Family & Relationships - 20 July 2007

I'm bored with everything around me, I don't know what to do.
Compiuter, TV, music, friends, school, ..every day, I'm tired with everything!!!

2007-07-20 04:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by kate 1 in Friends

I helped a person-exgirlfriend with $2,000.00 to make a higher down payment for a car she was getting (I asked for a loan, to help with that), we broke up time after that. She said someday was going to pay. For some months I just got a response "I don't know when I will start paying", to later get no response at all to any of my emails. The other day I was just so tired of the situation that I decided to put an end thinking on taking the case to court. I got a responpse right away from her. She started offering $35.00 a month which I can't take that, I already passed the stage when I was giving the chance to pay any amount per month. The car was $26,000.00 to give an idea of what she buys. I make not a lot more than minimum wage. She is a mom, trying to put the kids in the front to make me feel like a mean person. She says is going to go vacationing to another country, it's stressful to be waiting. What's your oppinion on what would be fair and the right thing to do?

2007-07-20 04:42:12 · 4 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-20 04:42:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give reasons why or why not

2007-07-20 04:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy only likes you because of sex or is using you for sex ..will you guys have it everytime you see eachother..yes right?

2007-07-20 04:40:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend told me that my best friend was talking crap about me.and it wasn't the first time.so i emailed her telling her that she was a snob and needed to shut her mouth.And she sent and even meaner message back.and i wrote thta i never wanted to see her ugly F***** face again.then i tried to apoligize and she wouldn't listen.what do i do?

2007-07-20 04:37:33 · 16 answers · asked by monica d 1 in Friends

Ok Im 14 right now but lately me and my 18 year old boyfriend have been talking about marriage.. he brought it up not me. He said he wants to spend the rest of his life wit me n wants to have kids n a house n asked what id say if he asked me to marry him. I just dont know! I have very strong feelings for him and everything feels so right ya know liek its supposed to be this way. And everyone says your to young to be in love to both of us. But we are. And people just dont understand and I know im gonna get an answer here that says your to young to know what love is blah blah blah. And I also know not to ge hurt that u all think he just wants to have sex wit me then leave n he is just saying this to get into my pants. but it aint liek that. His mom called me and said he is moving to fast n we shouldnt be thinking about marriage. And his friends r always talking about how wrong it is. I just need some help. IDK what my mom would say. I really want this.

2007-07-20 04:36:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old and I love guys and flirting with them and everything but it really ticks me off when older guys hit on me. By older I mean 18+. As in there have been 30+yr old men who have hit on me.

I think it's so rude and gross!
I don't mind the 18-20yr olds but why older? Why do they do this, I'm only 16! What should I do? Are a lot of guys like this?

2007-07-20 04:36:09 · 52 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2 in Singles & Dating

When government data shows 70% of people need their next check to make ends meet AND only 18% of people in this country have more than 10K in liquid savings.

Is it time for change and a move to a more equitable society like Europe?

Source: US government

2007-07-20 04:35:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl I hooked up with recently begged me to lick her other "hole". I've been with girls in the past that have been very fond of rimming, but never one that has literally demanded I do during the first hook-up. Is this something all women are really into and rather shy about it, or is this chick just a kinky broad?

2007-07-20 04:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Phenom 2 in Singles & Dating

My life is so boring and my husband is about to go back to Iraq and I want to do some things as a family that dont cost alot that we can get into before he leaves. We both go to the lake alot but I cant fish because I am mommy and I have to take care of the baby. I try to suggest things for us to do and he shoots me down on all of them saying it costs too much or something. We have been married 2 years and we are super in love but we are boring as can be! Please give me some suggestions. I only have a limited amount of time before he is gone for 15 months and I want to make this time memorable!!

2007-07-20 04:34:01 · 15 answers · asked by MyOpinionMatters 4 in Family

2007-07-20 04:32:29 · 8 answers · asked by nncywlndr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love. He is married before 4 years and seperated before 3 years not legely. He is trying for a divorce but she is offending! It may take another few years to finish. I'm ready to wait but really tensed?

2007-07-20 04:32:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are always held second and even third to my husbands father and brother. Their needs always come before my kids and me. Am I wrong for wanting more???

2007-07-20 04:31:48 · 51 answers · asked by eyeore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i am going to use names otherwise its to confusing
jenny likes andrew alot
i(ryan) cares for jenny
andrew doesnt like jenny
i want jenny to be happy
i lied to jenny to make her happy
andrew lied to jenny just to satsify jenny
jenny is stressing out about andrew
i want jenny to be happy, and not get hurt in any way
how do i (ryan) tell jenny to not stress out about andrew
jenny also only sees andrew once a year for 8 days
andrew 14
ryan 13
jenny 13

ps. alexuis i am only watching out for my friend
i want her to be happy and safe
i still have a small amount of feelings for her
but she is one of my 3 best friends so i luv her as a friend but nothing more
i luv u more than i will ever luv her

2007-07-20 04:30:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"I care about the people, but I don't care about what they think of me"... does that make sense to you?

2007-07-20 04:29:45 · 9 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 04:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by pearl 2 in Weddings

2007-07-20 04:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by oklasoonersgrl 2 in Singles & Dating

How many guests would you invite? What would be the size of your wedding party?

2007-07-20 04:27:38 · 29 answers · asked by Heart of Fire 7 in Weddings

Is it annoying if a girl says she is fat and you really dont think she is?

2007-07-20 04:26:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

"To: Kelly" "the answer is "no" ok? i dont want you no more Rick."
That was the letter my ex wrote to me after stringing me along for 1 month while having another girlfriend, telling me he loves me and he's gonna break up with her. This is a girl who doesn't love him even HALF as much as I do and he knows that cuz he even told me. Yet he picks her over me when I told him I wouldn't be with him while he had another girlfriend. I know that he will eventually come back to me because they aren't serious but I can't take him back anymore after this. It really hurt when I thought the letter would say I DO love you or something in that manner. I'm heart broken. I love Rick with all of my heart. This is my first love. I had never really ever been in love with anybody like I'm in love with Rick. What should I do?

2007-07-20 04:25:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Full and voluminous, like a "princess" ballgown
Sleek and form fitting in a luxurious fabric like satin or silk
A-line ballgown
Anything strapless
Anything with lots of rhinestones and shine
Modern and edgy in a non-traditional color
A Black dress
Something shorter than normal
A casual dress that you can wear for many other occassions
Other?.....please do share

2007-07-20 04:24:13 · 16 answers · asked by Heart of Fire 7 in Weddings

I use to be a wedding planner. Online is useful for many things. Why on earth would anyone consider buying a wedding gown, jewelery, flowers, etc., online? Especially the gown!!!
If you can't touch it, you don't know if you like the feel. If you can't actually see it, you don't know if it's the exact color you want. If you can't try it on, you won't know if it suits your body, something VERY IMPORTANT. And, you end up paying for alterations that most stores will do for free if you purchase from them.
The same with linens, flowers. Unless you can see and feel them, you won't know if they are just right, or if they match.
The same applies for everything else. I've had many couples disappointed with online purchases for weddings.
Online is great for ideas, but when it comes to the real thing, you should go with a vendor in your area so you can deal with them in person in case of a problem, such as receiving your items on time, and in time to make changes.
Any thoughts?

2007-07-20 04:23:11 · 9 answers · asked by elewishs 2 in Weddings

My bf and I are totally happy and in love with each other. I think the world of him and he is so good at making me feel like the relationship and I are his top priority. I like to tell him when I feel the urge that I think he's great or that I am happy that he is in my life, which has been the last two nights in a row and then maybe a few days before that. Last night, I told him that I think he is wonderful and he said it back to me with such little enthusiasm that I started to wonder if I say it too much.

How often is too often to tell someone that you appreciate them and having them in your life?

2007-07-20 04:22:03 · 29 answers · asked by Holiday 3 in Singles & Dating

I started wondering this when a fellow co-worker of mine bought a house 2 years ago because EVERYONE around her was buying houses. She bought knowing she couldn't afford ownership on her salary but she didn't want to be left out(oh brother,what a lemming!) and now she is in pre-foreclosure.

Could alot of the debt in this country be linked to the need to "fit-in"?

2007-07-20 04:21:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am only 12. I have a bf, he's cute, nice, and funny but we don't rele go on "dates" or any thing. Are we still to young???

2007-07-20 04:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know you can never date them. and what are the things you look for in a person.

2007-07-20 04:19:18 · 14 answers · asked by angelicsnowbabii 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 04:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by HelloKitty 1 in Family

If you feel the love has gone, but you still care for a person, is it time to get out of the relationship?

2007-07-20 04:18:47 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a dude ran up in your house with a gun and said "Give me some a** or I'll kill ya!", what would you do?

2007-07-20 04:18:40 · 11 answers · asked by 400 Meters 2 in Singles & Dating