Dated for many months and then i broke up with her. got back together and then a month later she dumped me. i realized how much i loved her and that she was the one. period. i dated someone because i was lonely. she came back and i dumped my gf and when i went to her she said only friends. then she said there was no other way for us to be together. she broke my heart twice in a month. I told her today that all that matters is her happiness to me and i would do anything including sacrificing my own. I asked her close friend if she thinks she'll ever come back she said no and she is liking someone else.... This girl loves me even though she won't say it(i can tell in her eyes). My question is do you think she will ever come back? Should i press forward and keep going after her even though she's getting annoyed? Finally how long should i wait for her? Please no move on crap. she's the one i want and i don't plan on moving on at all. Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it.
2007-07-16 17:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by J.S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW we are both 19 and in college we work at the same place and we see each other often... she can't look at me without looking away really quit
2007-07-16 17:43:34 · update #1
well.. the same problems i had before with my x. But we didnt couple n broke up many times.
We r friends, but we acting like a couples.. holding hands and always hang out together. But both of us are so stubborn we dont admit that we love each other.. It goes on for years and he coupled with my freind but it last for 1 months.. and we got back together.. n distance again for months n back together again.. thats what we always do.
Lastly, maybe both of us couldnt stand to deny our true feelings, we coupled for 5 yrs and did plan to get marry.. but because of religion n his grandma.. we can't marry.....sad though..
So, if u truly lover her... just wait for her and if she really loves u, she will come back to u no matter what. But at the same time u have to go on with ur life try hang up with other girls too..Just believe in ur loves.... miracles do happens.
2007-07-16 17:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noone here who is honest probally won't spare you the "move on crap".You can't keep pushing it that's forsure because it never works.I wouldn't wait around either as that is unfair to yourself.But that doesn't mean you need to go rushing into something else.You really need to deal with it 1st and get over it.It could be a long time if she is liking someone else and may be never.Guessing is bad to do.Sounds like you told her how you feel and there isn't much else you can do for now.Waiting is the worst as i have been there myself.Got to think of other things and keep your mind off of it
2007-07-17 00:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's catch our breath here...
If she's your one, and nothing else matters, then get used to being alone for a while. It seems you're willing to see if she'll come 'round. If that's the case, you don't want to drive yourself from annoyance to intolerable in her eyes. Spend your time investing in yourself, enriching your character and life. Develop yourself such that when she takes note of you again in that special way, you'll have some new aspects of yourself to share. Meanwhile, eating your heart out is NOT allowed. Utilize unpleasant emotions with exercise or meditation or something that helps you process them.
Best wishes toward your future together.
2007-07-17 00:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes as long as it takes.
Be patient. Let her know that you really mean it when you say that her happiness is very important for you. If she wants space, give it to her. If she needs a shoulder to cry on, be there for her. Let her know that you are there through all "Seasons" of life. Honesty will be the best solution to your difficulties and it will support your relationship more than anything else.
2007-07-17 00:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by silverwhite_68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no plans to move on, the only thing to do is carry that torch.
Be to her what Don Quixote was to Dulcinea.
Take the George Jones song "He Stopped Loving Her Today" as your guide.
2007-07-17 00:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just wait thats really all you can do if its really meant to be shell come back dont worry just become te best of friends with her you never knw with all the time the two of you be spending together she might see what shes missing ...you
2007-07-17 00:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by slanted eye cutiepie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on....you always want what you can't have...so cut your loses and find a new love!
2007-07-17 00:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what make u happy =)
2007-07-17 00:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by digitaljimmy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋