okay i am going to use names otherwise its to confusing
jenny likes andrew alot
i(ryan) cares for jenny
andrew doesnt like jenny
i want jenny to be happy
i lied to jenny to make her happy
andrew lied to jenny just to satsify jenny
jenny is stressing out about andrew
i want jenny to be happy, and not get hurt in any way
how do i (ryan) tell jenny to not stress out about andrew
jenny also only sees andrew once a year for 8 days
andrew 14
ryan 13
jenny 13
ps. alexuis i am only watching out for my friend
i want her to be happy and safe
i still have a small amount of feelings for her
but she is one of my 3 best friends so i luv her as a friend but nothing more
i luv u more than i will ever luv her
2007-07-20 04:30:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also
i think andrew is not good for jenny
2007-07-20 04:31:15 · update #1
i dont want jenny for myself
i have a gf
2007-07-20 04:40:00 · update #2
I see. I don't care if you r watching out for her, I expect that, y'all r best friends. I would do the same. Stay an open eye on that Andrew dude. But don't be TO no-z. Try telling Jenny what you think if she thinks he is the "perfect" guy, and you know that he isn't. Don't try to lie to Jenny, tell her what you really feel.(Well, I only see you like 0 times. But you might this summer!!)But if she gets mad and doesn't believe what you say, try standing up for her like you would for me when it gets serious or tell her that she is your best friend and you don't want to see her get hurt! Talk to Andrew when you can and tell him what you think is best for Jenny (but he'll tell her and she would be mad maybe)! Don't let Andrew hurt her. If I'm am your girlfriend then I guess I sort of am her friend (don't know) I care for you and your friends!
2007-07-20 08:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good friend. If you don't want Jenny for yourself, but Andrew is a flake that's going to break her heart one day, then maybe you can find a way to divert her attentions to someone who deserves her more. Really, telling her would be the quickest end to the situation, but might hurt her more than either of you can bear and that would make you out to look like the bad guy. So that won't work. If there is any way to get her interested in someone worthy of her, that would be a good way to make Andrew disappear.
2007-07-20 11:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell Jenny that you'd hate to see her get hurt and tell her the whole truth about everything.
Also tell her that you think of her as a sister (so that she doesn't get the wrong idea)
and tell her that you are OK with her going out with guys, just not this one. That would make what you ae saying more believable to her
2007-07-20 11:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE ALL CAN'T PLAY THE ROLE OF GOD! AND I THINK THAT JENNY IS BARLEY LEARNING HOW IT FEELS TO ACTUALLY HAVE A CRUSH AND THE BEST THING TO DO ON YOUR BEHALF IS TO LET HER LEARN FROM HER MISTAKES AND THE CHANCES SHE DECIDES TO TAKE AND WHEN SHE FINDS OUT THE HARD WAY, THEN YOU MAKE SURE YOU ARE THERE TO CHEER HER UP LIKE A REAL TRUE FRIEND WOULD DO.
2007-07-20 11:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to tell her is just to tell her no side notes or anything just tell her that you think she is over stressing on a kid that does not like her and that maybe it's in her best interest to move on and all. tell her that you're there for her and you just don't want her to get hurt and all and she will start to turn to you more and then who knows she could end up liking you
2007-07-20 11:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by patmoney892 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god does jenny even have her period yet? Seriously, you are too young for "serious" relationships. There is plenty of time for stressing over it when you are older.
2007-07-20 11:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulirishgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you think. Jenny makes her own decisions and you need to stay out of it.
2007-07-20 11:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats the way the world works lil man...you care too much and she isnt interested...andrew could give a crap, thus he has all her attention...
just wait...it only gets more interesting as you get older...
might i suggest you start learning how to play the game now, so that latyer your ahead of the pack...
be the guy who doesnt care...get all the rewards (the vag)
2007-07-20 11:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by lil gaper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...well you should just be straight wit her...tell her the truth....(is she a kind of person who get mad if she doesnt like wut shes hearing...?) cuz lots of girls rather have there friends tell them then finding out themselfs...
2007-07-21 00:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by ^-^; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋