Today is my birthday, and I was really happy and everything. I woke up, took a shower, and got on my IM. I found that a couple of my friends were online, so I started IMing them.
I was talking to one of my friends, and here's how our conversation started:
ME: hey
Her: whats up
ME: it's my bday!
Her: I know
ME: yay!
Her: Shut up. I already know its your bday.
Her: I hate it when people repeat themselves.
Okay, so she is telling me to shut up that I am excited it's my birthday???
then she kept going on about how im such a ***** and I say all this crap about her that I have never said in my life, things like "you think i think the world revolves around me!!"
then she said not to drag our other friend into it, and that I always tell this other girl what to think. She was talking about how she was so sick of me and she hated me and all this other crap.
Then she blocked me.
All because I was happy it was my birthday.
Am I right in blocking her and waiting for her to come to me?
2007-07-16 19:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by OMG Lizard In A Can! :D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah she is my friend. She pulls this stunt all the time and makes me come to her. I'm sick of her causing crap and then making me fix it!!!
>:-(
and thank you for wishing me a happy birthday! hope next years is better, I was highly disgruntled most of the day.
2007-07-16 19:12:15 · update #1
And wow, Colleen G, its like you know her!!!
2007-07-16 19:31:05 · update #2
Happy birthday!
She was being bitchy because it is your birthday. She sounds like a shallow person who cannot share happiness for other people, only herself. You sound like a nice person who deserves better friends than someone like her. I think you are correct in blocking her. If she wants to come to you and apologize I would consider allowing her back as a friend, otherwise, you are better off without her.
Good luck!
2007-07-16 19:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Colleen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !! hope you get a lot of nice gifts and cards from your friends and family.
You must do what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do.
perhaps my family's definition might help you we say " a true friend is one who knows the worst things about you, and still likes you anyway. "
Sorry your friend feels this way, but She may need a lot of TLC because of certain circumstances you may be unaware of.
there is a Native American saying, " never judge a person until you have walked ( at least ) one mile in his moccasins. "
2007-07-17 08:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she treats you lke that, do u really need her as a friend? block her, delete her, do whatever you feel is right, and until she apologizes and wishes you a happy birthday i wouldn't talk to her. Happy birthday by the way! =)
2007-07-17 02:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by MoNoPoLy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's pretty harsh of her esp. on your birthday. I don't think you did anything wrong, I would have done the same thing. Is she even your friend?
2007-07-17 02:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. You were just happy about your birthday! Seriously. WT EFF
2007-07-17 02:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Spikey Paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question was way too long to read it!?
2007-07-18 10:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Novak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋