my friend told me that my best friend was talking crap about me.and it wasn't the first time.so i emailed her telling her that she was a snob and needed to shut her mouth.And she sent and even meaner message back.and i wrote thta i never wanted to see her ugly F***** face again.then i tried to apoligize and she wouldn't listen.what do i do?
2007-07-20 04:37:33 · 16 answers · asked by monica d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her time, that is what it will take. Silence is the golden treatment. If she does not come around eventually, then she was not a real best friend.
2007-07-20 04:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by WE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all...Best friends should know that if you love each other as two Friends should, nothing will come between them. You should of not written her an email, best thing for you to have done is called and talked to her personally. I,m thinking she wrote the return email in response to yours. Both of y'all are acting like little children with name calling and all. When you should be doing stuff together. Be the bigger person in this situation, call her up and tell her your sorry. and ask her to come over so you both can talk this out. Losing a friend happens to us all, but losing a best friend... That's something you should try hard to avoid. Good Luck.
2007-07-20 04:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all do things that we regret and we all make mistakes. You just have to right your wrong to the best of your abilities. Keep apologizing and if she is not mature to take in what your saying then you may be better off without her as a friend. Make sure you do the right thing and she will come around. Best friends are suppose to forgive each other and stick it out together through the toughest of times.
2007-07-20 04:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by dencur02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose a friend like that, it only gets worse as time goes by.... find friends who won't talk bad about you, friends you can trust and have a good time with and that make you feel good about yourself.... You don't need anyone dragging you down. Just be thankful that you lost this loser before she makes you lose all of your friends with her backstabbing gossip. You did nothing wrong, well maybe you should have controlled the emotion a little better instead of calling her ugly! LOL, the things we do and say when we are angry!
2007-07-20 04:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself and her some time. Then visit her in person and in private and explain to her that you don't want to fight and that she is your best friend and you miss her. Then explain to her why you wrote the email and apologize for your part in hurting her and then give her a chance to explain her side. Then go and confront in person the other friend who should have had better sense than to create this problem between you two. One of these two people - the 'friend' who told you about your 'best friend' or your best friend - is not really your friend.
2007-07-20 04:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Maya's Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look up the word "friend" first. Then ask yourself if this person falls into that description.
This isn't a friend..God if this is a friend how do you treat people you don't really like.
Leave her alone.......leave it alone and just ignore her and this bullsh*t, because that's what it is. I mean do you really want to deal with people like this?
2007-07-20 04:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her again and apologizing again but if you see its not working move on sometimes friendship cant mend after hateful words were exchanged . Tell her to kick rocks and move on...You've tried.
2007-07-20 04:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really consider her your best friend, then give her some time. She will eventually accept your apology. She just needs some time to "cool off".
2007-07-20 04:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by blue eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you appear to communicate through emails, then why don't you apologize to her through email, explaining to her how she had hurt you and that you value the friendship
2007-07-20 04:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really cared about this friend then you wouldnt have been so mean to her no matter how mean she is. ever heard the verse " do unto others as you would want to be done to"
2007-07-20 04:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by stjohnscheer196 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋