Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

he gives me a very different look i think he wants to repropose me and in my life hi is my first love so i do not want to lose him but he tries to show that he is not intrested in me but when we are alone he tries to show me that he loves me the most

2007-07-16 19:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Today is my birthday, and I was really happy and everything. I woke up, took a shower, and got on my IM. I found that a couple of my friends were online, so I started IMing them.
I was talking to one of my friends, and here's how our conversation started:
ME: hey
Her: whats up
ME: it's my bday!
Her: I know
ME: yay!
Her: Shut up. I already know its your bday.
Her: I hate it when people repeat themselves.
Okay, so she is telling me to shut up that I am excited it's my birthday???
then she kept going on about how im such a ***** and I say all this crap about her that I have never said in my life, things like "you think i think the world revolves around me!!"
then she said not to drag our other friend into it, and that I always tell this other girl what to think. She was talking about how she was so sick of me and she hated me and all this other crap.
Then she blocked me.
All because I was happy it was my birthday.
Am I right in blocking her and waiting for her to come to me?

2007-07-16 19:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by OMG Lizard In A Can! :D 4 in Friends

I finally told a girl that ive been friends with for a long time how i felt. she told me the feelings mutual, and that she had also felt the same but had never said anything. but anyways it just seems like at some times shes really into me. but then other days she seems like she could just care less. just like little things, like she'll say she'll call, and never does. or she'll cancel plans last minute. but when we ARE together, everything just seems so perfect. but i DONT want to get used! somebody please tell me what to do.

2007-07-16 19:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Bryan K 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very moody with my boyfriend. for instance, one minute i'll be fine then i'm completely pissed off with him for something he's done. Such as not call me when he says he's going to or for saying something "mean" to me..

Now anyway, i'll get pissed off but won't tell him why i'm upset. i sorta figure its obvious and he knows what he's done. Anyway i am also very forgiving and my moods don't last long.

From a guy's point of view is this a bad thing? would you break up with a girl over it..?

ps.. i only get so upset because i care so much. If i didn't care i wouldn't be getting upset over him..

2007-07-16 18:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Singles & Dating

So I'm going out with a great girl. We've broken up twice for reasons that where my fault. I love her and she says she loves me but, there is this problem that really bothers me, and I don't have the ba*ls to tell her because I feel ashamed and embarrased in such an ugly way. Well my problem is money. In the chain of society she along with her family hang high but when it comes to my family and I we don't hang so high if you know what I mean. But it makes me feel bad because times come when she wants to go out like the movies, mall and i don't have the money. Lots of chances I've had to be with her outside school but its the money.There have been chances when I could have had the money to go out but I feel terrible asking my parents because its not going to great with them either. I cant wait till I'm 16 and start working. I'm 15 and I work sometimes but most of the money I pitch in and help my parents pay their bills. What should I do? She says she loves me no matter wat for ever. ='(

2007-07-16 18:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by Mike C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 18:47:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was reading on the news about that senator, and his wife said she forgave him. I was wondering what would you do? honestly would you stay and try and work things out? Are you unsure? Or would you leave? Also please tell me if you are a man or woman and the duration of your relationship. Thanks! by the way I will post what I would do after the other answers are posted. I do not want to bias anyone.

2007-07-16 18:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by Me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i just got back from a frends beach and thers a cool girl out ther that i want to get to know but i mite not go out ther again, but i colud still get her number from a frend who is out ther .. shud i do this and just call him up and ask him to find me her number.. if not what shud i do.. i relly wanna get top know this girl.. im 15 by the way.. thnx for the help

2007-07-16 18:36:40 · 2 answers · asked by iversonfan3rox 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-16 18:36:35 · 24 answers · asked by tay 1 in Singles & Dating

I just asked a question about why my boyfriend isn't calling me so frequently and I think the guys were thinking I wanted a 35 minute conversation on love, life, and his thoughts on A Walk to Remember everytime we talked...that's definitely not our relationship at all. He'd just call me when he got home from work and say, "I'm home and I love you and I'm going to go hang out with my friends." I am so, so, so, okay with that. I want him to hang out with his friends as much as he wants. I'd say our average phone conversation is maybe 5 or 6 minutes long. (No sarcasm implied in this next question) Is that asking too much? Maybe I'm in "I'm a smotherer" denial.

2007-07-16 18:34:36 · 17 answers · asked by AlliwantISAfrica 2 in Singles & Dating

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I asked the guy I kinda like if he was talking to the other girl who is a problem for me then why couldn't he talk to me. He said he was only looking at her, but added that he was also looking at me...which I kinda thought. I saw him looking at me and was super self conscious...I couldn't even look that direction because he was standing by her. Turns out he was waiting for something on the printer.


So did he tell me he was looking at me too just to minimize that he was near her...Or what...what do guys think during these looking at a girl moments? I felt like he was staring at me, but I couldn't "take it" thinking he was he possibly talking to HER...but he wasn't. Some how I think he may even be mad at her.


Would he be Looking at me the way Guys look at Girls or just the way Guys look at their feet?

2007-07-16 18:30:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I talk to my girlfriend every night on the phone. It's not uncommon. We'll talk until we have to sleep. Now, I've kept her up late the past few nights. I thought it'd be a good idea to let her go to bed "on time." Well, she won't go. She says that she wants to talk to me. I tell her we can talk tomorrow. We talked until like 3:30 a.m. last night. So, she say she wants to talk, but will go anyways because I think she should go to sleep.

I wait patiently to see what she does, and she doesn't do ANYTHING. It is really starting to frustrate me, because I tell her it's up to her what she does. She'll say "well, you think I should go to bed, so I'll go to bed." Then, she'll just wait on the phone, not saying anything. So, I'm like "so, were you wanting to talk then?" And she says, "No, I'm going to bed because you want me to."

I know that she's tired because she only murmurs and does that whole "Mmhm" thing. When I tell her to go to bed, she leaves mad. Not even a "good-bye."

2007-07-16 18:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by badoil_49 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 18:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by calpal2001 4 in Friends

as of a couple hours ago, i found out, that my girlfriend of 3 years has cheated on me, for the second time now. we have broken up twice, and gotten back together in the last 3 years. she tells me that she loves me, and that she would do anything for me, she tells me that without me, that shes nothing...i dont know what to do, i mean this may seem really obvious to some others, but i really dont know what to do. i need some advice.

2007-07-16 18:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by >wonder whats next< 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a half. I'm 20 years old, he's my first boyfriend...he's been lots of firsts for me...anyways, up until about a month ago we talked like 3 or 4 times a day on the phone. Now he's not returning my calls and I only talk to him maybe once or twice a day. I told him it frustrates me and I want to talk to him more often and he apologized and told me he'd try harder but he's still doing it. I know for a fact he's not cheating on me but I can't figure out what's going on...any thoughts on why he's doing this?

2007-07-16 18:10:32 · 20 answers · asked by AlliwantISAfrica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 18:09:36 · 16 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this married man are friends. We have been friends for 3 or 4 weeks. And he recently told me he loved me. Should i believe him.

2007-07-16 18:05:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

muh brother likes making collages outta food that we are eating for dinner. So one day he asked my mom, "Mommy, can i use some carrots for my picture?" and she said "As long as u eat them for dinner!" and then my brother said "Oh, well can i use some cookies?!"





very smart for a 4 year old!

2007-07-16 18:03:38 · 2 answers · asked by JuStCurious! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever made the first move?
Guy (if you just had to look)...Do you mind when a girl makes the first move at times?

2007-07-16 17:51:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently found out that my dad is having an affair with a china woman less than half his age. no one in my family knows this and i dont intend to let my mum or sister know. im feeling disgusted and what i really want to do is to get back at that woman and make her stop seducing my dad. please help me think of some ways i can get back at her. no worries, im not thinking of murder or arson or stuff like that just looking for harmless fun that'll be sufficient to make her stop. thanks

2007-07-16 17:48:06 · 15 answers · asked by downcast 1 in Family

His mustache smelled like womens hooch. He works a lot and is gone quite a bit, so I am not sure whether it was just me or him.
What would you say or do?

2007-07-16 17:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

i mean, I love my hubby so so much, wouldn't trade him for anything in the world, but sometimes i feel like he's my third child, i sometimes get after him more than the kids on certain days, anyone elses hubby like this?....he's great with the kids, and fun to be around but sometimes just sometimes i wish he could act grown up...lol..am i the only one feeling like this?

2007-07-16 17:46:15 · 15 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Do any of you woman like me get sick of always hearing about men and their "needs"..They think the world revolves around them and act like their gonna die if they dont get any once in awhile from their wives they get a nasty attitude with her..I think all men are sex addicts and only see women as sex objects.

2007-07-16 17:43:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy 2 weeks ago and we went out, we had a great time, we talked about our kids andhow they come first and how busy we both were. We have talked everyday either online or text messaging on his lunch break or on the phone since and before our date until he went on vacation last friday. Since then I have talked to him on the phone once and I sent him a text message to see if he was havin fun on his vacation. He said he had been painting and cleaning and that he would either call me or message me but he hasnt for a couple of days now. Is he just busy and not have time to call or is he just being nice by saying he will but letting me know in a round about way that he doesnt want to talk to me? I really like this guy and I don't want to sound or be pushy but if he isnt into me like I am him I would like to know. Am I being to quick to assume he is pushing me away? I need help, I don't want to push him away but I dont want to wait around for someone that isnt interested in me.

2007-07-16 17:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

Dated for many months and then i broke up with her. got back together and then a month later she dumped me. i realized how much i loved her and that she was the one. period. i dated someone because i was lonely. she came back and i dumped my gf and when i went to her she said only friends. then she said there was no other way for us to be together. she broke my heart twice in a month. I told her today that all that matters is her happiness to me and i would do anything including sacrificing my own. I asked her close friend if she thinks she'll ever come back she said no and she is liking someone else.... This girl loves me even though she won't say it(i can tell in her eyes). My question is do you think she will ever come back? Should i press forward and keep going after her even though she's getting annoyed? Finally how long should i wait for her? Please no move on crap. she's the one i want and i don't plan on moving on at all. Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it.

2007-07-16 17:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by J.S 3 in Singles & Dating

If I were to have sex with my boyfriend, and got caught whats the charge for statutory rape? He's 18 and I'm 16.

2007-07-16 17:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 17:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 17:38:48 · 8 answers · asked by Hi There 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in a big apartment complex, I've lived here nearly a year and I'd really like to meet my neighbors and make some friends. Does anyone have any suggestions?
What about a book club?

2007-07-16 17:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive always been the one in the family that everyone comes to for help or to just vent at about something else. ive pretty much been the glue holding my family together. now my brother is pulling himself away. my step dad is totally clueless about everything and so he gave up. my mom is stresseed to the max. and my older sister just moved out cuz shes bulimic nd doesn't want to be around the family. shes in therapy trying to get better. shes living with her bf but is still living off my family. and im in therapy because everyone still comes tome and im just an emotional teenage girl and i cant handle all of it. ive been a cutter for a year and so im also in therapy for that because my step dad and i fight constantly and yell and scream at eachother. ive always been one to fix things and i always have the need to fix things so they are better and peaceful and no one hurts anymore and my family is falling apart and i dont know how to fix it. HELP!

2007-07-16 17:38:31 · 10 answers · asked by GiR 1 in Family