:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to a wedding in August, it is at 3pm with a fancy dinner/reception afterwards. She said it is semi-formal. Any good ideas where I can get a nice, elegant, non clevage showing dress to wear for under 75 bucks?

2007-07-20 06:38:43 · 9 answers · asked by Va princess 4 in Weddings

I got involed with this guy about six months ago. I am now a little over three months pregnant with his child. He is 24 and im 28. He has spent most of his adult life being locked up. When I met him he was in the process of trying to better his life. He always had this ex girlfriend hiding in the shawdows. Everytime he has gotten out they have gotten back together. She was all a threat to me but once I became pregnant he told me he would be there and that we would really try to do this right. Im in love with him. Last week he ran into one of her friends and gave her my number. This week he got together with her to talk. Now that im pregnant she is willing to leave her current boyfriend and is begging mine to take her back. My boyfriend is now claiming he does not love me and is in love with her and doesnt know what to do. To make matters worse this girl has a drug addiction to the drug he struggles with most. They always had a very stressful abusive relationship. How do I help myself?

2007-07-20 06:36:50 · 12 answers · asked by wikedbutterfly69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-07-20 06:32:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 06:32:22 · 12 answers · asked by Honeybee 3 in Weddings

I am getting married soon, but we're a little short on cash!

Does any one know how I can plan a wedding for 100 people for under 5k in NYC?

PLEASE HELP!

THanks in advance!!

2007-07-20 06:28:53 · 28 answers · asked by Leyda I 2 in Weddings

A Bizarre Feature Popular in New Houses
If you're thinking about building a new house, beware the builder may ask you if you want two master bedroom suites--one for the Mr. and one for the Missus. Turns out, this is the latest rage in new homes, with the National Association of Home Builders predicting that 60 percent of custom-built homes will have two master bedroom suites by 2015. Why? It ensures a more harmonious marriage,It wasn't too long ago that separate bedrooms meant the marriage was failing; now it's viewed as a practical necessity that helps individuals get seven to eight hours of uninterrupted sleep especially as both husbands and wives juggle child care and work responsibilities. Stephanie Coontz, an expert on families, told The New York Times that many couples are "confident enough that they have a nice marriage, but they don't particularly like sleeping in the same room." She adds, "I don't think it says anything about their sex lives." So if you're intrigued by the idea, but wonder what your friends and family will say, do what many builders are doing. Call that second bedroom a "flex suite."

2007-07-20 06:27:41 · 29 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Because i did and now my terrible wife is driving me crazy! I almost feel like getting a job to get some time away from her.

2007-07-20 06:27:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i said your boob is popping out b/c there is this girl at the pool and she waz swimming and then all of a sudden her boob popped out! but she called me a pervert i was trying to help her i didnt say it so everyone heard i took and then told her so im not that bad... am i?

2007-07-20 06:25:15 · 54 answers · asked by Iffy J. 2 in Singles & Dating

well i think they r..i m 16.. i literary feel flat chested when lying down straight .. n itx an embarasment whenever m with my bf and he wants to do "stuff".... what should i do?? dun even suggest the word pills...

2007-07-20 06:25:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I wear? I dont like my tummy, bc it sticks out a lil but i dont mind anything els. what should i wear (if there are guys there that will be look at me and i wanna look hot yet casual)?

2007-07-20 06:24:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not so much about ceremony, but would like to include some Greek traditions. Also would like to learn as much as possible in order to be the best wife I can be. Heritage and family are very important to both of us, and I want to immerse myself in the culture, traditions, etc. Serious answers only please!

2007-07-20 06:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by hr_isengaged 1 in Weddings

why are you unhappy?

2007-07-20 06:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a nice guy, and I have never had any success with girls. On the other hand, dudes that treat girls like a piece of $hit seem to get a lot of girls. I thought it was just dumb girls who go for bad boys. I am currently attending a college whose students were top students in high school. So I assume the girls here are pretty intelligent and smart. The girls here also seem to go for so-called bad boys. Man I don't think I can be abusive to girls. I can talk smack with dudes, but I just can't do bad things to girls. Am I hopeless? Do girls really like bad boys? Do they like to be abused?

2007-07-20 06:21:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example, having a friend approach / hit on them, etc.

I wouldn't, but the though has crossed my mind, just to see what he would do (out of curiousity). But I would never bother going through with it- trust, I suppose, is the reason why :-)

2007-07-20 06:20:31 · 23 answers · asked by :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like told me he likes me I've already done evrything to flirt with him and now he is flirting with other girls in front of me but when he does he looks at me straight in the eye and when I dont look at him he'll shout out my name untill I look at him he also says things like were not going out yet
How long is thing gonna go on
Why doesnt he ask me out yet
How do I act around him NOW

2007-07-20 06:19:43 · 11 answers · asked by figuresk8r2005 2 in Singles & Dating