I am very moody with my boyfriend. for instance, one minute i'll be fine then i'm completely pissed off with him for something he's done. Such as not call me when he says he's going to or for saying something "mean" to me..
Now anyway, i'll get pissed off but won't tell him why i'm upset. i sorta figure its obvious and he knows what he's done. Anyway i am also very forgiving and my moods don't last long.
From a guy's point of view is this a bad thing? would you break up with a girl over it..?
ps.. i only get so upset because i care so much. If i didn't care i wouldn't be getting upset over him..
2007-07-16 18:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have dumped you months ago.
Seriously.
The truth is, you are game playing. If you really are upset, then you need to be an adult and explain in a rational way why you are upset.
Leaving someone else to guess what you think is obvious is just making them feel worse. Are you trying to solve the problem or are you trying to make them feel like crap?
And you aren't upset because you care so much. You get that upset because you like the reaction you get, otherwise you wouldn't react that way.
Just the way an honest guy sees it. And if he has friends? You better believe they feel the same way I do and tell him often.
2007-07-16 18:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rich D 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only problem that you have is that you do not discuss the situation with him. Believe me, sometimes men are clueless when it comes to what they have done to make women upset. It is best to lay the situation on the line, so that you and he will not have to deal with the same problems over and over. That is when it becomes nagging. Just let him know why you are upset, and what he could have done to avoid the problem. That way he knows that if he does the same thing next time, there will be hel# to deal with!!
2007-07-17 01:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might tolerate the moodiness, but expecting mind reading abilities (when he should "know" what he's done to piss you off) is expecting too much, IMHO.
I --might-- keep dating a moody girl, if everything else in the relationship were going well.
2007-07-17 01:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I would and have broken up with a girl for that kind of behavior, I can't speak for your guy but in my case, I don't care why you make my life a living hell. you can give me excuses like "I wouldn't do it if I didn't care" until you are blue in the face, that doesn't change the fact that I'm in hell and you are the cause
2007-07-17 02:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We CAN NOT read minds, whats odvious to you is completly from outta left feild for us, never keep secrets, guys need to know whats going on. if the happy times outweight the you pissed off times, then you should have nothing to worry about
2007-07-17 01:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by thenewmadmax 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would.
Even if you think he should "know" why you're mad, just closing off and not talking about it just breaks off the communication in your relationship.
If you "cared so much" you would talk things out with him rather than just having a temper tantrum like a 4-year-old.
I would totally dump you.
2007-07-17 01:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋