If you feel the love has gone, but you still care for a person, is it time to get out of the relationship?
2007-07-20 04:18:47 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry to say this ian but hunny pack them things and get out
sometime we think the love has gone and all we need is a little encouragement and a good talk
but if youve explored those avenues and still you find nothing then whats the use in staying?routine?somewhere safe and warm you get one life don't spend that time wishing for more or waiting for that moment to come
belive me it doesnt
but before you throw away what you have talk it through try and put some pazzaz back into it as sometimes you may feel its for the best and find the door shut and no way home
i wish you good luck no rash deceisions ok
take good care of yourself ok xx
2007-07-20 09:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by bullbusbutt 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think only you can answer this! I started to feel like this a while ago! It was really frustrating me! I thought about it over and over and then I talked to him!
We were both really calm about it and talked it through properly but the more I looked at him and thought about losing him, no more hugs no more kisses, no more us I knew I couldnt be without him! Once I told him this he was relieved! Things are better than eer now and I will never again doubt that I love him!
You need to think carefully before you do anything drastic! Do you still make love or is it just sex! Do you want to be with someone else?
In some cases after being with someone for so long you feel that the relationship is just normal! Like there is no excitement in it! Thats when you start thinking the love has gone! Maybe try spicing things up a bit! Bring romance back!
I hope that something I said was off use to you!
Good Luck!
2007-07-20 04:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by emzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caring can be enough....all married people go through this stage where we feel the love has gone but if you still care for the person i'm sure the love is still there you just have to find it again, getting out of a relationship these days is everyone solution to everything....just look back at what made you love this person and try connecting agian, it can happen.
2007-07-20 04:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. It depends on the level of care you feel, the relationship at the time and if you are willing to be 'just friends' in a way with someone you used to love. It's extremely difficult, and will ultimately end, but it can be an easier way of dealing with it than just calling it quits and leaving. Only the two people involved can really make this decision and I'm sure it will be different for everyone.
2007-07-20 04:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Enchanted 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married you can not just end the relationship. My mother and father have been married for 40 years. They tell me that they went thru stages throughout their marriage. Now they are even more in love than ever and are so happy. My mom says that she is so happy to grow old with my dad. She did not always think that.
We can not live on feelings alone. I feel this or I feel that. Our spouse is not who we should rely on to make us happy.
Oh and by the way.....where do you think the love went??? Sorry to be such a hard a**. I love that my parents fought the good fight and never gave up on each other. I plan on doing the same thing with my sweet sexy husband. He knows that and it's such a safe place to be at in a relationship.
2007-07-20 04:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you can live with just caring then I would suppose it would be enough. But it isn't likely that either person will think it is enough. If you don't love the person then it would be wise to get out of the relationship.
2007-07-20 04:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're with that person a long time then its completely natural to still care about them after the love is gone. And yes its time to get out chicks.......x x x
2007-07-20 04:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to your partner about this. Pick a day when you are not going to be disturbed. Make a list of things that you want to say. Prepare, and be prepared to listen too!!
Above all you need to be as honest as possible without hurting the other person's feelings. If the situation degenerates into an argument, walk away and try again some other time.
Good Luck. I hope you both find what's best for you.
2007-07-20 04:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by luigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation once, but I got out. I felt I was putting everything into the relationship but getting nothing back. I soon wised up and realised you can't keep doing it. Love has to be a two way thing.
Making the actual break was horrendous, but time is a healer and now I'm glad I did it.
2007-07-20 05:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by Caveman's daughter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, the love? You mean the passion? You don't find that person sexy anymore? Love isn't just physical, mate.
For you it's definitely time to get out of the relationship, let the other person find someone else.
2007-07-20 04:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋